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He'd rather have a one night stand than have sex with me

Q.   My boyfriend is not interested in sex with me. I feel like I'm constantly pressuring him into it all the time, then I don't enjoy it, but I have a really high sex drive!!! I'm 19 and he's 28. This causes more problems because he's had so many one ...

A.   6 June 2006: Ok ive just re-read this post, it seems he may be having 1 night stands while actually in the relationship. If this is the case, i apologise for previous comments, the answer is simple: just get rid of him. ... (read in full...)

He'd rather have a one night stand than have sex with me

Q.   My boyfriend is not interested in sex with me. I feel like I'm constantly pressuring him into it all the time, then I don't enjoy it, but I have a really high sex drive!!! I'm 19 and he's 28. This causes more problems because he's had so many one ...

A.   5 June 2006: Id like to politely disagree with the above poster. Firstly im assuming he isnt having 1 night stands now!. There are a number of reasons that your BF could have lost his drive. Firstly he could have developed physical problems, lower te... (read in full...)

My husband has a low sex drive, help!

Q.   I am very frustrated. I have been married only 9 months and my husband seems uninterested in sex. I am 26 and he is 28. We have no children yet.Our relationship was long distance for a year before the wedding and we only saw each other once a month. ...

A.   25 May 2006: Hi One different angle to consider. It could well be that your OH has anxiety/confidence problems about his ability to perform. This could be ourely psychological, or due to physical problems. If its psychological, then putting on pressure will... (read in full...)

I'm happily married but there's this attractive woman at work who likes me! What should I do?

Q.   Hi There. I'm in a spot of bother at the moment. I'm married,quite happily and have 2 children and darly love my wife. BUT.... there's this girl (yeah I know!!!) whom I work with. We get along great and she's really attractive. She's engaged to...

A.   19 May 2006: The prospect of the forbidden is bound to seem exciting, but the reality will be a lot less exciting imho. Your happily married, doing anything to ruin that would be a stupid mistake you will regret for a very long time imho. ... (read in full...)

Did my boyfriend cheat on holiday?

Q.   what are the signs a b/f or g/f cheated while away on vacation without you? My b/f has called me atleast 3 times a day and the times i did call him--most of the time he would pick up even if he was out at some loud bar with friends. He would go ...

A.   19 May 2006: Hi anonymous. Firstly i totally understand why you feel nervous about your BF being away with friends. Its completely natural. However you say he calls you several times a day and picks up when you call. To me this is a very reassuring si... (read in full...)

Wife likes to receive but doesn't like to give any more!

Q.   Oral one way only. When i met my wife we both gave and recieved lots of oral sex. Its something that ive always loved. Since marriage a few months ago its become one way traffic, i still go down but never get a BJ anymore. Ive tried talking to h...

A.   16 May 2006: willywombat + No i am careful with hygeine and keep in shape so dont think its that, btw no worries about forcing her head down or anything..I just wouldnt do it. And ive only brought it up..as gently as I could 2 times...so dont feel im pestering. ... (read in full...)

Wife likes to receive but doesn't like to give any more!

Q.   Oral one way only. When i met my wife we both gave and recieved lots of oral sex. Its something that ive always loved. Since marriage a few months ago its become one way traffic, i still go down but never get a BJ anymore. Ive tried talking to h...

A.   16 May 2006: Thanks for the comments DrPete. Everything else is good, I still make romantic gestures (flowers, surprises etc). We still get on well. She has just decided she doesnt like doing it. Any attempt to talk about it is 'pestering', as far as she i... (read in full...)

My Oral Dilemma

Q.   My man is in a bad mood with me because i refused to give him oral sex. It is something i have never been too keen on, either giving or receiving. It just doesn't do it for me at all. Sometimes it even turns my stomach! Are there others out there ...

A.   16 May 2006: I think that if it really repulses you, you shouldnt do it. I think many women dont enjoy doing it, so its nothing unusual. And i doubt i would enjoy something you have been 'forced' to do anyway as your heart wouldnt be in it. Many of the femal... (read in full...)

My wife won't give me a blowjob. She won't even talk about it!

Q.   I am in a perfect relationship in every way except for one thing. I adore oral sex - nothing else quite does it for me - but I haven't had a complete blowjob for 3 years. When I first met my wife, she did it every time - she even swallowed. But afte...

A.   16 May 2006: Im afraid its part of marriage. My wife was exactly the same. As a GF she gave plenty of BJ, once married they dried up and stopped. I think its one of the tools they use to ensure the guy is hooked. Of course she still expects to recieve oral. I... (read in full...)

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