She said she wanted to back off
Q. Hello all, yes I have had another problem in my relationship and would like to know peoples thoughts. After my previous posts.. We got back together this time I stood back and tried not to think to much into things that may bother me (ie photos) ...
A. 12 April 2009: Seems silly now when I toock her pressy va I found her with the guy who was from the pics I had seen months before!!!!!! Guess the truth is out ther and now i have to dust myself off. Is a shame thought she was different.... (read in full...)
Should I have gotten back together with her?
Q. I know my dribble must be annoying by now. I called our relationship off today based on what I found last night, I put that she grabbed a guys grion behind us because she said she wasnt that type of girl and was drunk at the time, though the pict...
A. 21 February 2009: Since earlier she now claims the nude photos of the guy were of a guy her brother was seeing and the ones of her (which were only in her underwear) were because she sent them to a friend. Though all the pictures were taken/received on the same nig... (read in full...)
I'm lost! I don't know what to do or even ask her about the pictures
Q. A little over a month ago my girlfriend and I went out fo rdrinks for her birthday, when out and I wasnt at the table we were sitting at she grabbed a strangers grion. When we got home I kicked her out. Nearly a month later she came back into my ...
A. 20 February 2009: It is a hard call. Considering we started seeing each other again after a month and to find these types of pictures which were taken a few days after we started seeing each other again really leaves the question if its worth it. The hard part is if ... (read in full...)
Am I better to move on and see her only as a friend or stick in there and try to work it out?
Q. Previously my girlfriend and I were living together until when out one night she grabbed a strangers crotch when I was away from the table we were sitting at. She claims there is nothing worng with what happened. Upon arriving home I told her to ...
A. 4 February 2009: She came over last night to hang out as friends, while she was here she got 3 messages but wouldnt reply, she claims it was her borther and I want to beleive her though after the 3rd msg she took her phone into the loo with her. I seriously think so... (read in full...)
Am I better to move on and see her only as a friend or stick in there and try to work it out?
Q. Previously my girlfriend and I were living together until when out one night she grabbed a strangers crotch when I was away from the table we were sitting at. She claims there is nothing worng with what happened. Upon arriving home I told her to ...
A. 2 February 2009: I totally agree grabbing a guys crouch is only acceptable if it was mine or if we had an open relationship where that was acceptable. Thank you for your comments, Ive been kicking myself thinking its my fault and because I threw her out and got nast... (read in full...)
Should I try or is it in vain?
Q. Since the other night she has come to me asking to move back in and now wants to take time to see how things can go. I understand things will be different for awhile from what happened. I dont think anyone would be able to excuss there partner ...
A. 14 January 2009: Sorry I didnt exactly explian, she wanted to move back in on Sunday but I said I wasnt sure and she hasnt mobed back in. Now wants to take things and see how they go.
Its a double enend blade and am unsure if im thinking or doing the right or wron... (read in full...)
Is the past influencing my feelings of the present?
Q. I meet a new girlfriend after a bad break up in Aug 08, things were going so well we had actually started living together in Dec 08. The other night we went out to a club to have drinks with my cousin. Towards the end of the night while I went to ...
A. 11 January 2009: Thank you for your responses, I do agree with you all.
Considering that she has shown no remorse and only apologised when I told her she hasnt done so, claiming she was drunk and it is out of character for her to do someting like this (which is no e... (read in full...)
How can I let go?
Q. I know this may sound strange, considering all I have seen and that I now know after less then a week she moved on with another guy than I caught her with I sill find it hard to let go. How can someone after eight months of being together mve ont...
A. 12 September 2008: Thank you superrshawna I do agree with you. I am greatful I found out now not later. considering what I felt I know now it would have been silly to become more envolved with her. At least there are people out thee that are so unalike her and ... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing for checking her emails?
Q. I recently used my wifes computer to send an email and noticed she had messages from an old friend. I investigated and realized she was having an emotional affair for over a year. Is it normal to want to check her emails? ...
A. 28 August 2008: I was in a similar situation. I checked my ex's emails and found she had arranged to met a guy when she had broken up with me only days before. It put a lot of tension on our relationship until I caught her with him after we were back together. I ... (read in full...)
Don't want her back, after she refused my invitation because she was "busy", when in reality she was seeing someone else at her home. Who is to blame?
Q. To give you the stroy so far.... http://www.dearcupid.org/question/some-cracks-have-appeared-in-our-relationshipis-she.html (... I knocked on the door and when she answered a few minutes later she was very harsh towards me and in her pj‘s. I notic...
A. 28 August 2008: Thank you, for your opinion. I do agree she didnt care as if she did she never would have been in a situation I would find sus. Games are a definiate. I know I am better off considering inoccent or not she knew what she was doing and how I would see ... (read in full...)
Don't want her back, after she refused my invitation because she was "busy", when in reality she was seeing someone else at her home. Who is to blame?
Q. To give you the stroy so far.... http://www.dearcupid.org/question/some-cracks-have-appeared-in-our-relationshipis-she.html (... I knocked on the door and when she answered a few minutes later she was very harsh towards me and in her pj‘s. I notic...
A. 27 August 2008: I know the email was a lot, though in the situation I was hurt. I regret it now. But it makes no difference to what I saw and she never treid to explain or stop me from thinking what i was.... (read in full...)
I had sex with a friend of mine's ex-boyfriend, should I tell her?
Q. My problem is, I had sex with a friend of mine's ex-boyfriend. To make things short, me and the girl grew up together and were best friends, but now are just friends, if not aquaintances. After the guy and I started sleeping together, one day he l...
A. 27 August 2008: You didn't break the relationship up, did you? If you didn't then you are not a home wreaker. Remember it takes two. If she can forgive him then why shouldn't she forgive you.... (read in full...)
I had sex with a friend of mine's ex-boyfriend, should I tell her?
Q. My problem is, I had sex with a friend of mine's ex-boyfriend. To make things short, me and the girl grew up together and were best friends, but now are just friends, if not aquaintances. After the guy and I started sleeping together, one day he l...
A. 25 August 2008: I have some idea of what you are going through. I slept with a friends ex a few years ago now then they got back together awhile after.
At first I avoided him, as I felt guilty, even though we were both single and it was our choice to sleep toge... (read in full...)
With all I saw I am almost certain she was cheating, what do you think? Our relationship is now over.
Q. I met my girlfriend via a dating site in early 08. We really clicked. Soon after we started having a relationship and were both very smitten. After six months some cracks appeared and I suspected her though dismissed this to prior relationships goin...
A. 25 August 2008: I would like to thank those people who have replied to my question.
If complete strangers can determine the same conclusion as I from my description of the events I know I was correct and not seeing things which were not there.
I despise liers an... (read in full...)
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