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I got my teacher pregnant, now she won't talk to me!

Q.   UH Hi. Its been awhile since I've asked a question but here goes. The woman I was with last year was a FORMER teacher of mine and we were hiding our relationship because we didnt want to deal with anything that might damage her career. Well the ...

A.   23 October 2010: Alright it's been three months since I posted an this is my last post. Pretty much an end to the story so to speak. I've quit school and am working a full time job that a buddy of mine got for me in his firm. Its not spectacular pay but its enou... (read in full...)

I'm an 18 year old virgin and suspecting that I am bisexual

Q.   Ok.im 18 a virgin and suspecting that i am bisexual. this i do not have a probelem with,but i would like to know if i am for deffinate,i dont think i would have much of a problem coming out. I dont have a very high oppinion of men in general,howev...

A.   20 July 2010: Dont worry. Alot of people are confused about their sexuality and from the sounds of it your problem can be worked through. If you feel attracted to women thats fine and if you feel comfortable around them so what. The fact that your unco... (read in full...)

I'm 18 and attracted to older men. Help!

Q.   [OP original title] Well i am 18 years old. I'm not attracted to guys my own age. I'm finding that i'm attracted to guys in their late 20's to mid 40's. the one guy who impacted me tremendously is 41 years old. he made me feel like no one has ever...

A.   19 July 2010: Stoker is right about the married man part sorry but he is off limits which makes your guilt a good thing. But there is nothing wrong with being attracted to someone older than yourself. I am currently in a relationship with a woman eight year... (read in full...)

Our families don't approve of our relationship!

Q.   i'm a girl and i'm currently in a relationship with a another girl. in other words, lesbian. and i think there's nothign wrong with that but both side's of parents seems to be breaking us up and hope that we stop seeing each other. What should i do? ...

A.   19 July 2010: I agree with lost. Talking from experience I know whats it is like to be in a taboo relationship but dont let that deter your actions or feelings. If your significant other really makes you happy and you care about her then stick together and try to ... (read in full...)

I got my teacher pregnant, now she won't talk to me!

Q.   UH Hi. Its been awhile since I've asked a question but here goes. The woman I was with last year was a FORMER teacher of mine and we were hiding our relationship because we didnt want to deal with anything that might damage her career. Well the ...

A.   19 July 2010: No she isn't manipulative or controlling, she's sweet and tries to understand me but recently things have just been getting tough. I mean she's dealing with the stress of taking care of kana while Im working and trying to go through school. I know ... (read in full...)

I got my teacher pregnant, now she won't talk to me!

Q.   UH Hi. Its been awhile since I've asked a question but here goes. The woman I was with last year was a FORMER teacher of mine and we were hiding our relationship because we didnt want to deal with anything that might damage her career. Well the ...

A.   18 July 2010: I take offense at anyone referring to her as a slut and is eight years really that big of a difference?... (read in full...)

I got my teacher pregnant, now she won't talk to me!

Q.   UH Hi. Its been awhile since I've asked a question but here goes. The woman I was with last year was a FORMER teacher of mine and we were hiding our relationship because we didnt want to deal with anything that might damage her career. Well the ...

A.   18 July 2010: It's complicated. My family and havent talked in along time. I work two part time jobs along with school.... (read in full...)

My wife was a prostitute, but she's mad at me for confronting her.

Q.   I've posted here before about the agony of my wife running away at the age of 14 and having sex with strangers on the way or while she was there, she was somewhat shortcoming of the details. After a certain coincidental set of circumstances, I...

A.   18 July 2010: Man you have a daughter and a lifetime of memories dont screw it all up because of something she did way back when. Tell me this, is she still sleeping with other men for money. We ala make mistakes when we are young (just look at my problems) but ... (read in full...)

Is it disrespectful for him to ask me to sauna with his friends 3 hours after meeting him?

Q.   i wanted to know if its disrespectful when you just met a guy gave him your number then 3 hrs later his calling you asking you if i wanna go sauna with him and his friends?? ...

A.   18 July 2010: Usually the period of # wait time is three days to call but this guy could just be like the rest of my gender and be interested but thoughtless. Wait and go out with him and his friends to something were you are not potentially almost naked and see ... (read in full...)

What's going on between my husband and his aunt?

Q.   My husband spends about an hour a day on the phone with his 'aunt'. She is the same age as him (37) and lives in a beach house with several others. Think older flop house basically. They recently reconnected, and I found out they were talking so ...

A.   18 July 2010: Either your just lonely and paranoid or his aunt may not really be his aunt. Try to worm as much info out of him that you can without getting into a big confrontation. Just keep monitoring the situation and if he stops let it drop. Tell him that you ... (read in full...)

Best ways to snog someone...?

Q.   Hello everyone, If I could have some advice it would be much appreciated. Me and my girlfriend are happily together and we are comfortable about holding hands and kissing in public. I was just wondering, how do you snog someone? We are bo...

A.   18 July 2010: Remember to swirl you tongue. And depending on who the man is in the snog. (person who inserts tongue in other persons mouth first) they are going to want something different. If the snog last awhile and you feel the heat going up, just go with it I ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with my teacher and I think he loves me as well!

Q.   I am 15 years old and i am in love with my English teacher and i am certain he is into me. When i first meet him i thought he was a weird guy but as i got to now him i flirted. 1:on my birthday he got jealous when another guy said his birthday...

A.   18 July 2010: I fell in love with and knocked up one of my teachers and now we have a baby. Why do I tell you this I tell you this because Im still not sure if what we did was right or wrong. I am filled with doubts and guilt. And all i can say is do not act on ... (read in full...)

Is it normal to want to be a dad at 15?

Q.   hay I'm 15 and I'm curious if it normal for me to be wanting to be a dad i mean i really really want to be one is it normal or what?...

A.   18 July 2010: Listen to me. DO NOT DO ANYTHING STUPID. I am eighteen year old and already a father. So far my relationship with the woman I love is in shambles because I cant handle it. Im still trying to get through college and it is killing me. Im not sure If I ... (read in full...)

Why is she picking fights all of a sudden?

Q.   Um worried about my girlfriend because she has been complaining alot lately. She says that her breast keep getting bigger for no apparent reason. I also notice that she has been really short with me lately and she's had to use the bathroom al...

A.   28 October 2009: Rape or not I really dont care. I seventeen and by all accounts Im an adult. I've thought about asking her about marriage in the past (recent) but I've wussed out every time. Should I go ahead? I know I love with every fiber of my being.... (read in full...)

Why is she picking fights all of a sudden?

Q.   Um worried about my girlfriend because she has been complaining alot lately. She says that her breast keep getting bigger for no apparent reason. I also notice that she has been really short with me lately and she's had to use the bathroom al...

A.   28 October 2009: Im in new zealand and the age of sexual consent here is like twelve. ... (read in full...)

Why is she picking fights all of a sudden?

Q.   Um worried about my girlfriend because she has been complaining alot lately. She says that her breast keep getting bigger for no apparent reason. I also notice that she has been really short with me lately and she's had to use the bathroom al...

A.   28 October 2009: I asked and yes she is pregnat. WHAT DO I DO? I love her so much but the thing is that no one really knows about us. You see she was my teacher last year and we started dating after I grauated. I really dont like talking about this to pe... (read in full...)

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