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I'm worried my boyfriend would leave me if his mother told him to

Q.   I've been dating A for 5 months now and things have been better than all my other past relationships luckily. I've been thinking a lot about our future, but one thing seems to get in the way, and that's his mother. He's Mexican and his family is ...

A.   9 December 2016: Honeypie, she has a car of her own and another son that also can help her out. ... (read in full...)

How do I tell my boss that I can't come to work as I'm already booked to attend a convention? Not sure how to break the news.

Q.   Modnote: poster clarified that she holds 2 jobs. One weekdays Mon-Fri and one part time at weekends. .............................................................. I work as a Nanny full-time 9-5 Monday through Friday. A week or so ago, she told me ...

A.   19 May 2015: Well, thanks Honeypie for being the only person to answer. I did end up telling her about the vacation shortly after this post and she got an attitude with me, but she had no choice to accept it. ... (read in full...)

My wife wants children and I don't she knew this when we married. Am I selfish?

Q.   My Wife thinks I'm selfish because I don't want to have children, whereas she is desperate. I'm 29 and she is 30, we've been together 5 years, married just under 1 year. To be honest I don't like kids, I've never understood the appeal of children. ...

A.   15 April 2015: No it's not selfish of you, but its definitely a topic that you guys should of had before you guys got married. Honestly, whenever I'm looking for a person to date, the person must at least want a few kids, because I want a family of my own. My ... (read in full...)

She's 18 and I'm 15. Met online. Never talked on phone. Never met in person. Should I do as we planned or what?

Q.   Hello Aunts and uncles! So, I met this girl some time ago (maybe 6-ish months or more) she's 18 and I'm 15. We both have admitted to liking each other, and we've sent pictures of each other (her more than me because it's a bit more difficul...

A.   21 January 2015: Sounds more of a set up. She can send photos but can't talk on the phone nor skype or oovoo? Seems like a predator or someone who really are who they are. Don't move in without for sure knowing who this person is. ... (read in full...)

I feel like I'm losing a friend. So should I just let it go?

Q.   I've been friends with my best friend for almost 2 years now. We met via PSN (PlayStation Network) and met in person this past November in Washington, D.C when I was visiting family. He's the type of friend that I could always go to when I need ...

A.   14 January 2015: Oh and I left out that he comes to me with his problems as well, more than me at times, and I always have an open ear. When I give him advice, he is quickly to shut them down, like he would make excuses to not to do them. Most of the time, I just ... (read in full...)

We've been dating for 2 days and I'm wondering how to tell him that I want to wait to have sex?

Q.   So I'm dating a new guy for about 2 days now. I'm 20 and hes 28. We meet at an anime convention in 2011 and ever since we've always seemed to constantly bump into one another all the time around town (for A-----, that's rare especially if you two ...

A.   9 June 2014: I meant I don't want to have sex unless its with the person I love. Thanks chigirl for pointing that out.... (read in full...)

As I haven't heard from my boyfriend in over a month, does that mean I'm single?

Q.   It's been about 4 or 5 weeks since I've spoken or even remotely heard from my boyfriend. About this time last month he asked me to pay his phone bill. I politely declined because I thought it was too early in the relationship to be asking to pay one ...

A.   3 April 2014: Thanks guys for the advice. I'm over it and am no longer upset. If it were a relationship, he would have at least borrowed someone's phone just to tell me that he was alright and to keep me updated on what's happening. But he didn't. Oh well, ... (read in full...)

Should I move in with a friend to get away from troubled family situation?

Q.   Hey! I'm 20 and I have a friend that offered me to move with him to New York. Even though I only knew him since early September late august, I consider him as a brother. We talk from the time I wake up to the time I go to sleep. Right now I live in ...

A.   28 January 2014: Oh and and I left out hes gay and he doesn't live in NYC he lives else where. ... (read in full...)

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