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I was the most popular girl in school but everything seems to be going wrong!

Q.   okay you need to know my story.. this is how it starts kay. well im voted as the most popular at my school,and other stuff and everyones loves me.. but something went wrong.. i told my best friend ever im maybe moving so shes comes over and my s...

A.   6 August 2010: I agree with chigirl and I would like to add that things will get better for you. Love is the most painfull thing in the world, and I now what your going through. for years I would have done anything for the girl I loved and when she left the other ... (read in full...)

I was the most popular girl in school but everything seems to be going wrong!

Q.   okay you need to know my story.. this is how it starts kay. well im voted as the most popular at my school,and other stuff and everyones loves me.. but something went wrong.. i told my best friend ever im maybe moving so shes comes over and my s...

A.   5 August 2010: Well, what you'll need to do now is confront your bf face-to-face and tell him everything about whats going on in your life right now along with your feelings. DO NOT 'lose' YOURSELF TO HIM OR ANYBODY FOR THAT MATTER, your to young. The thing is, ... (read in full...)

Only 17 years old living a very messed up adult life

Q.   I am in a very messy situation. I am 17 years old and I have been with my boyfriend for 2.5 years. We have an 11 month old daughter together. He is violent. (Name calling, put downs, death threats, pushed me, broken things) for the past 18 months he ...

A.   13 July 2010: This is a very complex situation and im so sorry you have to go through this. What you might be able to try to do is maybe move in with a close friend, if only for even just a few months, and from there go to court and get him to pay child support, ... (read in full...)

I would like to kiss a boy, but my parents watch me like hawks

Q.   Hey guys! well, im 15 and i have NEVER kissed anyone. i have someone in mind but im too afraid that my parents would find out some how or someone would tell. im not aloud to date yet so that means no dates! what do i do? do the guys tell people or ...

A.   9 July 2010: Id like to say that its perfectly fine to not have kissed someone at your age. Im 17 and I have not kissed a girl yet(Its not that I cant, its that I want to wait till I actually find a girl who I feel I can have a long term relation with and be ... (read in full...)

3 steps forward and 2 steps back!

Q.   I've been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend now for about a year and a half. Stuff lately hasn't been going so well, but it seems like we always have the same problems over and over again. I blame myself for a lot of the stuff ...

A.   9 July 2010: Continuing from my last comment, I know how you feel because I went through the same thing. Changing is HARD but it is very possable. Long distance relationships are hard to maintain but you can do it but BOTH you and your boyfriend NEED to be ... (read in full...)

3 steps forward and 2 steps back!

Q.   I've been in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend now for about a year and a half. Stuff lately hasn't been going so well, but it seems like we always have the same problems over and over again. I blame myself for a lot of the stuff ...

A.   9 July 2010: In a situation like this, you need to take some time off and write an honest list of all the problems you can think of about yourself. From that point you can slowly work at the problems you have w/o forgetting what you need to work on. As for tryi... (read in full...)

I need her back in my life, but she thinks I hate her!

Q.   i am 14 almost 15 and i always knew that i was different i knew i also loved girls.. after being threatned for being gay i came out to my friends finding out that the girl i loved felt the same about me and that two more friends were also bi. but ...

A.   8 July 2010: Continuing from my last statement, It appears that perhaps what you are going through may be an obsession. If you are interested in researching this there are two topics; Cognetive Behaviour Theorpy and Obsessive Love. To answer your question I ... (read in full...)

Unsure about masturbation.

Q.   I'm a fourteen year old girl, and well...a lot of my friends "masterbate". I suppose at first I was a bit shocked when they told me that. I had heard the term before, but had never taken part in trying to. I am very curious about my body now, but ...

A.   8 July 2010: Well, if you dont feel comfortable masterbating then dont do it. Try not to let peer pressure(if there is any) make you do what you dont want to do. Nobody needs to know about this in an event that someone asks you if you masterbate so you can tell ... (read in full...)

My husband won't go to anger management, is it time to divorce?

Q.   My husband gave me an ultimatum last week which was I needed to return home by Thursday otherwise he was going to his scheduled appointment with his attorney to end our marriage. I really need him to go to anger management or something since his ...

A.   8 July 2010: In a situation like this I cant really be to much help but I think that perhaps what yot might want to try is to sit him down, talk honestly on your feelings for eachother and about his faults and ask him on yours, then perhaps you can make some ... (read in full...)

If he is not interested in me why does he try to make me emotionally weak?

Q.   I know my ex has a new gf.He confessed to me when I told him that I know your present relation.At first he tried to make me emotionally weak.I dont know why.He begged to me to receive his phone.I received the phone and talked to him very politely ...

A.   8 July 2010: Perhaps this guy is trying to use you as a lifeboat, so to speak, and that he wants to keep you weak so that in the event that something happens between him and his g/f, he would try to get back with you. Im only making an assumption from the way ... (read in full...)

I need her back in my life, but she thinks I hate her!

Q.   i am 14 almost 15 and i always knew that i was different i knew i also loved girls.. after being threatned for being gay i came out to my friends finding out that the girl i loved felt the same about me and that two more friends were also bi. but ...

A.   8 July 2010: Let me start by saying I kinda know how you feel. I am obsessed with a girl(though im a guy) and she just moved away and my world fell apart. Now from what I learned from the last month was this; our minds can sometimes get "stuck" on someone,if you ... (read in full...)

I'm obsessed with my teacher and feel I am in love with her!

Q.   Well, I know this is a very redundant topic on here, and I've read a bunch of questions and answers. But the thing is that most that I would like to reply to have been closed. So I finally decided to post my own, as no one question/story is quite ...

A.   4 July 2010: I know what you felt when this occured to you. OMG, I am going through the same thing just with the smartest student in school instead of a teacher. Everything you though and felt is the same with me. I however has just decided to go to the school ... (read in full...)

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