I'm tormented by the fact that she's had a 'bigger' man than I
Q. My girlfriend has just recently told me (because my dum ass ask) that she was with a guy so thick she felt pain and once had to see the doctor. to me is like (lucky bastard) i guess i think that's like every man's dream to be able to just do that to ...
A. 28 November 2009: Well...the fact that she's with you, and not him proves something. Also, size isn't everything. I've been with men before that've been big enough to actually cause me pain. The fact that she had to go to the doctors because of this should not make ... (read in full...)
What do you all think of 'one night' stands?
Q. I'm sort of on the fence about one night stands and would really like other peoples opinions on them, both men and women.. I've had about 5 in total now and they've all been mainly when i'm drunk. Each time we have been careful and used protect...
A. 24 November 2009: I've had a lot of one night stands, if you'd like to call them that. Basically, I started having sex at an early age in life and I never wanted to get emotionally attached because of my childhood, and so I never slept with the same person twice. ... (read in full...)
He hasn't made a move and I don't want to miss my chance!
Q. I really need some unbiased advice for my situation. I really like this guy, and personally think he's right for me. We're both very religious, and saving ourselves for marriage. Neither of us have dated or kissed anyone, so we're both very ...
A. 24 November 2009: Ask him out. If he likes you, then he's probably worrying about this as much as you are. Just go for it, and if it doesn't work out...that's a part in growing up, unfortunately (:... (read in full...)
Who the heck is "Sadie?"
Q. the guy I ve been seeing just text me, he said ok tks sadie, thing is my name isnt sadie....what shall i do...
A. 24 November 2009: He's just mixed up the number. I do it all the time. There isn't anything particularly suspicious about the message so I'd just drop it, or tell him he sent you a message by mistake. He might have been talking to someone named Sadie and accidentally ... (read in full...)
I can't trust women and it's ruining my life!
Q. I can't trust women (it's almost like a fear, I guess and yes, I am a girl). I know why, though: I was bullied when I was younger because I couldn't speak English very well, all my female "friends" have stabbed me in the back, and most of all my ...
A. 23 November 2009: You can't put the same shoe on every foot. Just because some women in your life have been awful doesn't mean all women are (I may be biased, though, but personally I'm awesome...just joking :D) Why don't you try and meet some new people, not even ... (read in full...)
We just met on the phone and he's talking sex, kids, and marriage!!
Q. I spent a whole night...last night...talking to a friend I know on the phone. I don't really know what happened, but we started talking about sex after I described the outfit I was wearing. We met through a mutual friend of both of ours and though ...
A. 23 November 2009: He sounds creepy. I suggest you don't go and visit him, or if you do, take along this friend you met him through. Could it have just been a joke, possibly? When you next see him/talk to him on the phone, tell him he acted weird last time. If he's ... (read in full...)
17 and in love with my best friend
Q. Last year, I transferred to a boarding school and there, I met my eventual best friend, who I have since fallen for. It all started this summer when we were both away from each other and I missed him every day. We talked every single day (text, IM, ...
A. 23 November 2009: If he's been sent things for gay rights, why don't you suggest to do something, like a protest with him? Or send him an email about gay rights, and see how he reacts.
Tell him about your sexuality, but maybe wait a little while for him to think... (read in full...)
How often per week should a couple have sex?
Q. Ok since this has been a reoccuring theme on this site of late, I would like to settle once and for all, how often per week should a couple have sex. My theory is: 3 times combined with 3 times asking how her day was and back/foot rub. And one day...
A. 23 November 2009: I think you make it sound like a chore. What's wrong with some spontaneity? If I thought my partner actually had a set amount of times a week, and asking about my day because of some theory, I’d be really annoyed at them. Also, brag?
I think th... (read in full...)
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