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Texting the Male

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18 January 2009: I have recently read many responses to many ladies' concern of why their boyfriends or signifcant others don't respond to their text and how it makes them feel... Well, what i am about to write could be considered a tip to all those lady texters out ...

Her inconsistencies are driving me up the wall...please help!

Q.   I moved in with a girl two years ago after talking on the phone for several months quite extensively about mutual our desires to have a family and and finally meeting in San Francisco. She flew out to meet me from the east coast. We had a great ti...

A.   19 January 2009: Unfortunatly...those who have been deceived and betrayed by someone they love...have been caught in their web of flaws. And i know how it hurts...betrayal and deception cut to the very core of our well being...that's the pain. There is a good book ... (read in full...)

Her inconsistencies are driving me up the wall...please help!

Q.   I moved in with a girl two years ago after talking on the phone for several months quite extensively about mutual our desires to have a family and and finally meeting in San Francisco. She flew out to meet me from the east coast. We had a great ti...

A.   18 January 2009: Goodness...you have more than meat on your plate...i think the best thing to do is let everything cool off so clear heads may prevail...there is definilty a trust issue here, possible deception and betrayal...one thing to keep in mind is when a ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend slapped me

Q.   Ok, so I was walking in the mall with my boyfriend and suddenly a girl (stranger) came to me and whispered in my ears, "Check your pants zip". Obviously, I was so embarrassed and so when my boyfriend asked me what she said, I just lied to him that ...

A.   18 January 2009: No My Dear...he still has no right to slap you! When he promised to quit smoking...that is for himself and to better his life, just because you hate it...was an effort to show respect. Now the small white lie was harmless and his response is an ... (read in full...)

Has anyone else ever had their heart ripped apart like this, and how did you deal with it?

Q.   My boyfriend and I live some miles aways from each other, and every time he comes to see me (he never lets me come to his) he had to take two buses, which took nearly two hours and cost a lot of money which he barely had. Last night he came into ...

A.   18 January 2009: oh My Dear, I am so sorry for you heart break...it does hurt...you are young and you will recover...i promise! Get busy with your friends, go get some culture at the museum...start a journal and write down your emotions...it will help you heal... (read in full...)

I have been married for nearly 6 years and I am so confused as to whether I want to remain in the marriage.

Q.   I have been married for nearly 6 years and I am so confused as to whether I want to remain in the marriage. My husband appears outwardly as a caring man but the longer I know him the more I realise he is actually quite a self centered man who ...

A.   18 January 2009: My Dear...If you choose to loose weight...it should be for yourself...if not anything else for health reasons! Join a gym, get a trainer to help you...the treainer will also help with gaining better eating habits with healthier food. AS far,... (read in full...)

He acted as if he had no responsibility...any encouraging words to help me get closure??

Q.   This is an update from a question posted -(Jan 6, I cry most of the time his indecisiveness is driving me insane)Please read so this all makes sense. Well I went ahead and broke up with him last weekend. Found out too he was making all these ma...

A.   18 January 2009: My Dear...Arethea Franklin...sang it beautifully... R-E-S-P-E-C-T! He's not giving it to you and you must demand it! And that will be through your actions...set up boundaries and stay in your hoola-hoop...don't let him in and don't you dare go o... (read in full...)

He doesn't text me back!

Q.   I've been going out with my boyfriend for over 3 weeks now and it really aggrevates me that I text him 1-2 times a day and sometimes he never even texts me back. he says he likes me alot blah blah but why doesn't he say a simple hey how are you?? ...

A.   18 January 2009: Ladies, Ladies, Ladies...i have read all of your responses and there is one common denominator here...the men are not texting back! So maybe, the old rule to not call men should apply to texting...what do yall think?...afterall, it is still a ... (read in full...)

Her inconsistencies are driving me up the wall...please help!

Q.   I moved in with a girl two years ago after talking on the phone for several months quite extensively about mutual our desires to have a family and and finally meeting in San Francisco. She flew out to meet me from the east coast. We had a great ti...

A.   18 January 2009: Oh My Dear...yall have a huge trust problem that cannot be resolved here! The two of you need to NOW quit thinking about yourselves, because there is a child and the child's well being comes FIRST! If the two of you want to make a go of this for ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend slapped me

Q.   Ok, so I was walking in the mall with my boyfriend and suddenly a girl (stranger) came to me and whispered in my ears, "Check your pants zip". Obviously, I was so embarrassed and so when my boyfriend asked me what she said, I just lied to him that ...

A.   18 January 2009: My Dear...this is a no brainer!...kick your heals three times and say there is no place like home! And run! There is no slapping in baseball! The Doctor ... (read in full...)

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