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Heyyyyyyy there

My name is Paul and I live in England. I have been married for 8 years. We have 3 children together and I have 2 other sons from a previous relationship.

I have been through a lot in my life so far and have experience of many different aspects of life. I enjoy playing sports and have just bought my first motorbike.

My bfs dad caught us after oral sex and now I am so ashamed!!

Q.   Well, i was at my bfs house..and well his family are big nascar fans, and since they were watching the race..my bf and i decided to have oral sex... I was receiving..so when we were done i started buttoning my pants and his dad walked in..and ...

A.   18 February 2007: Just be thankful that you were caught AFTER. This situation could have been much worse, but is also a situation you could have not put yourselves in. Just make sure that in future, you respect the parents enough to not be doin anything like that... (read in full...)

If it is wrong to view women as sex objects then why is there things like pornography and prostitution?

Q.   If it is wrong to view women as sex objects then why is there things like pornography and prostitution? It’s seems kind off contradictory doesn’t it? I mean how are people suppose to learn that viewing women as sex objects is wrong when things like ...

A.   16 February 2007: The attraction of porn for women is teh fact that money can be made so easily. It's like when women go to LA in search of becoming an actress. The female porn star can make more money than most of the Hollywood icons. When you think about it, porn ... (read in full...)

Once guys I date get me to date them, the seem to lose interest! What's going on?

Q.   Here's the thing, my dad has been cheating on my mom since i was 5, i can't trust men and everytime that i have tried to love i ended up heart broken. i think guys are always attracted to me sexually but once they get me they lose interest,and that ...

A.   16 February 2007: I think your insecurity could be the main problem. You should maybe find ways to increase your self confidence. Maybe take up a martial arts class or enrol for drama lessons. I think you sound like a wonderful person, but you dont seem to have very... (read in full...)

Is it weird to love a celebrity?

Q.   Is it weird to love a celebrity more than normal? Do I like that celebrity or is just fan love?...

A.   16 February 2007: I think it would be weird to have never been in your situation. I am sure everyone goes through this. When I was younger, I was 100% convinced I would be marrying Kylie Minogue, just as my mum loved Donny Osmond. This is a natural for anybody. Perh... (read in full...)

Why am I feeling like this? Should I break up with him or not?

Q.   i need help ASAP.I've been with this guy for 2 weeks. i havent known him long and have a feeling it may of been a bit fast. when im with him its fine, a bit quiet sometimes as we dnt have that many of the same interests i've recently realised. But ...

A.   16 February 2007: I think you are probably right to end things with him, for both your sakes. At least you are sincere enough and caring enough to do the right thing so early on. It's not a nice feeling when we feel we are being messed about by the one we real... (read in full...)

Is this love...what do you all think?

Q.   I miss him when Im not with him and when Im not talking to him. I love spending time with him. Enjoy listening bout his likes/dislikes and how his day has been. Is this love?...

A.   16 February 2007: It is the beginning of how love starts. People tend to form a close friendship and cherish each others company. Respect and trust start to build a steady foundation for love to grow. Love is like a tree. It won't grow strong unless the seed is secu... (read in full...)

How can you tell the difference between love, lust and obsession?

Q.   How do you know when your in love? Because sumtimes you think you are and it could be lust or obsession or sumthing else?...

A.   16 February 2007: It is difficult to give a true answer to this because they are all so alike. First, there is lust. Overwhelming feelings for somebody that can occur suddenly. It makes you want to just get them alone in a room and rip their clothes off. Sexual desi... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is mentally and sometimes physically abusive to me and I don't know what to do! Help!!!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been together going on four years. We have a two year old daughter together. We have broken up 3 times in the last year, because I kicked him out. I just feel fed up with him he is mentally and sometimes physically abusive. ...

A.   16 February 2007: I do not feel that there is any love left in this relationship. Mental abuse can be just as damaging as physical abuse and the fact that there is a 2 year old witness to all this makes things even worse. You really must leave this man for good. This ... (read in full...)

How do I 'finger' my gf without hurting her? Any tips?

Q.   Hi my I was wodering how is the best way to finger girl freind becuse last time i seemed to hurt her and she started lieing saying it was fine but i no it isnt so Please help me !!!...

A.   28 January 2007: The key is relaxation. If there is tension and nerves, then it will hurt because she will not be as 'ready'. Make sure your fingers are clean and nails short, because this can cause discomfort. Take things slowly and dont try to rush.... (read in full...)

He doesn't seem to want to be a family with me and our daughter. Why is he this way?

Q.   i what him to move in with me and our daughter but he wont does he really want a family or just a part time 1. it feels unfair to our daughter 1 night hes at home with us and the other 4 out of the week hes not. why dont he want the family life?...

A.   28 January 2007: Have you asked him the reason why he won't move in with you? The people on this site can really only offer opinions, only he can offer you the truth.... (read in full...)

Do I tell him I like him a lot or not?

Q.   hello i think i am inlove with this guy called justin but i really dont know what to do about it? i dont know if he is single? or if he'd even consider anyone like me? he is about 2 years older than me and his name is justin he is well gorgous and i ...

A.   28 January 2007: You say you are not sure if he is single and he is about 2 years older. This indicates that you do not know each other very well. I also get the feeling he is completely oblivious to your feelings towards him. I would hold off telling him how you ... (read in full...)

Fell in love with this guy but my parents hate him. What should I do?

Q.   hi.i'm 30 year old divorcee with a 5 yrs old son.last year i fell in love with a catholic guy n want to marry him now.the problem is that my parents didn't like him at all.if i go against my family,they will disown me.i feel stuck now.want to be ...

A.   28 January 2007: I presume your parents do not like him because he is Catholic. I am sure that over time, they will see that his desire and love for you makes you very happy. They would be foolish to allow his beliefs to overshadow your happiness. I feel they will... (read in full...)

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