Ex girlfriend agreed to meet next month. Now what?
Q. My ex and I dated for 2.5 years, where in the process I let myself go mentally to places I never should have, and I refused to seek help for my emotional issues until recently. I ended up breaking her heart by lying to her, throwing her und...
A. 23 July 2016: I don't know her motive to want to meet, but I do know I will never do anything like I did to her ever again, whether it is dating her or someone else. The pain I caused her and myself is awful. I live with it daily. I think about it all the time. ... (read in full...)
Ex girlfriend agreed to meet next month. Now what?
Q. My ex and I dated for 2.5 years, where in the process I let myself go mentally to places I never should have, and I refused to seek help for my emotional issues until recently. I ended up breaking her heart by lying to her, throwing her und...
A. 22 July 2016: To clarify for those who are willing to read, I have not been constantly calling for texting her, and she was the one who said she thought we should meet, but I can't expect her to jump back into a relationship. Which I get. I understand. ... (read in full...)
Ex girlfriend agreed to meet next month. Now what?
Q. My ex and I dated for 2.5 years, where in the process I let myself go mentally to places I never should have, and I refused to seek help for my emotional issues until recently. I ended up breaking her heart by lying to her, throwing her und...
A. 19 July 2016: I know she doesn't owe me anything. I told her I wasn't going to pressure her or rush things or force her into anything. I merely said that if we are to have a future, we need to start from scratch and I didn't expect her to jump back into anything ... (read in full...)
Is she being unfair? Do I need to end the relationship?
Q. I'm having a bit of an issue with my girlfriend of a year and a half. We met and dated for a year long distance before she asked me to move in with her. Actually, she said we'd break up if I didn't, so I gave in and did it. I moved to a state where ...
A. 5 November 2015: Oh, I am working. I'm paying for half of the rent and all of her meals when we go out. I work more hours than she does and she's home often when I'm not, so not picking anything up is ridiculous. ... (read in full...)
Met a girl, suddenly she's super cold towards me
Q. I met a girl would a month ago through some mutual friends. We talked for a bit and exchanged numbers. We started texting daily and I began the long study period for my law school exams, so my social life became nonexistent. After about tw...
A. 17 December 2013: That is what I am thinking. She just wants attention and when she gets it, she moves on.
She was asking me to take her out for the longest time too, which is the only thing that was keeping me from thinking she just wanted a chase, and because ... (read in full...)
Met a girl, suddenly she's super cold towards me
Q. I met a girl would a month ago through some mutual friends. We talked for a bit and exchanged numbers. We started texting daily and I began the long study period for my law school exams, so my social life became nonexistent. After about tw...
A. 17 December 2013: That is my thought...that she likes the chase and once I gave in and saw her, she was uninterested. I also thought maybe she was mad and felt rejected I didn't have sex with her or that I failed to make a move on her the next day when she begged me ... (read in full...)
Lashed out at a friend, feel awful and need advice
Q. I need a bit of advice from some random people. I have an idea of what I need to do, but I am always open to others opinions. Anyway, where do I begin. I started hanging out with this girl back in February as friends. We literally started doing ev...
A. 1 October 2013: Well, I emailed her an apology last Thursday. So far I haven't gotten any reply, and I assume I won't for a while. I have no idea if we will ever speak again, but I said my peace, and I'm pretty sure she read it.
I'm not sure if I will approach... (read in full...)
Lashed out at a friend, feel awful and need advice
Q. I need a bit of advice from some random people. I have an idea of what I need to do, but I am always open to others opinions. Anyway, where do I begin. I started hanging out with this girl back in February as friends. We literally started doing ev...
A. 5 September 2013: Currently, I plan to apologize to her next week. It will have been a few weeks since our fight. Whether she ever chooses to talk to me again is her call, but I do need to let her know I am genuinely sorry for saying what I said to her. She's free to ... (read in full...)
Lashed out at a friend, feel awful and need advice
Q. I need a bit of advice from some random people. I have an idea of what I need to do, but I am always open to others opinions. Anyway, where do I begin. I started hanging out with this girl back in February as friends. We literally started doing ev...
A. 3 September 2013: The more I talk this over with people, the less I think an apology is in order. From the sound of it, she has some major issues and apologizing to her about what I did will only reinforce her idea that she is completely fine. Who is proud of having ... (read in full...)
Lashed out at a friend, feel awful and need advice
Q. I need a bit of advice from some random people. I have an idea of what I need to do, but I am always open to others opinions. Anyway, where do I begin. I started hanging out with this girl back in February as friends. We literally started doing ev...
A. 2 September 2013: I actually never called her a whore in or questioned her morals. I went back and read our fight tonight. I just told her I felt she was using me for all I could give her while she also slept with other random guys, and that I had been a big defender ... (read in full...)
