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Reconciling with my wife after a break and think a threesome would help
Q. Ok me and my wife broke up for 1 year after a 3 year marriage,break up was basically down to her family and we both agree on this and have been cut out of our lifes,we have recently started seeing each other again,we live apart but have been ...
A. 6 March 2011: What do you want? A relationship with this woman or group sex with her as one of the participants? As everyone else has said, if it is a relationship that you want, then you need to get that on solid ground first - stick to each other for t... (read in full...)
Is a phone call too much? modern technologies and dating
Q. Hello, I really need a suggestion: this guy I met on an online dating site, we exchanged a few emails, no more than once a day, then he asked me out and we met, but several days before the date and after no communication. First date was awkward ...
A. 6 March 2011: First of all, some people just hate talking on the phone. I am one of them. Two, it sounds as if he is busy (kids?), and I am assuming you are as well. If two people REALLY like each other and they are single, there should be no reason why they ... (read in full...)
Is he cheating or just stupid!
Q. Hi I hope you all can help me. I've been with my husband for 5 years. We had a very healthy sex life. 4 months before our wedding the sex decreased drastically. We've been married for 3 years and it has dwindled down to every few months and it's ...
A. 6 March 2011: You can't let it go? You'd better let HIM go! And I know this will be hard, hard like trying to stick a pill down a wet cat's throat, but you NEED to do it. Unless of course you don't mind living with a man who is having sex with another woman. ... (read in full...)
Met the right guy at the wrong time!
Q. I met the right guy at the wrong time :(. Last year I found the most amazing guy, of whom I could of quite easily stayed with my whole life, but I lost him cause I had baggage, and by baggage I mean my mind and body loves someone else, I couldnt ...
A. 6 March 2011: The "right" guy is the right guy at the right time. Mr. "I could have stayed with you my whole life" obviously wasn't "right" enough to take you away from "Mr. Baggage". My advice, worry about yourself and getting your own life in order. Once y... (read in full...)
She's always on my mind but she's taken!
Q. So here's the deal. There is this girl I know, and I know it may sound whatever but I really think she's the one. The connection is unbelievable and she is so supportive of me and my career. When I'm with it just feels right, she is just the right ...
A. 6 March 2011: Advice - back off. One, as you said, she's taken. If she likes you enough, she will dump her boyfriend. Two, girls like the chase, so backing off couldn't hurt either way. She'll just be the one chasing you - IF she's interested. You might... (read in full...)
Should I trust my guy if he's staying out late?
Q. I am in a long distance relationship. He's in France, I'm here. We're both dudes. Last night (saturday) he went out to a gay club with some buds, said he'd be home at 3 am so we could skype (which we do everyday), and didn't get home until 6 am. ...
A. 6 March 2011: How can you have any sort of relationship when your boyfriend is in France and you are here (I'm assuming you mean North America?) Is this only a temporary thing? Either way, you are right in that you can't expect that he'll never go out. B... (read in full...)
Somehow I misunderstood her feelings thinking she cared for me as more than a friend!
Q. Hi I wonder if you guys can help me. I met this girl a few months ago and we got on really well. we exchanged numbers and for a while we texted everyday. I asked her out and she agreed, But she told me she was in a relationship but wasn't happy an...
A. 6 March 2011: Some people are just messed up. Can you say Lindsay Lohan or Charlie Sheen? Obviously, this woman doesn't know what she wants right now. But how would you know if you didn't put yourself out there? Don't beat yourself up over liking her. You ... (read in full...)
He told my uncle he wants sex with me?
Q. What are your views on men who want sex from you ?. I'd like to get different opinions on this. I met a guy tonight who my uncle knows. I was out with my uncle. He came over to say hello to my uncle , and obviously he saw me. When my uncle went to ...
A. 27 February 2011: Anyone who tells a relative of yours that he wants to have sex with you should be stroked off your list immediately. It's almost as creepy as Tom Cruise's Scientology video on Youtube. ... (read in full...)
Ex boyfriend gave me herpes, how do I tell him?
Q. My ex boyfriend gave me an STD - Herpes to be exact and I'm scared to tell him. I'm worried he won't believe me because he got tested and came out clean. But the only thing is that he took my virginity and now I have herpes? How do I tell him he ...
A. 27 February 2011: How do you tell him? Easy, as Masquerade711 says, in person would be best, but if for some reason, he's hiding from you, then do it by phone, email, text and on his Facebook wall. OK, maybe NOT on his Facebook wall. That would just be cruel. ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure whether to end this unhealthy relationship or not?
Q. Cant quite believe I’ve come to asking this sort of advice on a forum! I'm 27, I've mean with my bf 2 years now, living together but no kids, planning a life together etc etc. We've had a few problems which I’ll write about below; but basically w...
A. 27 February 2011: I have this cat. He likes to eat plastic bags. When he does, he throws up about three or four times at various locations around the house - usually at least once on my beige couch. Now since he's a cat and not smart enough to know any better, the ... (read in full...)
Why would he meet up with a woman he says he doesn't like?
Q. I'm so confused about my boyfriends behaviour.We have been going out for 2 yrs.I liked him because he wasn't controlling,he didn't demand anything off me.Sex is amazing,and he is the perfect gentleman.We are both individual and both have male and ...
A. 27 February 2011: Two people are out shopping for pets. One (a guy) is standing at the window of Pete's Pet Emporium admiring the adorable Labrador puppies. Another person (a woman) is standing right beside him fawning over four little Bengal kittens. "Those pu... (read in full...)
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