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writes:I meet a new girlfriend after a bad break up in Aug 08, things were going so well we had actually started living together in Dec 08.The other night we went out to a club to have drinks with my cousin.Towards the end of the night while I went to the bathroom she grabbed a guy walking past the table we were sitting at on the grion while he walked past in fornt of my cousin. To which he was disgusted.When I returned she went to the bathroom then walked out of the venue and disappeared. We tried to find her and then walked home. Upon arriving home she was already home and had claimed she caught a taxi home which cost her $25. A little strange since I live three blocks form the club.I told her to leave and move out and since has done so. Today she tried spoke with me and asked if she could move back.What should I do? Considering I caught my ex in bed with another man am I wreaking this realtionsip out of fear it will happen again?She says because she was drunk she can not remember and still has not apologised.
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reader, pepper27  +, writes (12 January 2009):
 Im not surprised you are confused hun, Take your time and think about things really carefully love, Do whats right and good for you...TAKE CARE WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, Vessence +, writes (11 January 2009):
Vessence is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your responses, I do agree with you all.
Considering that she has shown no remorse and only apologised when I told her she hasnt done so, claiming she was drunk and it is out of character for her to do someting like this (which is no excuse) does not pardon what happened or the damage to my trust in her.
This will be a tuff call, although we were all drinking and were drunk still behaiour like that for anyone would not be acceptable I would think.
I do not think she left with another guy as we we standing at the door when she walked passed but we did loose sight of her shortly after and her taxi story has changed somewhat though it would have been around an hour from then til we arrived home.
As im sure you can tell im am still rather confussed, and not to compare to my ex, this is all sounding to familiar.
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reader, pepper27 +, writes (11 January 2009):
Oh Hunny
I understand your concern 100%
So she grabbed a guy who was walking past by the groin in front of your cousin disappeared and you found her at home after she had spent $25 on a cab..This does not sound good at all...The first thing you would have thought she would have done is apologies even though this was extremely over the top..Hunny she is supposed to be with you.
Has anything like this happened before? Have you seen her drunk like this before? I don't think you are wreaking this relationship you are guarding yourself and after what happened it is hardly surprising..How much did she drink? And was she obviously hammered? And do you really want to be with someone who when they have a good time disappears? These are some of the questions you need to ask yourself love, I do hope ive helped in a little way, If you need anymore help please message me TAKE CARE WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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