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writes:I am 15 years old and i am in love with my English teacher and i am certain he is into me. When i first meet him i thought he was a weird guy but as i got to now him i flirted. 1:on my birthday he got jealous when another guy said his birthday was the same day as mine he even looked up his info on the computer!than he asked him than whats you're sign and i yelled scorpio cause thats my sign i ruined it lol anyways after class i asked him when his birthday was he told me than asked why and i said you'll see and it was so good he is a taurus. than the next day i talked about taurus people and he was like yah thats true about me and smiled at me big time like hey baby!2: one time this girl had a question and he leaned on my desk because she sits next to me and was staring dead in my face for like 8 seconds than he was talking to her and when i looked away he put his hands on my desk like look at me! than not only that get this HE STAYED TALKING TO ME AND THE GIRL FOR 45 mins i am so not kidding and it was not a min day or last days of school or holiday no regular day! than as i listened to him talk i didn't no wtf he was saying like he started talking about food culture's and his favorite vactions like what the hell and he was leaning rite next to me like if i moved my head forward 3 inchs i would have smacked lips!3:since we started talking after about 3 mouths and this is before number 2 happened he started being distant and not talking to me or anything and that is mixed emotions and if he didn't like me he would be talking to me normally!4: he gets pissed at any guy that even looks at me he will call him out to pay attention or do something rude like one time he walked over this guy i was talking to's foot. like why do that unless you like me you have not done that before!?5:all my friends i described how i flirted how he spoke to me they all said he likes you at least and some said love and that it is weird! on the second to last day he asked me to rite down my email so i can join his program than in my yearbook he wrote like i will always remember you're smile and blah blah love (HIS NAME) also the way he looks at me i can feel something i am a scorpio and last guys who are ex boyfriends i felt the same thing but his is stronger i can't explain it all the way. 6: he is a taurus and said like i want in love a person to have the 5 great sences like touch smell etc. and near the last 2 days he has kept distant for me on the other day's we where watching his fav movie and he was talking about it and it was about this guy who gets freaked out when touched so i talked to him about it and he touched my arm than i talked to him really good i am good at flirting him up cause than!he put his head down and gave a loud crybaby noise like noo and asked all the kids to hug him but i couldn't cause they got to him to fast so after all the kids left i asked him to sign my book there where 2 other kids there and he looked at me and said i need to give you a hug and hugged me than i smiled and said so yah are you gonna sign it and he said oh yah the book like he thought i was just staying there till all the kids left hmmmm you be the judge
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reader, Philosophyzer +, writes (24 July 2010):
 I think he is just being nice to you and you are reading into his actions way too much. He tells boys talking in class to pay attention because that is his job as a teacher. He probably didn't get jealous about the boy saying it was also his birthday. Most teaching software, such as Progress Book, has every students' basic information in it and usually displays an icon when it is a student's birthday. He probably noticed that there wasn't an icon and was just razzing the boy to prove he was not telling the truth. Sweetie, you are 15 and there is much time for love in you future! If anything else, find a boy around you age.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2010): Be careful, but if it is something - run with it.
Look at my story:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-an-author-looking-for-your-stories-about.html
I fell in love with my science teacher just before my 14th birthday, when he was 22. We got it together just after my 16th birthday and he 24. I am now 20, he is 28. We are now engaged to be married.
The thing is, at school it was always very professional. I had the support of my parents. The connection between us transcends generations.
If you can have this respect, then it can work. Take you time and let providence run its path.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2010): Whatever feelings you have, or he has... are irrelevant here.
You are underage and a student. This makes it morally, legally and ethically wrong.
Grow up more and you will understand.
Flynn 24
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reader, Tarly  +, writes (18 July 2010):
 I fell in love with and knocked up one of my teachers and now we have a baby. Why do I tell you this I tell you this because Im still not sure if what we did was right or wrong. I am filled with doubts and guilt. And all i can say is do not act on any impulses. If this guy openly comes on to you clear as day then I say call the police. At you age if a teacher is interested in you then he is most likely a pervert stalker, no offense.
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reader, Jola100  +, writes (16 July 2010):
Yeah iv got the same problem as you at the moment and I know how hard it is... It tears you up inside and I personally get SO annoyed when people say it's only a "teacher crush", but as Sally and the person b4 her sez, it could go horribly wrong and wreck both your lives if even the smallest thing happens between you and people find out! The best thing to do is just enjoy the friendship you have with this teacher, but don't take it any further than that! As if you truely do love him you would want him to be happy... That's how I feel now. Hope I helpedgood luck x
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reader, midnight juliet +, writes (15 July 2010):
 To be honest it sounds like something is definatly up with him.I would be careful about it if i were you.Even if you have a thing for him just try to let it go.This type of situation could go terribly wrong.Cause if you two hook up in the near future then he goes to prison & your perminent record is screwed.Im sure your a great girl who can find a great guy way closer to your age.So try to work on that & just stay away from teach.
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reader, xanthic +, writes (14 July 2010):
 You're reading into everything he does way too much. He's not in love with you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2010): In my opinion, if he does like you i would be worried. A man in his position (being a teacher) should not be showing interest in a student. I hope he is just being polite.
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reader, SallyR87  +, writes (14 July 2010):
 If you really do love this teacher and want to be with him, the only thing you can do is completely avoid and ignore him until you are finished with school (years from now!) If anything happens between you two then his career will be over FOREVER and he could even go to prison.
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