Am I the best my older b/f can get? He makes me feel really bad!
Q. Help! I can't figure out what to do. I'm a beautiful, fit, extremely intelligent young woman with a great sense of humor and acceptance. I get along great with almost anyone. Most men I meet develop crushes on me, and a lot of women at work ar...
A. 28 August 2012: Hey I totally agree with the rest. One, the very fact that you have posted this question means that you have doubts - and rightly so. If he can't appreciate you for who you are he doesn't deserve you - end of. I am very similiar to you in the ... (read in full...)
Manipulative, controlling husband now doing the same to the kids!
Q. Hi, I've been to the forum before and it's really helped a lot since I am I'm the course of splitting from my husband of over 12 years whose been manipulative, controlling and not social at all. We have kids (9 and 4). Now my husband will leave ...
A. 22 July 2012: Thanks and thats me done with this forum. Some of the responses are rather upsetting. Thanks to those who have been more supportive and constructive. Bye ... (read in full...)
Manipulative, controlling husband now doing the same to the kids!
Q. Hi, I've been to the forum before and it's really helped a lot since I am I'm the course of splitting from my husband of over 12 years whose been manipulative, controlling and not social at all. We have kids (9 and 4). Now my husband will leave ...
A. 21 July 2012: No dear anonymous - the cycle won't go on - no rinse and repeat. I stated he sent me mail but I don't believe a word of it - I'd rather spend my life without a man than with one like him. Abella you're a star - it's not easy. But dear anonymous I am ... (read in full...)
Manipulative, controlling husband now doing the same to the kids!
Q. Hi, I've been to the forum before and it's really helped a lot since I am I'm the course of splitting from my husband of over 12 years whose been manipulative, controlling and not social at all. We have kids (9 and 4). Now my husband will leave ...
A. 21 July 2012: Thanks abella - true so out of line. I set him a the reply to suggest that he needs to sort himself out or will send the kids elsewhere or go away to which he says are you trying to suggest I am not a good dad? He just doesn't get it. At first I ... (read in full...)
How do I make my boyfriend break up with me ?
Q. He is 26. I am 19. We are in a serious relationship and we have gone far in our relation. But he is very much possesive and feels insecure all the time.. He puts alot of restrictions on me.. He is very much bossy.. He decides where to go, where not ...
A. 21 July 2012: You must leave him. My boyfriend did the same and today after so long of being married I am finding the strength to leave - he won't try suicide. My husband who was then my boyfriend tried slitting his wrist showing me signs and I gave in - but it's ... (read in full...)
Manipulative, controlling husband now doing the same to the kids!
Q. Hi, I've been to the forum before and it's really helped a lot since I am I'm the course of splitting from my husband of over 12 years whose been manipulative, controlling and not social at all. We have kids (9 and 4). Now my husband will leave ...
A. 21 July 2012: Thanks guys - this is really helpful and I'll definitely get the books. It's very upsetting since he continued his tantrum this morning telling her she had been selfish and later when I interfered telling me that i was making her just like me about ... (read in full...)
What are my options? He will not be social. Tells me to go alone. Trust is shattered. Help!
Q. After being married for 12 years and two little children, I've told my husband I can take it no more and I want out of this marriage. He has always been anti social making excuses about why he doesn’t want to go to gatherings and then saying I...
A. 2 July 2012: Thanks.Also in trying to convince me to carry on with him he also suggested that i stay with him since in his words 'You will be unhappy as it is so you may as well stay with me coz in that way atleast you will be partially happy that you can go ... (read in full...)
I told my husband I want to end the marriage and now he's acting all pitiful
Q. After being married for 12 years I've told my husband I can take it no more and I want out. He's been cheating which I found out and even after that I've put up for 3 years. We have 2 kids and I have been telling him since a year that I am not happy ...
A. 26 May 2012: Thanks guys agree - totally not a mistake and now even though he's very handsome his face makes me sick ad he's not allowed to touch me. I'll have to get him out of the house and engage a lawyer soon. I also think Ill need a counsellor coz while my ... (read in full...)
