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writes: Y was a 19 year old guy who worked with my male best friend; My friend told me Y liked me, then gave Y my phone number. Y sent me a text, and we met up once. I was 16 (last summer) and this was the moment of my first kiss. We in fact kissed lots throughout the afternoon. However, a few days later I got the feeling something was wrong, and we ended up not meeting up again and not keeping in touch much, by the end of the week I had heard from various sources that he had 2 other girls on the go.About a week after that first date, I walked into where he worked to see him flirting with a girl, who then left and Y acted as though nothing had happened, but I left angry.Y and I decided to end any little thing we had, but a week or two ago, almost a year on (I'm 17 now) I received another text from Y asking if we could meet up as friends. I agreed and we met up. As the afternoon went on, Y told me he couldn't stop thinking about me and wanted to try again, I said no; my problem is that since saying no, I haven't stopped thinking about him either, and part of me wants to try again even though part of me doesn't. I can't tell Y this though, and he's ignoring my 'general chat' texts. I saw him yesterday but only realised who it was after he'd walked past (he was on the other side of the road) and I think he may think I'm ignoring him too. What should I do?
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reader, star3482 +, writes (9 May 2005):
if you like him go for it, why not? at least if it doesnt work out you wont be left wondering what if? be careful though he doesnt sound very faithful, but if he's as young as you then not many men that age are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2005): Just forget about him. If he is ignoring your chat texts, he isn't worth texting. You said no to him, when he asked for an other chance, so he must have hurt you more than you realised. You may on the edge of finding someone, you love more than this guy, so forget about him.
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reader, TJ +, writes (8 May 2005):
My advice to you would be to not even go there as he proved that he was not worth the trouble the first time round. You will always remember your first kiss so this is probably why you keep thinking of him. I think though that you should wait for someone else and go with the flow. Y obviously doesn't want to get to know you as a person as he ignores you so what chance would you have of a relationship? You have plenty of time to wait for 'the one' don't rush into it and it will happen. Good luck.
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