I feel like he rejected me when I most needed him
Q. I have sexually lost interest in my husband of three years. I find his touch annoying. We have had our share of problems. Am suddenly remembering all the past hurt and just get turned off. One of them is that when we were dating, he made me beg for ...
A. 5 September 2022: Its been nine years since I posted this and I have not regained my interest in sex with my husband. I still find him repulsive. I have learnt to live in a *sexless" marriage. ... (read in full...)
My husband refuses to acknowledge my children from a previous relationship
Q. Am 39 years married to my husband for six years. I had two children before marriage. On of them her dad is alive but is not interested in financially supporting her or co parenting. The other his dad passed on. I hve two more kids with my husband ...
A. 5 September 2022: I was looking at this and my life now. Well, my kids have grown. They no longer need attention from him. I think I did a good job raising them. He started complaining about how they ignore his existence now as young adults. I proudly reminded him ... (read in full...)
My husband's behavior gives me migraine headaches
Q. I have been married for five years and recently developed migraine headache. The unfortunate part is apart from inadequate sleep, my husband is always the migraine headache trigger. He can be nasty and moody at times and this causes a reaction in ...
A. 10 February 2016: Thanks for your advice. I will try to discuss it with him and see how it can be sorted. However, I have resolved to go away for a little while just to have a breather. I already have a headache from his nastiness just after spending an hour with ... (read in full...)
My anger is turning into depression - I want my husband to leave
Q. I have been married for four years. My husband has been emotionally abusive. He ignores me, wants me to plead for attention, for sex, calls me a whore, tells me he cant kiss me because am disgusting and all sorts of stuff. I have kids, and he does ...
A. 6 August 2014: thank you so much for your advice. divorce is not so difficult in my country. i dont really know how much it can cost, but i think i can afford. i think in the meantime i will look at pushing him out of the house to leave me alone with the kids. i ... (read in full...)
My husband says I ask too many questions! How do I deal with it?
Q. i have been married for a year and my hubby says i ask too many unecessary questions?. he gets irritated. the problem is i dont seem to know what is ok and not ok to ask? eg, we went grocery shoping and he asked me to pick items. i asked him how ...
A. 4 November 2013: I just got an accurate answer to why my husband used to be irritated by asking him questions. i work for the intelligence and he is in the private sector and sometime his employers do some illigal stuff like evading tax. so now that he knows me ... (read in full...)
Should I foster or adopt a child against my boyfriend's advice?
Q. I have a boyfriend of six months who is against my idea of fostering a child. My idea is to adopt a child if i dont get married, and i would like to start with fostering. I realise i have been puting my plans on 'hold' waitng for marriage.I havent ...
A. 1 July 2013: as an update, i actually fostered a boy, who is now 6. i got him three years ago. we got married about a year after i got him and things have not been easy. the boy was emotionaly abused and spanked several times. i had to involve family for my ... (read in full...)
How can I look out for my foster son?
Q. I fostered a child three years ago, and the child is now 6. He was abandoned by his parents when he was a baby. I got him before I got married. Am now married and my husband has had a hard time accepting the boy. He is just plain cold towards him, ...
A. 1 July 2013: Thanks for your advice. am thinking firing the nanny would be the best. i will talk to hubby also to change. he was actually worse than this, he used to literely spank the child, and shout. at one point the child was beaten so hard he was swollen ... (read in full...)
Things have gone from bad to worse since I told the truth. What should I do now?
Q. I hurt my husband badly and I apologised for that, but his reaction makes me feel like withdrawing my apology. We have been married for a year. We dated for two years before marrying. It was a terrible time for me. During this time, I did the begg...
A. 9 August 2012: thanks for the advice. for the one year we got married, he treated me well, and all the complaints i had during dating were not there. he stopped shouting (i set the limits and told him off). things became bad when i told him about the news of the ... (read in full...)
My husband says I ask too many questions! How do I deal with it?
Q. i have been married for a year and my hubby says i ask too many unecessary questions?. he gets irritated. the problem is i dont seem to know what is ok and not ok to ask? eg, we went grocery shoping and he asked me to pick items. i asked him how ...
A. 10 February 2012: thanks for the advice. am actualy financialy independent and earn more than him, and been running my home, keeping my child and 3 dependants 7 years before we married, whilst he was living with his brother before we married.was counseled before ... (read in full...)
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