Is it a bad sign that he originally wanted to spend time with his parents, not me, for his 21st?
Q. So this weekend is my boyfriend's 21st birthday. I told him I would take off the day of his birthday and after. The plan was we would get drinks together or I would DD. Well tonight I ask him if we were still on and I get a text saying "sorry I have ...
A. 16 February 2016: I have to agree with the others. You have a right to be upset and you had made plans and he cancelled, not even mentioning to you about these plans with his parents.
He should of either said to his parents that he already had plans with you, or ... (read in full...)
would you be checking out hot babes on the internet while your girlfriend is sitting next to you?
Q. Guys, help me out here. I know men are visual, I've heard that many times. They like to look at the female body, my question is, would you be checking out hot babes on the internet while your girlfriend is sitting next to you? and making comments, ...
A. 16 February 2016: I think that's pretty disrespectful. There's making a comment every now and again, especially if there's a discussion or what not going on (about the only time my bf will make a comment) but every time a woman pops up, and to look them up on the ... (read in full...)
Should I worry about his Valentine blunder?
Q. My BF of 3 years had to work all day on Valentine's Day. He gave me my gift and we celebrated on Friday. Yesterday we had a quick chat while he was at work. He texted me, "Be my Valentine?", and I said "Yes" and asked if he will be mine. He sai...
A. 15 February 2016: I can understand where you're coming from, it annoys me sometimes when I see that my OH has been on Facebook but can't find the time to text me back. But I do think you're thinking too much into it, he was working all day and gave you a lovely text. ... (read in full...)
I can't move past the bad experiences I had in my former job
Q. I'm having trouble dealing and moving past previous bad experiences at work and other things. I've been to the doctors and they have implied (not officially diagnosed anything) that I have anxiety. Although I don't worry per se more beat myself up ...
A. 29 January 2016: Thank you that really helps! I have an appointment with a therapist in a couple of weeks so fingers crossed I can get help and eventually get over everything! ... (read in full...)
How do I stop beating myself up for my stupidity at spending my money?
Q. My grandparents sold their house at the start of the year. From the money they got from it, they gave they're grandchildren some of it. I got around £1500. At the time I was in a job that paid horrible money, less than minimum wage. The plan was to ...
A. 27 October 2014: Thanks for all the replies (sorry it's taken so long to get back to you all). I got myself a whiteboard where i now writen down all my bills I need to pay and how much I'm going to save each month now that I have a job. That's money that I can't and ... (read in full...)
I've been thinking about unfriending these awful former co-workers on social media, except for one. Any advice?
Q. I used to work in a not so nice place. The boss' where horrivle to staff, the working conditions were poor and the staff as lovely as they seemed the vast majority where extremely bitchy. I worked predominately with 2 other girls. They were lovely...
A. 10 October 2014: Thank you for the replies. I guess I do need to stop overthinking things!... (read in full...)
Is it right for my boyfriend to give his phone number to other women?
Q. I've never considered myself to be the jealous type but lately I've been getting upset about my boyfriend giving his number out to other women. This situation started about 6 months ago when I found out that he ran into an old ex girlfriend one d...
A. 12 July 2014: I think it depends entirely on the who the person is and what their relationship is with your boyfriend. An old friend that he's not seen in a while? I can't see a problem and probably wouldn't worry too much about it. Random girls he's ju... (read in full...)
Is it time to call quits on my relationship?
Q. Is it time to call quits on my relationship? I've been with my boyfriend for close to five years. We've had some amazing times together but the cons have been building up to boiling point lately. I've never liked how disrespectfully he speak...
A. 12 July 2014: I agree, go with your gut. If you're already considering breaking up with him for reasons that you've already spoken to him about and he's not changed...I don't think there's any going back. ... (read in full...)
Is any man excited by an average looking female body after watching porn?
Q. I am concerned that my bfs constant access to a never ending stream of physically perfect women in porn to look at and masturbate to is causing him to get bored with my appearance. He simply doesn't seem excited by the sight of me anymore yet if h...
A. 12 July 2014: If there's anything I've learned in my 2 year relationship, it's not to compare yourself to porn (or other women for that matter). First off all it will just make you miserable and lower your self esteem. MOST men do get attracted to the... (read in full...)
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