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... Send *anelliliz a private message | | | *anelliliz's profile:Is my boyfriend strange? The ex-bf and I got back together during the summer then in July he wanted to get back together to which I resisted for a couple of months as I was pretty happy being alone. He didn't try to impress me by recognizing my birthday in August.
Then in September and October we spent weekends together until one weekend in November on a Friday he didn't even mention about me coming up. Turns out he had his daughters come up to close up camp with him. I am sure he thought his daughter would stay the night so he blew me off for the weekend. Last weekend he told his daughter would be off for a month and he would be spending time with her. I went up Wed. and stayed until Fri. morning as he had then changed it to she, his daughter, was off for ten days and would be coming on Fri. He brought me home that morning and we were about to have sex when phone rings and he says that's my daughter, "Finally!" OMG did you really just say that, I thought. First in another time he would never have answered the phone at that particular time and rarely takes any calls when I am with him. She had initially told she might have to work on Fri. and Sat. which is not usually the case for her as she works on Sun. I have to wonder if she is trying to avoid him. Anyways recently he got drunk and asked me what I like about men and I said why to which he responded with cuz I thought it might help me. I am thinking he didn't ask to improve anything about our relationship. Unlike before we broke up, he never texts me during the work hours at all. So anyways I haven't heard from him as he is just so tied up with his daughter staying there. I think he is weird. |
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Should I have given this guy a third chance to meet up?
Q. This guy contacted me on a dating website and he was originally from my area. He is a good listener, has a good sense of humor, and actually knows how to use a phone unlike other guys on the website who seem to like to hide behind texts. We hit it ...
A. 30 November 2016: Thanks beautyincolor00, that is a good idea to keep it within site. I just had someone ask me how old my pics were who when we met totally had more hair in the pic with his daughter (bringing kids onto a dating site, don't get that) and distant ... (read in full...)
Should I have given this guy a third chance to meet up?
Q. This guy contacted me on a dating website and he was originally from my area. He is a good listener, has a good sense of humor, and actually knows how to use a phone unlike other guys on the website who seem to like to hide behind texts. We hit it ...
A. 24 November 2016: Thank you for the encouragement, male reader!
You are funny, Cindy Cares! You have a good pint with simplify.
You are right about the effort, Mina
They are sadly mostly losers. I have noticed that and he was a bit of a pig.
Thanks to all ... (read in full...)
We're back together but he seems preoccupied with his daughter
Q. Is my boyfriend strange? The ex-bf and I got together during the summer then in July he wanted to get back together to which I resisted for a couple of months as I was pretty happy being alone. He didn't try to impress me by recognizing my birthday ...
A. 28 November 2015: yes answering the phone then was totally out of character for him. He did not want kids and wasn't particularly interested in either of them all while growing up. He called me texted me whenever they were there and since the youngest turned 16, now ... (read in full...)
Why does my ex-boyfriend think he can have it both ways?
Q. Why does my ex-boyfriend think he can have it both ways??He is still calling on occasion which after the phone calls I only feel worse and now he wants to get together for sex. I admit I was weak and suggested it and we did where I spent the night. ...
A. 8 May 2015: This is the deal. When we parted ways he said he would still help me with house repairs, etc., for example he replaced a part on my toilet which I did attempt to do myself unsuccessfully before I asked him o I about it. I am a single female a... (read in full...)
He is focussed on the negative to justify his position.
Q. Should I stay in touch with my ex-boyfriend of 16 years who says wants to be my friend and still help me out? I wanted to stay in the relationship and work on it. I told him how prior to a month and a half before he dumped me that I had been ...
A. 24 April 2015: Thank you for that, male reader. I called him this morning and asked if he still wanted to talk in person as he had said we would have to talk eventually. We did talk on the phone Tues. night but it as a little heated with his negativity and me ... (read in full...)
He is focussed on the negative to justify his position.
