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Embarrassed because I've never had a relationship

Q.   i'm 16 nearly 17 and i never had a relationship and its getting to the point where i cant tell know one because i feel imbarassed to tell my friends and family except my mum who understands.I do want a relationship but know one has ever taken an ...

A.   22 October 2010: I am 20, male, and have never had a girlfriend, or sex. Anyway, lose weight if you don't feel comfortable with your size. You don't need to be skinny. You need to feel good about yourself, because your self-image is the first thing people s... (read in full...)

Why are some guys so close to their sisters?

Q.   Why is it that some guys seem incredibly close to their sisters? Ive been dating this guy for 5months now. It feels like they flirt more then me and him. And hes always praising her more then me. I know i sound delusional but i know im not! And shes ...

A.   22 October 2010: Statistics are irrelevant to your question. You can safely assume that they didn't have sex. If you aren't comfortable with him loving his sister, then look for a boyfriend with less close/stable family ties. Family came first. You cannot expect him ... (read in full...)

Why are some guys so close to their sisters?

Q.   Why is it that some guys seem incredibly close to their sisters? Ive been dating this guy for 5months now. It feels like they flirt more then me and him. And hes always praising her more then me. I know i sound delusional but i know im not! And shes ...

A.   22 October 2010: It's family. The relationship they have is of a wholly different nature than the relationship between you and him. You cannot compare that. The jealousy you feel is misplaced in a sense that his sister is inherently safe. It's like the relation... (read in full...)

Would a guy pick the girl with the big boobs?

Q.   embarrassing question... :S would a guy rather a girl with an athletic body, LOTS of muscle, long legs, a six pack, and a good bum but has small boobs (A)... or would he rather a girl with an average or skinny body, with big boobs? both girls hav...

A.   21 October 2010: I, personally, find the face of a girl much more important than her breast size. A guy would pick what he finds most attractive. And that's quite subjective. I would pick the girl with the prettier face, if everything else is the same.... (read in full...)

I like my Bio-Lab partner, but does my Bio-Lab partner like me?

Q.   I'm in college now and as my title asks, does my Bio-Lab partner like me? I'm very confused.I like her a lot(my college friends say I LOVE her)she a very sweet and gentle person from what I can tell. We would meet at the campus library often(no...

A.   20 October 2010: Of course, playing it safe appeals to people, because no guy wants to get rejected or embarrass himself by asking out or kissing a girl who has a boyfriend. Although, if you play it safe, she may not realize that it's a romantic meet-up. From her... (read in full...)

I like my Bio-Lab partner, but does my Bio-Lab partner like me?

Q.   I'm in college now and as my title asks, does my Bio-Lab partner like me? I'm very confused.I like her a lot(my college friends say I LOVE her)she a very sweet and gentle person from what I can tell. We would meet at the campus library often(no...

A.   20 October 2010: Adding to dirtball's reply, I would go for a kiss in a good, more intimate moment. Don't let that chance go unexplored. It's better to be rejected than to remain in a state of ignorance for a lifetime, not knowing whether she would've liked yo... (read in full...)

Husband is acting like a child. I need help with the 4 kids!

Q.   ok. let me start by saying im 27 and my husband is 49. he works as mngmnt in meat dept and i am stay at home mom of 3 kids all under 4. my husband and i havnt made love in 9 months. he either sleeps or works outside for hours after he gets home and ...

A.   20 October 2010: Given this new information I retract my previous accusations. A proper course of action would, indeed, be to confront him with a few options, amongst which is your leaving him if he is unwilling to reconsider his responsibilities. (There is manda... (read in full...)

Husband is acting like a child. I need help with the 4 kids!

Q.   ok. let me start by saying im 27 and my husband is 49. he works as mngmnt in meat dept and i am stay at home mom of 3 kids all under 4. my husband and i havnt made love in 9 months. he either sleeps or works outside for hours after he gets home and ...

A.   20 October 2010: To the other agony aunts: What doesn't quite fit into my head is how you people can seriously think that he has sufficient time and energy left for household chores after making the money to sustain his family financially. Of course, the children... (read in full...)

Husband is acting like a child. I need help with the 4 kids!

Q.   ok. let me start by saying im 27 and my husband is 49. he works as mngmnt in meat dept and i am stay at home mom of 3 kids all under 4. my husband and i havnt made love in 9 months. he either sleeps or works outside for hours after he gets home and ...

A.   20 October 2010: I have the impression that he is working hard to sustain you and your three children. Expecting more of him might be unwise. Depending on your financial stability, you could get a house maid or a char lady for the household chores. That way you ... (read in full...)

Lost virginity?

Q.   My boyfriend fingered me hard by inserting 3 fingers into my vagina. Then the very next day I found brown stains on my panties. Have I lost my virginity already?...

A.   17 October 2010: Virginity is a state of mind, and not physical. While your hymen might have been torn by his vigorous fingering of your vagina, you only lost your virginity if you think so. In fact, in my philosophy you could've had several sexual partners... (read in full...)

No vibrator... how can I improvise?

Q.   How can I get a vibrator without ordering it off line and where can I get one that cost less that 20 bucks? What else can I use if i dont have a vibrator or dildo?...

A.   9 April 2010: Vibrating Tooth Brush? My Goodness. I can imagine lots of possible injuries with these things. Of course, most of the time nothing happens, but that doesn't mean it's not dangerous. It's just not meant to be used that way. I just had a look at ... (read in full...)

Fish Odour Syndrome?

Q.   Im a healthy 18 year old girl But ive noticed latley that my down below area has had some kind of odour its not a nasty odour its just quite noticeable. now ive also notcied that my breath has the same smell..ive heard that its called somethin...

A.   9 April 2010: Hey, instead of asking such a medical question - especially one which is even hard to diagnose in person - online, you could spend the time going to a doctor and ask him/her. Nobody here can answer your question. However, TMAU is an i... (read in full...)

Do I have the right to flip and stop dating him? Or should I ignore the age discrepancy?

Q.   I just typed in the e-mail address of the guy I'm currently dating into google, and it came up on 2 websites. They're random websites for cagefighting, but on one it says his age is 23, and on the other it says his age is 24. He told me he was 2...

A.   9 April 2010: Hey, What exactly is your problem? The age difference or that he may have lied to you? You can't know what his real age is, because it could be that he lied about it online. He may think that other people won't take him seriously if he'... (read in full...)

Did I injure myself masturbating?

Q.   hey this is really embarising. Well im 15 and iv never had sex or any thing like that but i do masterbate with this thing i have that works good. Any ways i was usen it in the shower this morning and i was kinda in a wierd position it dint feel tha...

A.   9 April 2010: Hey, There is no need to feel embarrassed. As with all injuries that minor, I would just wait until it goes away on its own - which it most certainly will. You aren't the first one to masturbate too furiously and won't be the last one. If... (read in full...)

My whole family saw our sex tapes!!!

Q.   My gf and I have been together for 3 years, she is 18 and I am 20. A few weeks ago we made a sex tape with my web cam and downloaded it to my computer. I thougth I put it in a folder that was private and needed a password to open. Monday we left to ...

A.   9 April 2010: It's not your parents' business. Seriously, such an intrusion into your personal lives is way out of line and you shouldn't feel embarrassed. Be proud to be open-minded enough to enjoy your sexuality. Obviously, your girlfriend is not a whore. ... (read in full...)

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