I develop feelings early then grow cold. I can't hold down a relationship, help!
Q. Hi thanks for reading! My problem is that i cannot hold down a relationship and dont know whats wrong with me. I am 36 and a single mother of 2 lovely kids. I split with their dad 4 years ago after a really unpleasant relationship where he constant...
A. 13 May 2012: Thankyou all for your advice!
I am really trying to make this work and at the moment feel all loved up again... just hoping i can stay this way.
I do feel that it is me that ruins things and i do feel it is deep down due to the damage caused b... (read in full...)
How do I date him again when he broke up with me saying I had bad breath?
Q. I am so embarrassed! I have been seeing this guy for 2 years, last year we broke up because he was not being affectionate with me.. he then told me that i have really bad breath. I was devastated and went to the dentist and doctor to be checked out, ...
A. 3 January 2012: Thankyou for all the advice, i think what makes me wonder most is that when we are together he wont kiss me even when we make love, he used to all the time when we first met before bringing this up the first time. His sense of smell is realy good, ... (read in full...)
Why has he changed again? His excuse is he's afraid of me getting pregnant but I'm not so sure....
Q. Why has he changed again? I dated this guy 2 years ago now for a year, it eventually ended because i wanted more and told him i loved him and he stated he was 'fond' of me! I missed him terribly and we eventually got back together 5 months ago after ...
A. 16 December 2011: To Chalice, Thankyou so much for your support!
I have taken your advice and ended the relationship, he wouldnt even answer the phone to me so it was all done via text which in itself says it all!!
I feel so much better now already. Dear Cupid al... (read in full...)
Why has he changed again? His excuse is he's afraid of me getting pregnant but I'm not so sure....
Q. Why has he changed again? I dated this guy 2 years ago now for a year, it eventually ended because i wanted more and told him i loved him and he stated he was 'fond' of me! I missed him terribly and we eventually got back together 5 months ago after ...
A. 14 December 2011: Well i took your advice, called him up last night and asked to talk. He said it wasnt me and that he does like me a lot. I explained that i am looking to the future and wanting a proper relationship maybe living together etc... i suggested that i ... (read in full...)
Why has he changed again? His excuse is he's afraid of me getting pregnant but I'm not so sure....
Q. Why has he changed again? I dated this guy 2 years ago now for a year, it eventually ended because i wanted more and told him i loved him and he stated he was 'fond' of me! I missed him terribly and we eventually got back together 5 months ago after ...
A. 13 December 2011: Thankyou so much... i have suggested a vasectomy and his response was that he may want another child in the future. I have explained i dont want any more children unless its a joint decision and if need be would have an abortion if even with the ... (read in full...)
Have I over-reacted?
Q. Oh my goodness, what a day! Right... did i over react? My son has been ill all week with a chest infection, he is 9. His dad and i split 4 years ago and he has never been consistent in our childrens lives since. He can be brill with them when h...
A. 17 October 2011: Thankyou all for your support! I didnt sleep a wink last night worrying about it but my children are my world and the thought some random woman was left with them makes my blood boil!
I know i reacted a little childish but given the fact he let ... (read in full...)
I want to love him, but its just not happening
Q. Ok, i have been seeing this guy Dave for a year now. He is good looking , hard working and really kind to me and my two children from a previous relationship. The problem is no matter how hard i try i just dont get proper feelings for him. I thou...
A. 28 August 2011: Thanks everyone for your advice, just an update, i broke up with him yesterday.
I already feel better that i am not fretting about myself and blaming me for not having that spark with him.
Thankyou everyone for all the advice, without it i think ... (read in full...)
I want to love him, but its just not happening
Q. Ok, i have been seeing this guy Dave for a year now. He is good looking , hard working and really kind to me and my two children from a previous relationship. The problem is no matter how hard i try i just dont get proper feelings for him. I thou...
A. 24 August 2011: Thank you to all that have offered advice. My heart tells me no but my head tells me he is a really good guy, which i know he is. I so wish i could just push a button and create some feelings there, its such a shame! ... (read in full...)
At 6 months, shouldn't he know if he loves my by now? Or am I rushing things?
Q. Ok i need help! A bit of history is that my childrens father was a serial cheat throughout our 10 year long relationship, this ended 2 years ago. I t took me a while but i am now over it and feel really ready to move on. I dated a couple of guys ...
A. 27 July 2010: Yeah we are committed to one another, girlfriend/ boyfriend and stuff. We dont just sleep together, we do days out with the kids etc.
I just worry that i know how i feel about him and the more time we spend together the more i miss him when he goes... (read in full...)
At 6 months, shouldn't he know if he loves my by now? Or am I rushing things?
Q. Ok i need help! A bit of history is that my childrens father was a serial cheat throughout our 10 year long relationship, this ended 2 years ago. I t took me a while but i am now over it and feel really ready to move on. I dated a couple of guys ...
A. 27 July 2010: Thankyou for your messages, yeah he does make me happy and he does seem to have feelings for me. I think its a big deal for me as i spent 10 years with my ex who never said he loved me despite me telling him often, in the end i found out he was ... (read in full...)
In love with my cheating ex
Q. I need help!! I split with my kids dad almost 2 years ago after his constant cheating, he ran me up loads of debt as well and at the time wouldnt help me with our 2 children. Since we split i have tried to rebuild our lives, I paid my ex's debts of...
A. 26 November 2009: Thanks i know it makes sense to stay away. If i could press a button and get rid of my feeings i would. I think its the fact that its 2 years on and its not getting easier that makes me question the future so much. I dont know the best move..date or ... (read in full...)
Has my cheating ex changed?
Q. Has my cheating ex changed? I was with my ex Sam for 10 years, we lived together for 7 and had two children together. The problems started right from the beginning when he cheated on me when i was pregnant with my first child. He told me when he ...
A. 31 August 2009: Thankyou for your advice i agree with everything although i seem to not want to if you get me!! Its so hard when i still feel that heart fluttering stuff every time i am near him and want to cry every time he leaves.. I soooo need to get over him ... (read in full...)
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