Q. Should I stay in touch with my ex-boyfriend of 16 years who says wants to be my friend and still help me out? I wanted to stay in the relationship and work on it. I told him how prior to a month and a half before he dumped me that I had been ...
A. 23 April 2015: Thanks for both your answers. I did mean to say that, just a bit distracted here, haha ... (read in full...)
He is focussed on the negative to justify his position.
Q. Should I stay in touch with my ex-boyfriend of 16 years who says wants to be my friend and still help me out? I wanted to stay in the relationship and work on it. I told him how prior to a month and a half before he dumped me that I had been ...
A. 22 April 2015: as far as the sex he said early on I'm not going to give you false hope by having sex with you. Last night he reiterated in an obnoxious manner that I'm not going to stick my dick in you. Well, aren't you the self-sacrificing bastard.... (read in full...)
He is focussed on the negative to justify his position.
Q. Should I stay in touch with my ex-boyfriend of 16 years who says wants to be my friend and still help me out? I wanted to stay in the relationship and work on it. I told him how prior to a month and a half before he dumped me that I had been ...
A. 22 April 2015: Yes, stringing me along did pass through my mind, Sageoldguy. I think it makes him feel better about what he is doing if we are friends and he helps me. And what he wants when he wants is certainly true, SoVeryConfused. and after talking to him ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend scamming me??
Q. Is my boyfriend scamming me?? Here I am still in this 13 year relationship and it has been so long I don't even know if what I feel for him is love. Added to that are the arguments we have quite often. Of course, he still looks around every cha...
A. 30 September 2013: Thanks for your insight. They were both outgoing calls. You're right, I don;t trust him. And he's told me before if you don't trust me get rid of me. ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend scamming me??
Q. Is my boyfriend scamming me?? Here I am still in this 13 year relationship and it has been so long I don't even know if what I feel for him is love. Added to that are the arguments we have quite often. Of course, he still looks around every cha...
A. 30 September 2013: My question is he scamming me about the phone calls. How can two phone calls be on your phone and not on the phone bill. That's why I didn't look at it. The fact he won't call the number arouses suspicion. I didn't spend the previous weekend ... (read in full...)
I can't believe he'd behave like that in front of me!
Q. What do I do with this relationship of thirteen years? My ongoing saga with my bf played out on a night we were out for a couple of drinks last week when on the way home he suggested going to another bar. We were having a good time talking to ...
A. 2 August 2012: I have considered ending the relationship many times. There aren't too many alternatives where I live. Being alone might be preferable, but it is hard to break away after that long. I often tell him I think he would be happier with someone younger ... (read in full...)
I can't believe he'd behave like that in front of me!
Q. What do I do with this relationship of thirteen years? My ongoing saga with my bf played out on a night we were out for a couple of drinks last week when on the way home he suggested going to another bar. We were having a good time talking to ...
A. 2 August 2012: Thanks for your response. It was funny and insightful at the same time! I have to say though that after 13 years he ought to be getting the committed couple thing. And at 50 he ought to be more mature. Just my luck! Even if you're drunk, I think ... (read in full...)
Should I end this long-term relationship?
Q. Should I end this long-term relationship My boyfriend of 13 years has a camp on the water where he lives all summer. He has a boat as well and when he goes out on it he always goes to this abandoned state park beach where anybody and everybod...
A. 22 June 2012: Can you please tell me, Katall, if I am wrong to be bothered by the fact that he has to hang at the beach every time he goes out in his boat? He doesn't make comments when he looks at other women, but because I know how much he does look I can just ... (read in full...)
Should I end this long-term relationship?
Q. Should I end this long-term relationship My boyfriend of 13 years has a camp on the water where he lives all summer. He has a boat as well and when he goes out on it he always goes to this abandoned state park beach where anybody and everybod...
A. 22 June 2012: Thank you for responding, Katall. I have imagined years
ahead with him during our bad spots throughout the relationship. Problem drinker, yes. If we are going out to have drinks, jhe has to drink like two or three beers before he goes or we go to a... (read in full...)
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