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writes:This is an update from a question posted -(Jan 6, I cry most of the time his indecisiveness is driving me insane)Please read so this all makes sense.Well I went ahead and broke up with him last weekend. Found out too he was making all these maybe life changes w/out telling me. He knew a week or two before. He said he did not want to have to feel guilty or anything while he was away. He even told his 15 year old daughter of this and also told her he does not find me long term.(she asked if I was going down with him if he got employment)They all knew except me (his parents, kids ..Our breakup took about two days for me to fully express everything I needed to for closure. Before we got into the breakup conversation phase he nicely asked me if I would live with him? in case he could not find employment soon in our area ya know help him out with rent! (like when i use to live with him and pay rent)HAH...the FL job fell through btw) Everything I brought up he would either say he did not say that , had no emotion. He acted as if he had no responsibility. I do blame myself for being so stupid in taking him back all these times and trying to believe in him. I also found out he was making about 3x more money than me at his last job and there I was paying for dinners sometimes/most of time paying for myself on everything else. Towards the end he told me this is good this all came out because he can't take this another couple of years having to explain himself!!! Of course at the end he asked if we could still meetup for booty calls! LOL..Anyways just venting the rest of whats in my head so I can put this to rest for good. I just need some encouraging words to get through this. We have been through this before he acts all nonchalant and in a few weeks he's on his knees. I don't want history to repeat its self. I have been keeping busy and all but very annoyed and pissed off...Thanks in advance and thanks to those who helped me before...Any encouragement from male/females will be sooo welcomed!!!! Thanks!:}
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe Doctor Thank you!!!:] ....just need to keep reading the posts so I don't feel like the crazy one!
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reader, The Doctor +, writes (18 January 2009):
My Dear...Arethea Franklin...sang it beautifully...
R-E-S-P-E-C-T! He's not giving it to you and you must demand it! And that will be through your actions...set up boundaries and stay in your hoola-hoop...don't let him in and don't you dare go out of it!
He is not a nice person and you deserve better...
Get a jounal and write everything down when you have the urge to call him...best of luck to you...The Doctor
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