Marriage over. How do I restart my social life and start developing a circle of friends?
Q. I have just said good bye to a pretty rough patch in life and a controlling husband and therefore have practically no social life. I want to begin having a social life - i have two kids AND a full time job so i'll have to make the effort and it wont...
A. 21 May 2012: Unfortunately we Stil live together due to logistical challenges. I have told him to move out and he's looking for a job in another city but until then we live together amicably but I want to start moving out to make it clear that I am beginning to ... (read in full...)
Marriage over. How do I restart my social life and start developing a circle of friends?
Q. I have just said good bye to a pretty rough patch in life and a controlling husband and therefore have practically no social life. I want to begin having a social life - i have two kids AND a full time job so i'll have to make the effort and it wont...
A. 21 May 2012: thanks, i love the idea of contacting some of my older friends - i do miss them a lot and will be very good to reconnect! though 12 years is a long time but i'll try my best!... (read in full...)
Marriage over. How do I restart my social life and start developing a circle of friends?
Q. I have just said good bye to a pretty rough patch in life and a controlling husband and therefore have practically no social life. I want to begin having a social life - i have two kids AND a full time job so i'll have to make the effort and it wont...
A. 21 May 2012: No i havent heard of it before but just saw the site - thanks for the suggestion!... (read in full...)
Need help! Really need to get the liar back for what he did.
Q. So basically it's been a long night, my boyfriend well now ex has decided to tell me that he cheated on me, obviously it has really hurt, but I need a way to get him back. I know I shouldn't sink down to his level but I'm going to do it anyway, he ...
A. 15 May 2012: Lol, move on with ur life. The loser is not worth ur time.... (read in full...)
I need an exit strategy to get out of this marriage!
Q. My husband who claims to love me a lot, has cheated on me and even after being togehther 4 years since them, there seems to be little regret and there are other aspects like his fuss over appearances and a selfish moody nature that make me feel like ...
A. 5 May 2012: By morning he was a changed man, says I just can not imagine my life without you, just want to be with you, will do whatever u say. I have told him my patents know about it so it's dawned on him that I am serious and not just threatening. He has ... (read in full...)
I need an exit strategy to get out of this marriage!
Q. My husband who claims to love me a lot, has cheated on me and even after being togehther 4 years since them, there seems to be little regret and there are other aspects like his fuss over appearances and a selfish moody nature that make me feel like ...
A. 5 May 2012: It's a shame but he got to know coz when he came home he asked why I've been so grumpy and dont respond to conversation like I did before. I said nothing - have told you I've been thinking so just need some time and he said tell me now if u love me ... (read in full...)
I need an exit strategy to get out of this marriage!
Q. My husband who claims to love me a lot, has cheated on me and even after being togehther 4 years since them, there seems to be little regret and there are other aspects like his fuss over appearances and a selfish moody nature that make me feel like ...
A. 4 May 2012: thanks - i said this to him last year that its not working for me and i want out and he started being really immature - cooking his own food (not doing his own laundry!), moing about separately and really childish behaviour where we cant have any ... (read in full...)
I need an exit strategy to get out of this marriage!
Q. My husband who claims to love me a lot, has cheated on me and even after being togehther 4 years since them, there seems to be little regret and there are other aspects like his fuss over appearances and a selfish moody nature that make me feel like ...
A. 4 May 2012: Hey thanks, sorry i forgot to mention i work full time and i actually earn more than he does so funds are not an issue at all. Its the living inthe same city, with no family and friends that i cant figure out. My job needs me to be here and because ... (read in full...)
My husband is getting more and more controlling of my appearance
Q. First, it was the clothing: dresses, skirts, tights, blouses. I'm not allowed jeans, trainers, flipflops, T-shirts, track suits. I'm barely allowed tasteful trousers. Then, it was telling me how much jewellery I can wear. Then, it was th...
A. 17 April 2012: hey - i was very amazed to read your question cozit felt like i was reading out my own story a few years ago and actually even now though to a lesser extent. read my situation inthe question posted on 13th called confused swinger and really a bad ... (read in full...)
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