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writes: I have been seeing my boyfriend now for nearly a year, and recently had an abortion. He already has a 3 year old child with his ex partner and said he wasn't ready to have a child with me, as he wants us to go on holiday together first and live a little. His ex always tries to make things difficult for us, and I'm sure she wants him back! Could it be possible that he wants her back as well and thats why he thought it best I had an abortion? Why did he not want my child, but wanted hers? anon manchester
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reader, TJ +, writes (7 May 2005):
Maybe he is right to be cautious as he obviously had a bad relationship before you, that resulted in him having a daughter so maybe he just wants time in which to feel more secure in the relationship he has with you before jumping into having more children. Maybe you should take a step back and consider how much time a child would need from you and the fact that once you have a child then the easy life you lead goes out of the window and your life resolves around this child. If you are young then I would seriously consider living a life first before becoming tied down with children. Don't get me wrong; children bring their own rewards but make sure you are both ready for this huge responsibility.Good luck.
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