I never worried about cheating before, but now I've heard my new guy had a fling with his ex's sister!
Q. I have been seeing this really great guy for about 2 months now. We get on really well and he is great with my kids. The thing is I found out today that last year he had a fling with his ex-girlfriend's sister. Usually this wouldn't bother me, but ...
A. 9 May 2005: The best thing you can do in this situation is to talk honestly about it with your boyfriend ask him if it's true and ask him what his feelings are now towards her. You may find that this fling was something silly and is completely finished with now ... (read in full...)
When he didn't treat me well last year, I walked away... but what if he wants another chance?
Q. Y was a 19 year old guy who worked with my male best friend; My friend told me Y liked me, then gave Y my phone number. Y sent me a text, and we met up once. I was 16 (last summer) and this was the moment of my first kiss. We in fact kissed l...
A. 8 May 2005: My advice to you would be to not even go there as he proved that he was not worth the trouble the first time round. You will always remember your first kiss so this is probably why you keep thinking of him. I think though that you should wait for ... (read in full...)
Why did he want his ex's child, but asked me to have an abortion with ours?
Q. I have been seeing my boyfriend now for nearly a year, and recently had an abortion. He already has a 3 year old child with his ex partner and said he wasn't ready to have a child with me, as he wants us to go on holiday together first and live a ...
A. 7 May 2005: Maybe he is right to be cautious as he obviously had a bad relationship before you, that resulted in him having a daughter so maybe he just wants time in which to feel more secure in the relationship he has with you before jumping into having more ... (read in full...)
I have lots of male friends, but I can't seem to form romantic relationships...
Q. Hi, I'm worried that there's something stopping me from forming a relationship. I have always had quite a few male friends, men have been interested in me for sex, but I rarely meet anyone who wants to actually have a relationship with me. When I...
A. 7 May 2005: There is nothing wrong with you, you are just experiencing normal feelings. But don't fret, the right man for you will come into your life you just have to learn to relax and take each day as it comes. Don't panic when you do meet someone new. Jus... (read in full...)
Since he's been chatting to women on the Web our sex life has slowed right down, and I'm worried...
Q. I have been with my fella for over four years now and in the last two years the sex has slowed right down. I am sure he is chatting to women on the internet, as he is coming to bed later and later. He said it is because he doesn't want to have to ...
A. 5 May 2005: You have to ask yourself, deep down do you believe him? If you do then you should try and make time for him in other ways. remember the times when you first got together, what was it that drew you together in the first place and try and revisit ... (read in full...)
No sex between us... and I think that it's because he's getting off to porn.
Q. Hi, Im going totally crazy at the moment and I dont know what to do please help. Me and my guy are not having sex. Well he tells me that he doesnt want sex and feels that this is putting a strain on things. We always had a high sex drive ...
A. 4 May 2005: Maybe you should try and watch the porn with him and you may be surprised to find that it is actually fun and it can turn you on as what you see on screen you can incorporate into your love life.... (read in full...)
I've tried everything I know, but nothing seems to turn my girlfriend on!
Q. I've been with my girl since December and I still can't turn her on. I don't think it's completely my fault though, I've tried everything I know and nothing works. She can't get turned on until we're already having sex. This means without lube its ...
A. 4 May 2005: This will sound mad but it works: tell her to have a bath and to let her imagination work its magic. Ask her to imagine that her hands are no longer her own and that they belong to you. She is to imagine your hands travelling over her body and doing ... (read in full...)
The new man's exciting, but I feel guily 'cos I don't know how I feel any more about my long-term partner...
Q. Hi, I'm 39 and in a relationship with a man for 10 years, not getting anywere at the moment, as he won't move in. I've just met another man and he turns me on! But I feel very guity and not sure what to do, as I don't know how I feel any more. ...
A. 4 May 2005: Your long term partner needs to wake up and smell the coffee. I'm assuming you're a decent woman so you need to ask yourself do you want to carry on being this person's comfortable pair of slippers or do you want to move on and have the excitement ... (read in full...)
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