Lashed out at a friend, feel awful and need advice
Q. I need a bit of advice from some random people. I have an idea of what I need to do, but I am always open to others opinions. Anyway, where do I begin. I started hanging out with this girl back in February as friends. We literally started doing ev...
A. 31 August 2013: I don't intend to use the alcohol as an excuse, period. While it's true this would have ended differently had it not been for my environment, I can't go back and change it. I can't take back what I said. I just need to apologize to her, for real... (read in full...)
Lashed out at a friend, feel awful and need advice
Q. I need a bit of advice from some random people. I have an idea of what I need to do, but I am always open to others opinions. Anyway, where do I begin. I started hanging out with this girl back in February as friends. We literally started doing ev...
A. 31 August 2013: I guess the root of the problem to is I miss her friendship already. In hindsight, I should never have said anything to her about what she did, simply stopped sleeping with her and continued our friendship. But I was drunk and peer pressured and ... (read in full...)
How should FWB relationships operate? Do guys get jealous if she sleeps with other guys in a FWB?
Q. I was just reading an Article about FWB relationships. The guy in the article stated a guy who is in a FWB relationship can still feel jealous if the girl sleep with any other guy. Even though they aren't emotionally attached to each other. W...
A. 31 August 2013: I find I get jealous/protective regardless of the relationship I have with a girl. I'm not sure if it's some primal feeling or not, but even if a girl I was friends with started sleeping around, I'd feel like she was doing something wrong. That's ... (read in full...)
Lashed out at a friend, feel awful and need advice
Q. I need a bit of advice from some random people. I have an idea of what I need to do, but I am always open to others opinions. Anyway, where do I begin. I started hanging out with this girl back in February as friends. We literally started doing ev...
A. 31 August 2013: I felt it would have gotten worse had we met face to face at 2am on a Saturday night. Also, she never made an offer to explain herself. She told me we could meet to talk about what was bothering me. She never said she wanted to have the chance to ... (read in full...)
Lashed out at a friend, feel awful and need advice
Q. I need a bit of advice from some random people. I have an idea of what I need to do, but I am always open to others opinions. Anyway, where do I begin. I started hanging out with this girl back in February as friends. We literally started doing ev...
A. 31 August 2013: Yes, I do care for her. She was my friend and I did my best to look out for her during our friendship. If I didn't care for her, I wouldn't even make an effort to right this wrong. I'd toss it aside, move on and do as the rest and tell everyone to ... (read in full...)
Lashed out at a friend, feel awful and need advice
Q. I need a bit of advice from some random people. I have an idea of what I need to do, but I am always open to others opinions. Anyway, where do I begin. I started hanging out with this girl back in February as friends. We literally started doing ev...
A. 30 August 2013: My apology, if I decide to get a card and write it:
"I feel awful for what I did to you and to our friendship, and I am ashamed at my behavior a few weeks ago. I have never felt this bad. The truth is, you did nothing wrong and did not deserve ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to have a relationship after a one night stand?
Q. I'm wondering if it's possible to have a relationship after a one-night stand. Basically, I got with a guy over a month ago in a nightclub and we exchanged numbers then we were texting pretty much every other day and he wanted to meet up and ...
A. 30 August 2013: The ugly truth is, most guys would never go for a girl who has one night stands..
If you do it with them, whats stopping you from doing it with someone else? It's just asking for us to be paranoid! ... (read in full...)
Lashed out at a friend, feel awful and need advice
Q. I need a bit of advice from some random people. I have an idea of what I need to do, but I am always open to others opinions. Anyway, where do I begin. I started hanging out with this girl back in February as friends. We literally started doing ev...
A. 30 August 2013: My apology immediately after wasn't sincere, and I know she could tell. I should have waited a few days following the fight to approach it, but I didn't, to add to my many mistakes. If we didn't run in some of the same social circles, I suppo... (read in full...)
Lashed out at a friend, feel awful and need advice
Q. I need a bit of advice from some random people. I have an idea of what I need to do, but I am always open to others opinions. Anyway, where do I begin. I started hanging out with this girl back in February as friends. We literally started doing ev...
A. 30 August 2013: And I did feel pretty bad in May too when she acted so ashamed that people thought we were together after she did all she could to make it look like we were. I am pretty well respected and I had no clue why she would be mortified about it.
She h... (read in full...)
Lashed out at a friend, feel awful and need advice
Q. I need a bit of advice from some random people. I have an idea of what I need to do, but I am always open to others opinions. Anyway, where do I begin. I started hanging out with this girl back in February as friends. We literally started doing ev...
A. 30 August 2013: I am not looking to get into a relationship with her. Honestly, I have a year left in grad school, neither one of us know what our future holds, and starting a relationship isn't something I am looking to do with her. I just feel bad about how I ... (read in full...)
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