I could care less for my biological Mom...is this wrong?
Q. Im 19 years and about to graduate high school. My life couldn't be better, even though it's not perfect. I was adopted by my grandparents when I was a baby, after my biological mother had me at the age of 16 but couldn't take care of me. My ...
A. 13 March 2010: I was a teenage unmarried Mum like your biological Mum. I do not exactly what she has done to make you so angry at her. I do know that there can be alot of emotional trauma involved in having a child when you are a teenager. I am 48 and had my ... (read in full...)
I really want to know if we have a future!
Q. Having sex with my sex buddy for a year. both have us have recently come out of long term relationships. I am not ready to have a full on new relationship. But would like to know if we do have a future. He dosent give much away and says he likes me ...
A. 2 March 2010: At least he's honest with you. I do not see any other choice but to take him at his word. He told you he does not love you and he will not even go for a meal with you. I would end it before you get hurt.... (read in full...)
I'm not getting any younger, and I want a chance at happiness. Would it be selfish to leave my partner?
Q. I have two young boys with my partner of ten years. It seems that most of those years have been a series of mounting stresses. My partner has always had difficulty with intemacy; relating to some abuse experienced as a child, but I have always had a ...
A. 2 March 2010: I'll give you a fourth opinion. The second one from a female. I could not disagree more with the anonymous female. If you really have supported your wife the way you say you have there comes a time when she must be responsible for her own problems. ... (read in full...)
He wants to come first, over my child
Q. I am a single mom with a 4 year old son. My boyfriend has a small issue of me not putting my son to bed before 9pm, so that we could have sex. We don't live together, we live 15 minutes apart. The thing is that he sometimes gets tired at 8pm and he ...
A. 20 February 2010: I am not going to comment on your boyfriend. I am just going to tell you about my own personal experience with my son. When he was your sons age I used to let him stay up and play. This became a problem when he reached school age because he was used ... (read in full...)
He forced himself on me, but I love him even more now! Should I dump him?
Q. sooo this is going to be a long. ahh i dont know where to startt.. alright im 15 and my boyfriends 21. we've only been dating for almost a month on the 24th. i made it clear that i was a virgin and he understood that. he told me that he used to do a ...
A. 19 February 2010: You really need to go to the doctor for the "morning after pill" because there is a chance you may be pregnant. This guy is not a doctor. Please move very quickly (today). You only have short time.... (read in full...)
Is 4 sexual partners a high number for a 21 year old?
Q. I just broke up with my boyfriend and we only dated for 2 months and he was basically using me for sex, I posted a question about it a couple hours ago and recieved good respones. My question now is- I am 21 and have had sex with 4 people. Is that a ...
A. 19 February 2010: I does not matter how many men you have had sex with. It is as individual as you are. Do not let any self-righteous idiot judge you either. Those people only want to feel better about themselves by putting others down. No one is perfect enough to ... (read in full...)
I try to maintain the "I'm fine as I am" stance, but most guys seem to go for the trophy girl sort
Q. I have always thought that it was best to be myself- people always say "just be yourself" but then you have the Hollywood idea where looks are everything. Perfect hair, tight clothes, no brains. (Apparently it isn't "cool" to be smart or ...
A. 12 January 2010: Most men want a woman with brains as a serious girlfriend. They of course do not want a know-it-all or someone who is constantly trying to prove their intelligence. Men also want a girl who is attractive. They do not want one who looks like a hooker ... (read in full...)
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