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reader, anonymous, writes (24 November 2009): He might be joking around... You would have a bit of cleaning to do with kids of your own so he could be referring to 'Sadie, the cleaning lady'...
Just ask him before getting too upset about the situation...
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reader, TheSoulAsylum  +, writes (24 November 2009):
 He's just mixed up the number. I do it all the time. There isn't anything particularly suspicious about the message so I'd just drop it, or tell him he sent you a message by mistake. He might have been talking to someone named Sadie and accidentally added her name in by mistake if he was in the middle of texting you.
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reader, Sweety Pie +, writes (20 November 2009):
 My friend called me Judy the other day simply cos he had predictive on and was in a rush. Ask him :)x
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (20 November 2009):
 I would ask him who Sadie is. He would be the one to know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2009): It sounds like he came up with a sweet pet name for you. Sadie probably has its roots in "sadism and masochism", your favorite Saturday night activity!
Or, perhaps if your first date was at a Sadie Hawkins dance, where the girls invite the guys, then that would explain it too.
Or he accidentally sent you a text that was meant for his wife named Sadie.
Ooops the cat's out of the bag!
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reader, Yos  +, writes (19 November 2009):
 It could have been an auto-complete thing. Text messages have a tendency to do that.
Or he could love that Beatles Song... ;)
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reader, sarcy24 +, writes (19 November 2009):
 Don't worru she's probably a work colleague. Does your name start with an S as it could have been an easy mistake when he goes down his contact list. I wouldn't read too much into this juts ask him outright who she is.the fact that it is just thanks and there is no x or anything just looks like work stuff to me.
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reader, meadowsweet  +, writes (19 November 2009):
meadowsweet is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbeen seeing him since june, but hes a single guy living in town and im home alot minding my kids, he has alot of friends ? he texts girls that is...
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2009): ask him who she is... might be family. My cousin sent me a text once for her bf complimenting his ass lol.
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reader, deirdre +, writes (19 November 2009):
sounds like hes got you mixed up with someone else ! how long are you seeing each other?
say it to him and get to the bottom of it
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