I'm damned if do and damned if I don't, so what do l do I now?
Q. I really have no one to ask about this. Okay, I'm 40, I've been married, had several relationships, etc. I'm not new to the whole relationship thing is what I'm trying to say, I guess. But, about 2 months ago, our office got a new employee. She'...
A. 13 May 2008: Okay. Well, it's not working as well as expected. My phone service is messing up and so we haven't talked for about a week now. I'm obsessing on who she's calling and what she's doing. I can't stop thinking about it because I see her every day. I ... (read in full...)
He wants to be free. I don't understand what I did or how to move on
Q. Hi, im 19 been with this guy since i was 17 and he is my 1st love, my heart is breaking at the moment as he has decided randomly that we fight too much and he is better off without me. He just wants to be the happy care free person he was before he m...
A. 8 May 2008: This sounds really cliche', but you're 19. Your whole life is ahead of you to make out of it what you will. But, through trial and error, mostly error, I've found this truth to be applicable in all areas of life: People want what they can't ... (read in full...)
I have no libido after breaking up. Does anyone else feel like this?
Q. I broke up with my gf there a few months ago after a long period of not being sure about whether I wanted to continue the relationship and going on 'breaks'. It was really tough cos she was my first and only proper long term gf and she was also my ...
A. 8 May 2008: First, let me say that I truly empathize with the pain you're experiencing. Losing your first love and your best friend in one shot is a bitch.
I'm no expert or doctor, but it sounds as if you're in the grieving/mourning stage of the breakup.... (read in full...)
Question for the BOYS and MEN on this site about strip clubs!
Q. Hey Question for the BOYS and MEN on this site... ladies are welcome to write their comments as well.... After a boys night out in a Strip club .. coming home to your wife,fiance or girlfriend ... wanting to have sex with her at that moment...
A. 8 May 2008: As a man who has been to strip clubs in the past, I'd say it's probably a bit of both. Men are visually aroused, so he may be turned on, or he may just have missed you while he was there. For most men, strip clubs are social events for the men. ... (read in full...)
I'm damned if do and damned if I don't, so what do l do I now?
Q. I really have no one to ask about this. Okay, I'm 40, I've been married, had several relationships, etc. I'm not new to the whole relationship thing is what I'm trying to say, I guess. But, about 2 months ago, our office got a new employee. She'...
A. 8 May 2008: Thanks everyone for the great responses. I really appreciate it. She and I had a very long talk last night, and I basically just laid it all out for her. She wasn't exactly surprised. She's very mature for 26. While talking to her I realized that ... (read in full...)
He says he needs space once in a while-or is it me?
Q. My boyfriend said he doesnt want to see me 24-7. He says he needs space once in a while. Have I done something wrong? is this a bad sign? ...
A. 7 May 2008: It's not necessarily a bad sign. Some people require more "me" time than others. I know I need a lot of me time even if I'm madly in love with someone.
The only way you could do something "wrong" now is by clinging. It'll make him push you away... (read in full...)
First time with her - did I handle it badly?
Q. I'm 19. My gf is 16. Recently she came to visit me from another town. We petted since her arrival. One morning early,while my parents were out for a while, she was still in her nightie and we were we were kissing, I pulled her panties down. Sh...
A. 7 May 2008: She may or may not have been ready. She's 16, so hasn't exactly matured emotionally enough to really think things through. The only way you'll really know the answer to any of your questions is to ask her. Honest and open communication is the only ... (read in full...)
I'm damned if do and damned if I don't, so what do l do I now?
Q. I really have no one to ask about this. Okay, I'm 40, I've been married, had several relationships, etc. I'm not new to the whole relationship thing is what I'm trying to say, I guess. But, about 2 months ago, our office got a new employee. She'...
A. 6 May 2008: Oh, and I am deeply entrenched in the "friend zone". I've been told there is no escape from that. She doesn't flirt with me, and we've stopped going out as a "couple" even as a couple of friends. We can go in groups. She's very paranoid about people ... (read in full...)
I'm damned if do and damned if I don't, so what do l do I now?
Q. I really have no one to ask about this. Okay, I'm 40, I've been married, had several relationships, etc. I'm not new to the whole relationship thing is what I'm trying to say, I guess. But, about 2 months ago, our office got a new employee. She'...
A. 6 May 2008: Thanks for the quick and insightful answers. She's pretty aware that I'm still kind of not cool with talking about other men. But, it's not that she's dating anyone. I just hear about the guys in the office that email her or flirt with her, etc
... (read in full...)
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