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My feelings for my ex are affecting my future relationships. How do I get him out of my head?

Q.   I've met a new guy, we're not going out yet but we pretty much act like a couple and I really like him. However I have a problem in that every so often when I'm with him I really start to miss my ex. We broke up in October and we still get on pretty ...

A.   6 May 2007: all im saying is that (above or below i duno) is a fantastic answer, it helped me too!... (read in full...)

Should I lose my virginity to him?

Q.   I'm 16 and all my mates have lost their virginity to their long term boyfriends. I have been going out with my boyfriend for just over three years. I love and i know that he loves me back. We haven't gone any further than kissing. Should i lose my ...

A.   6 May 2007: well you have been goin out with him for a long time. if you love eachother then maybe you should. only if it feels right and natural tho. i had sex with a random guy at 16 n regret it so i think it would be a nice memory to have. dont be pressured ... (read in full...)

What are the ins and outs about sex! Can anyone explain?

Q.   hey. dumb question i know but please could someone explain the ins and outs ot sex. what happend and how it hapens. im really scared. i know it is natural and i know everyone does it but i want to have sex with my boyfriend and i am scacred of what ...

A.   6 May 2007: forget about sex until your 16.. i worried too much at your age and now ive done it i realise it was such a silly thing to focus, it comes so naturally when your ready.... (read in full...)

I have been having trouble finding her physically attractive. She's not terribly overweight, but she does have a fair stomach to her.

Q.   My girlfriend and I have been going out for over a year, and have been involved a fair bit longer, and I can quite see myself spending a good many years with her. Lately, however, I have been having trouble finding her physically attractive. She's ...

A.   6 May 2007: hiya. loads of people will tell you "weight doesnt matter" which to a point it doesnt. but i believe sexuality and attraction is an important part of a relationship. try suggesting you both go jogging together in the evenings... this will mean you ... (read in full...)

I told my bf he could take my virginity but now I'm scared! Help!

Q.   Im only 14 And im still a virgin. i told my boyfriend he could take my virginity but now im a little scared to let him take after all i am only 14. i really do like him and wuld do anything for him and i do want him to take my virginity but im not ...

A.   6 May 2007: no no no... (read in full...)

I think I'm in love with my COUSIN.....

Q.   I think im in love with my cousin he's turning 20 in a few days and im a few years younger than him.i went to his house the other day and he'd been out all night finally he came home when he opened the living room door he smiled at me and rubbed my ...

A.   6 May 2007: wel this must be a really difficult time for you. if you think he feels the same way then you should talk to him. i no a couple who are cousins who are very happy together. check out whether or not you think your family may accept it. because you ... (read in full...)

Does anyone believe in life after death?

Q.   does anyone believe in life after death?...

A.   6 May 2007: interesting.. i think a lot of people like to believe there is life after death becuse they are scared of dieing. there is no place in the clouds for your spirit to lie n eat philladelphia! but i think the most plausible existance after death is ... (read in full...)

We're married but he acts like a single guy! Am I being taken for granted?

Q.   Hi I am 24 and have been married to a man ,30, for 18 months, together for 4.5 years. The problem I have is he still acts like a single man and I am getting tired of going through the same issues over and over. He is a drummer in a band and mu...

A.   6 May 2007: i definately think your not making a fuss out of nothing. id be furious. you need to sit down and talk. he absolutely NEEDS to get a job. do not let him spend your hard earned money. it seems to me that he still wants to be 18. you need to tell him ... (read in full...)

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