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... Send *sarina a private message | | | *sarina's profile:I am a 44 year old female who has just been 'dumped' after 10 years of co-habitation. We were due to get married in April! I am feeling low as I have no family where i live and just need encouragement to get my self-esteem button back. |
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Discovered he's on dating sites..looking for "adult" relations. Help!
Q. I have been in a relationship with this man for 7 years (as of New Years Eve) and am very confused right now about what to do about a situation that has come up. I recently discovered that he has profiles on dating sites for, um how do I put this ...
A. 3 October 2008: Get out girlfriend!!! There is no doubt in my mind that this guy is cheating on you - either physically or psychologically....Take action and go find yourself a 'real' man. The situation is doing nothing for your self esteem. Good luck.... (read in full...)
What else can I do to help rid myself of this horrible pain?
Q. It's been 3 months since a very nasty blowout happened between myself and the man I was sleeping with for 4yrs occured. I have honored everything he said to me that day in July (leave him alone,etc...)It just seems to me that I should feel better ...
A. 3 October 2008: Hey sweetie, I feel your pain. I was recently separated - my own choice. I was still in love with him - throwing away 10 years was what I did. But that does not mean the barriers you now face cannot be overcome. This is what I did: I joined an ... (read in full...)
I don't know what to think about these suspicious emails...
Q. I have a problem and would like other peoples views, A bit of background, we went to my wifes sisters 18th birthday party, at around 11.30 on saturday night the party finished, I said to my wife I wasn’t going into town and for her to go and enjoy ...
A. 3 October 2008: You poor guy. I agree, she has crossed the threshold, in the wrong direction! Take action and confront her - however I doubt you will hear the truth from her. People who cheat on their partners are deceitful to start with. It is obvious that she ... (read in full...)
I need help with 'squirting' - how can I get there?
Q. Hello..I have been sexually active for a very long time and my boyfriend of about 8 months..we have the greatest sex I've ever had or can imagine .... I am very confused, I find myself searching up how to have an orgasm all the time. Yes, I hav...
A. 3 October 2008: Hi there You are still young and probably get very excited about just having sex for the sake of it - like rabbits really. As we grow older we learn to enjoy it for longer periods and eventually can differentiate between making love and having ... (read in full...)
I have been dumped after 10 years, during which he kept picking fault with me. Help!
Q. i have just been 'dumped' after 10 years. I am an extremely attractive and kind soul. I did not deserve this. I tried to change for him when he kept picking fault with me. he would never try, even counselling. i made the decision to let it go, ...
A. 12 July 2008: Hi all Just to give you all the latest update. I have started on again with my life, employed a life coach and begun with a new attitude. You were all RIGHT... He proved to be a creep. However, I have drawn such an important lesson from this - ... (read in full...)
I have been dumped after 10 years, during which he kept picking fault with me. Help!
Q. i have just been 'dumped' after 10 years. I am an extremely attractive and kind soul. I did not deserve this. I tried to change for him when he kept picking fault with me. he would never try, even counselling. i made the decision to let it go, ...
A. 1 July 2008: Well, girls helped a lot. I found out that she has been around the block a few times, unlike myself who doesnt need an easy shag to prove my worth. I will maintain my ladylike stance....
Any ideas on how to fall out of love? I need to move on and ... (read in full...)
I have been dumped after 10 years, during which he kept picking fault with me. Help!
Q. i have just been 'dumped' after 10 years. I am an extremely attractive and kind soul. I did not deserve this. I tried to change for him when he kept picking fault with me. he would never try, even counselling. i made the decision to let it go, ...
A. 30 June 2008: Hi all
Just the latest update.... He came over last night to tell me: He has started seeing a friend of mine - barely 4 weeks after he left my bed! Hell, it is such a slap in the face. The depth of hurt is astronomical, after saying things like... (read in full...)
Trying to save my marriage but my husband doesn't want me for anything but sex...help!
Q. I am a 51 year old married woman who has desperately been trying to save my marriage recently my husband told me he doesn't want me anymore except for sex. The reason he gave me was because I won't give him a massage when he ask me, and I won't give ...
A. 9 June 2008: Hey girl
I think you really need to think about what YOU want out of life. He sounds very disrespectful, just like my ex. Very demanding and oblivious to anything we may be busy with when their demands are requested. As for his infideli... (read in full...)
I have been dumped after 10 years, during which he kept picking fault with me. Help!
Q. i have just been 'dumped' after 10 years. I am an extremely attractive and kind soul. I did not deserve this. I tried to change for him when he kept picking fault with me. he would never try, even counselling. i made the decision to let it go, ...
A. 9 June 2008: Well, this is the first time I am re-visiting the site and a lot has happened. Straight after my last letter, we went for dinner and he verbally attacked me in the car on the way. Needless to say that by the morning I had made up my mind to get rid ... (read in full...)
I have been dumped after 10 years, during which he kept picking fault with me. Help!
Q. i have just been 'dumped' after 10 years. I am an extremely attractive and kind soul. I did not deserve this. I tried to change for him when he kept picking fault with me. he would never try, even counselling. i made the decision to let it go, ...
A. 25 February 2008: Well... soooo much has happened this weekend... I'm still in shock. Yesterday my soon to be ex went down on bended knee,said sorry for all the hurt and pain he had caused me, promised to never hurt me again and with tears streaming down his faced ... (read in full...)
A question to all: Have you ever loved someone so much that you just couldn't let go of them despite many relationship problems between you both?
Q. Has anyone else had such a deep connection with someone and felt so much in love on a soulmate level that even though you feel so much is wrong with the relationship and you feel they treat you so badly - not talking any abuse but so many things ...
A. 19 February 2008: This is so similar to where I am at the moment, but I made the choice to take it NO MORE. It is not easy. You will experience major uncertainty, insecurity, fear of the unknown and cry till you feel there are no more tears. But you will have to go ... (read in full...)
I have been dumped after 10 years, during which he kept picking fault with me. Help!
Q. i have just been 'dumped' after 10 years. I am an extremely attractive and kind soul. I did not deserve this. I tried to change for him when he kept picking fault with me. he would never try, even counselling. i made the decision to let it go, ...
A. 19 February 2008: You know, yesterday as I was reading all your comments, it dawned on me that there is a lot of good in this world. I went home on a high. thankyou all. this morning, I have slipped slightly but read your comments and advice again to cheer me on. How ... (read in full...)
I have been dumped after 10 years, during which he kept picking fault with me. Help!
Q. i have just been 'dumped' after 10 years. I am an extremely attractive and kind soul. I did not deserve this. I tried to change for him when he kept picking fault with me. he would never try, even counselling. i made the decision to let it go, ...
A. 18 February 2008: currently live in south africa and have been for past 41 years... (read in full...)
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