My spouse won't so much as touch me anymore, I feel lost and lonely!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend(feels weird calling hon that after 17 years) since the age if 17, I'm 34 now. We have 2 children together and everything seemed fine until last August when his mom died (well maybe not fine but we had a physical ...
A. 19 July 2012: It sounds like he is deliberately sabotaging your relationship and treating you badly, hoping that you will break up with him. He lacks the courage to break up with you first.
The solution is communication. You both need to discuss how you feel... (read in full...)
My partner cheated and says he doesn't know why but it was 4 different times!
Q. Ok so here goes...After 9 years together and nearly two years Married, My partner has had a so called affair. I found out in June that he met another guy from an IPHONE app called Grindr, and this fella he met came into our home on 3 occasion...
A. 19 July 2012: You said you are at a loss due to this situation and don't know what to do? Firstly, please both you and your boyfriend remove grindr or jackd and any other networking apps that are designed and used solely for meeting people for sex. You do not ... (read in full...)
Is my girlfriend too good to be true or do people like her really exist?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for over a year and a half now and get on so well in every area of our relationship. Am I just seeing her through rose-tinted glasses or do people like her really exist? I keep thinking something's boun...
A. 13 July 2012: Wow it's great that you can consciously acknowledge all these good things you have with your girlfriend. You have been together for 1.5 years and yet you still sound as though you're in the honeymoon period! Which you may or may not be.
You s... (read in full...)
How can a gay guy feel comfortable around straight guys?
Q. I'm a gay male that acts masculine. Not everyone knows I'm gay but I'm afraid to be around other guys. I feel much better being around women. When I get around guys I feel like I don't fit in. I fill like a alien. I don't act feminine at all but ...
A. 6 July 2012: Welcome to being gay! It is really common for us to feel exactly as you describe, I certainly do, and my close friends are either women or other gay men.
It might help if you build up your self-confidence and self-esteem, but this will happen n... (read in full...)
Is my partner the one for me or not?
Q. Is my partner the one for me or not? I was 18 when my I first met my boyfriend. He was my first real boyfriend and we have been together for 10 years (I'm now 28). We have lived together for 8 of those years. He is the one who fell head ov...
A. 4 July 2012: Thanks everyone for your advice, I really appreciate it! I have been carefully considering everything so much over the past month and am still struggling, and as of yet still haven't broken up as some advised.
For everyone who suggested taking a... (read in full...)
Not in love with wife and never have been, very depressed
Q. I became an alcoholic and drug addict when I was 15 years old. I met my wife when I was 17, she was 14. I am now almost 33 years old. When we met, I was drunk and high everyday, and the relationship was for me simply a sexual relationship but she ...
A. 25 June 2012: It's been a year, just wondering how it turned out?
I'm in a similar position to you although I don't have the same life story of course. I've been in a long term relationship and don't believe I have ever really loved my partner the way I should... (read in full...)
He's a great guy but I'm not sure he is the one.....do I only feel like this because I don't have any previous relationships to compare this to?
Q. Is my boyfriend not the one for me? Or do I just not see it because I have no previous relationship experience and therefore no one to compare him to? I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and we live together. Ever since we moved in I’ve...
A. 12 June 2012: I am in a similar situation although I've dragged on for longer than you. I'm interested to know whether you have resolved this situation or if you are still confused?... (read in full...)
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