How else do I show my long distance cheating girlfriend that I love her?
Q. I am in a complicated relationship with my girlfriend. We both have a distance between us which has affected our relationship . I found out a few weeks ago that she had been sleeping with her ex gf which made me very upset. She opplpgised to me and ...
A. 3 October 2017: Dump her, being young she hasn't learned appreciation and respect and you're only going to enable her to do what she wants if you stick with her.... (read in full...)
What should I do as I see my husband is not using his own proportion in his family? Should I support him to keep independent and works extremely hard like this?
Q. I need honest opinion. My husband is the youngest and only son in his family. Got 2 older sisters. We are asian. We just married for a couple months ago. I found out recently that his sister has a glamourous lifestyle eventhough she keep borrow ...
A. 3 October 2017: Let it go and definitely support him. What's going to happen when his parents pass if he didn't establish himself at a younger age? Also I saw this with my family and I was in your husband's position. I valued people working with me more to achieve ... (read in full...)
I deserve better than to be ghosted by someone that I thought cared about me
Q. We were close friends (according to him) but our feelings for each other complicated things. He shied away from having a relationship. He told me he was scared to be a rebound, because his last relationship was a rebound and ended miserably. I was ...
A. 3 October 2017: I think the dude got scared and ran when you rejected his advances. He probably thought like great this is my chance, she's single and when you friend zoned him he didn't want anything of it. You didn't seem like you really wanted to be with him or ... (read in full...)
How do I control these erections I get so easily?
Q. Hello everyone! I've got sort of an awkward issue, and I'm going to try to make this brief. I get erections incredibly easily and it's starting to annoy me. Especially around my girlfriend. I'm a very physical person, it's how I show affection, ...
A. 3 October 2017: Bro, chances are she already knows. Especially if your cuddling. Just be chill.... (read in full...)
I feel so guilty about leaving my abusive ex
Q. Hi, I previously asked for advice regarding a relationship I was in for 3 years with a guy I lived with who was controlling and violent. It went on for a number of years and last December I cheated on him with a guy who had been keen on me for a wh...
A. 3 October 2017: Sounds like you're having FOMO. Fear of missing out. You made a choice and although I don't agree with you cheating, I also don't agree with him lashing out. Either way, the main thing behind this sounds like there was a communication breakdown that ... (read in full...)
Why can a woman reject sex but if her boyfriend does it, it's the worst thing ever?
Q. Why does a female get so offended when you reject her from any pleasure? I been in relationship nearly 4 / 5 years. She doesn’t have same sex drive as me, she felt up for it once in our week long holiday, but because I’m so used to not having it she ...
A. 3 October 2017: One simple answer man, spend more time playing with each other. Sweet talking and fooling around, forget about getting right to the sex. You wanna turn your woman on you got to get sensual and flirt, play coy and let the cat and mouse game begin. ... (read in full...)
I'm heartbroken but he said he wouldn't get back together with me because I was acting crazy!
Q. Okay so I'm looking for a little perspective... I was dating this guy (both in our early to mid 20s) for 6 months. During this time it got very intense. In the beginning he was incredible... suggested we go on holiday together after 1 month, a...
A. 3 October 2017: Boy there's a lot here. I was in a similar situation with a girl like you but I was more considerate. Unfortunately a lot of the other statements about control are spot on. Learning to vocalize your feelings about displeasure is an important lesson ... (read in full...)
Will men care if I live at home?
Q. Will men care if I don't have my own place? I am 31 years old and I have been hit with a financial hardship in life at the moment. For the first time in my life I am trying to not care what people think and focus on solving my financial situation ...
A. 3 October 2017: I'll say yes, most people at this stage in their life want to build things if they're in a relationship and if someone is still living at home, unless you really become good friends with a guy before you date, it can feel like a big barrier.... (read in full...)
Feeling the pain but finding it hard to let go
Q. Hi, I went through an extremely bad breakup lately and it has left me reeling worse than any other breakup and has shaken my confidence, as well as my desire to date. But the worst is that I still contain feelings for the girl even though she did ...
A. 3 October 2017: I guess the real problem is that I do want her back and she is never coming back, nor will she talk to me. We got together during a rough time, shortly after we started dating a lot of people passed on both sides. I wish we could see each other now ... (read in full...)
Feeling the pain but finding it hard to let go
Q. Hi, I went through an extremely bad breakup lately and it has left me reeling worse than any other breakup and has shaken my confidence, as well as my desire to date. But the worst is that I still contain feelings for the girl even though she did ...
A. 3 October 2017: Thanks man, I think I needed to hear that. I still got a lot to figure out and its rattling around in my head and just having someone say calm down and figure it out has helped quell my anxiety. It's good to have someone give me honest feedback.
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Why do many lesbian relationships end by going on the rebound?
Q. I've got a general question about relationships and wonder if anyone else can relate to what I'm going through. I am a 33 year old lesbian. I've dated women since I was 18, but one thing I have never understood about women, particularly lesbians, is ...
A. 13 September 2017: Wow, this is pretty much to a T what I just posted. My ex was the same way, she swore up and down that she loved me but I still felt like she was just with me to be in a relationship, not because she loved me. All I can say is it sucks. The glamour ... (read in full...)
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