All my boyfriend does is play video games. Is he just not into me?
Q. About a month and a half ago I moved in with my boyfriend, and so far things really aren't going well. I am 26 and he is 23. We don't argue really at all, and when we are actually interacting we have a pretty good time. I'm fairly independent, and ...
A. 6 March 2013: Actions speak louder then words. Men can talk pretty, but if they don't back it up it's only empty words. If you want a relatable story; there once was a woman who fell in love with a man, but the man liked to play games and read manga on his iPh... (read in full...)
Is it fair for him to leave without paying his fair share of the bills and rent?
Q. This isn't so much as a relationship question as it's a family one. My cousin and I have been living together for the last two years. We've split every bill down the middle since we first moved in. Even the deposit for the apartment. The probl...
A. 6 March 2013: We need more specific details. As of the first of the month will his name be officially off the lease and has he already submitted a 30 day notice?
If not then technically he does owe on the next months rent because the contract he signed has not ... (read in full...)
After 5 months he says he's not ready to be a boyfriend and would wind up cheating on me!
Q. sorry this is pretty long but i appreciate you reading. i need your help. i've been seeing this guy for a little over 5 months now but we're not official. when we first met, he had just broken up with his long-term girlfriend and it was still ver...
A. 4 March 2013: I'm backing Cerberus up on this one. This guy is playing the flute and getting you to dance to his tune... Why buy the cow when you can milk the cow for free?
I don't mean to be harsh when I say that but that's the situation.
And as far as... (read in full...)
My wife cheated and I want to keep our family together but how do I get over the images in my head?
Q. Hello. I write to you today because I recently found out that my lovely wife, best friend, and mother of my 3 lovely children has had an ongoing sexual relationship for the last 10 years. I found emails from the two of them on her laptop and they ...
A. 4 March 2013: Leaving her isn't the only option to get over this. It's going to be a long hard battle, but it can be done. You're going to have to keep forgiving your wife, and the man she was fooling around with. I'm telling you to forgive him for your sak... (read in full...)
Do you think this is a legitimate reason to end an engagement?
Q. Is this a legitimate reason to end an 3 month engagement and a four year relationship? February 25th 2013, I’m 23 and my ex-fiancé is the same age. 4 months ago my fiancé broke up with me because of something I did, or rather did not do, a few da...
A. 28 February 2013: The question your asking is honestly subjective to the person you're asking. For me, no. I think that's a petty reason to end the engagement, but to someone else it probably seems justified.... (read in full...)
I need help overcoming my addiction to prostitutes
Q. Hi I've been seeing prostitutes for 15 years. It started off out of boredom. I have always had a strong sexual appetite, I started masturbating from a young age. Every time I use a prostitute I beat myself up about it. At first I had protecte...
A. 28 February 2013: Accountability is what you need. When people are dealing with addictions they need an accountability partner or two, and that person will not be your wife. You need to find two friends who will back you up and be your support. It sucks getting ho... (read in full...)
Would you apologise again or just leave things as they are?
Q. Long story short, I made a bit of an ass of myself at my friend's 40th birthday party at the weekend. We all got together on Saturday and spent the weekend together, I only really know the husband and wife who were giving the party, the other...
A. 27 February 2013: I wouldn't worry about it, unless she brought it up which I don't think she will. It's water under the bridge, which she pretty much said with 'drawing the line.' ... (read in full...)
He wants to be friends yet flirted with me. Where do I stand?
Q. I'm a junior in high school and i like this Guy a lot. He is a grade below me but he's only 2 months younger than me. He had a gf but they broke up a few days after he found out that i like him. I didn't actually tell him myself until after they ...
A. 25 February 2013: In high school I flirted for fun. My friends flirted for fun. Unfortunately it lead a lot of my friends to fall for me, which then I'll cool off flirting with them and find someone else (because I don't like leading people on), but for this guy it ... (read in full...)
Instead of telling me why she loved me she told me about the stuff that bugs her
Q. Last night I laid down next to my girlfriend and said "I love you" and she asked me to tell her why. So I started listing all of the things that I love about her. Then I asked her to tell me what she thought. She started by bringing up an argument ...
A. 22 February 2013: This happens and it's normal. Not pleasant but normal. Me and my spouse when we were dating starting nit picking into each other. Like seriously it would go back and forth. Like one month I would dig into him, and a month later he would dig into me ... (read in full...)
How do we resolve our major differences? We get along so well!
Q. Hi, So this story starts off pretty normal: I met my now BF about seven years ago and we started dating 18 months ago. The relationship started off really slowly because niether of us had ever been in a relationship before. The problom comes with ...
A. 22 February 2013: You're right in saying you're young, as is he. :) You both have a lot of growing up to do in many areas which will happen over time. In regards to his beliefs and yours, I know several people who are devout in their faith (Some Catholic, and so... (read in full...)
We're both about to be single -- should I tell him how I feel?
Q. Hi there, this is driving me nuts, and I'm not sure if I should move forward and do this, so I figured I would ask a forum of people! hope you guys can help me out. So, about 6 years ago, I met an awesome guy at work, after he was hired to he...
A. 22 February 2013: I'm going to make this short because I think this quote applies:
"Nothing ventured, nothing gained."
At least that's the vibe I'm getting off of hearing what you have to say. He has show his interest, time to show yours :)
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Has he Lost Interest in me After Only Two Months?
Q. Hi everyone (: My boyfriend and I are dating since two months and a half, I know it's not a long time, but it has been a lot since I had a "serious" relarionship. I am not the kind of girl that wants her boyfriend to call her every time, or text her...
A. 21 February 2013: Your English is fine, never would have guessed you were Italian :) Confront him about the issue. I can't say he's not interested or is, because men are different and sometimes infuriating creatures. My hubby was very smilar and if I didn't init... (read in full...)
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