13 and so confused about my sexuality... is this normal?
Q. I'm 13 and i think im turning gay! I get erections thinking about girls but I get excited when i see a boy and when i masturbate sometime i get aroused fast thinking about girls but sometimes i dont am i gay. Please help, am I gay???...
A. 13 March 2010: Getting exectied doesnt mean your gay, and getting erections to girls is perfectly normall, if you are worried sit your self down and think about what you like, but from the sounds of it you are straight and are perfectly normal at your age, x... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and want to know what will happen now...if I do happen to be pregnant?
Q. i'm 15 and my boyfriend is 21, we have been good mates for about ten years. we have now been going out for 3 months, and i think i am pregnant. what will happen if i keep the baby? please help me ...
A. 23 February 2010: firstly your too young honestly you have a whole life ahead of you, im not just saying that i know i have had the same worry as you, but if you are pregnant your boyfriend could be charged and put on the sex afenders list, even if you dont want it ... (read in full...)
Should I break up with my boyfriend?
Q. i have been with my boyfriend for about 5 months, a few weeks ago he told me he wanted space because he felt that i was always on his back and that i was too clingy.. so i left him alone and 2 days later he came crawling back saying he missed me and ...
A. 12 February 2010: I'm in the same situation as you, and i've been doing it for 10 months now, and i still dont understand them, it seems like he is only thinking about himself in this relationship, and i understand that you cant sit him down and talk, it happens to ... (read in full...)
How do I give a really good handjob?
Q. how do i give really good handjobs? ive given my boyfriend a few, but he doesnt seem to enjoy them, he says he does afterwards, but it doesnt show. he wants me to give him head but i dont want to, i just want him to really enjoy it and for me to see ...
A. 11 February 2010: first of all your really young i wouldnt worry about things at your age but, if you want to try putting a little lube on your hands so it feels moist and try going slowly then building him up it should work and he will love it, and if you dont want ... (read in full...)
I want to lose my virginity, but told my boyfriend I already have!
Q. i am 14 and i want to lose my virginrty..but the thing bout it that i hve a new boyfriend and i tld him that i lost it ...so wht do i do?? n will he tell if i did not lose it when we nave sex...?...
A. 11 February 2010: i think it would be best to just tell him your a virgin and trust me your rushinh into it way to young, i made that mistake and wish i never, plus it aslso changes the relationship and sometimes not for the better, think about it for a long time and ... (read in full...)
What are some comfortable positions for a "quickie"?
Q. ok so i need a little help me and my husband have busy schedules and does anyone know any comfortable sex positions for a "quickie" as some might say he says i pick the sex position and idk what position to do it in can anyone please help me...
A. 11 February 2010: doggy is a good postion for a quicky especialy the guy, as it makes them cum quicker cause its tighter, and he can build up great speed its the only one i know of sorry but it works xx... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend starting to distance himself, when everything is going well?
Q. We've been dating for 9 months, so we've pretty much went through almost everything. From him losing interest, being too controlling, and me being sick of putting all the effort into our relationship because i wasn't getting anything back. ...
A. 11 February 2010: im having the same trouble as you only mine is cause of his parents controlling him, i think you should try and have a nice dinner tomorrow, and see how is goes, if it doesnt go like you want then i would confornt him, it also seems like he is ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to kiss your best friend while your on a break with your boyfriend?
Q. Ok, my boyfriend and i got into a really big fight and decided to take a break. So, about after a week into our break i called my best guy friend over to make me feel better. We kissed. It was unexpected and neither of us planned it. We both agreed ...
A. 11 February 2010: it depends on the break, was it see other people or we're still together but need time apart, but its can go either way, you where on a break yes, but at the same time you probes shouldnt have done it, you should talk to your boyfriend and see how ... (read in full...)
Is his mum trying to turn him against me?
Q. this is kinda a stupid question but its eating me inside, recently my boyfriend was taken into a room with his parents then came out, and talked to me saying he needs 3 days a week minimum to himself, and that i ruined a party because i starte...
A. 11 February 2010: i was crying at the party, cause he had ignored me all night and kept going away with this girl, and his friends where all telling me that she likes to sleep about and get her mitts on anything she can, and she had been constantly flirting with him ... (read in full...)
What's so wrong with spending a weekend with the one you love?
Q. My boyfriend and i are both still young (18 - 19 this year) He's only had one serious partner with a younger girl whereas my previous relationships have been with men 3 or 4 years older than me who have all been ready to settle down. I now feel that ...
A. 11 February 2010: i kinda have the same problem, so i understand where your coming from, and no it cant hurt, but from experiecnce its sounds like he doesnt see how much it means too you, especisally for valentines day, he should make an effort but hey thats guys for ... (read in full...)
I found condoms in my BF's car, but we don't use them!
Q. I need help!! I just found condoms in my b/f car. Thing is we dont usaully use condoms. (well we dont)The last time we had sex we did but just because my b.c was acting up but it is a diff brand that we used, then the ones I found. I have neve...
A. 6 February 2010: i think in that case you should defenitly confront him about it.... (read in full...)
Does she really loved me or is it time for me to move on?
Q. Hey guys, Hope you guys could help me out here. Im really lost in this current relationship with my girl now. We been together for about 26months. we been all good had some argument though out this 26months we could solve it easily always. ...
A. 5 February 2010: she might just be hurting from them espically if very hurtful thingd where said, try just surprising her by appearing at her door with flowers, and telling her that you still love her, if you dont feel its time to give up then dont, never giv... (read in full...)
Should I be worried about him?
Q. Hi, I have been wondering about my bf. Recently he has been so..... vacant, and I wonder if it is worth it, being with him I mean, for example; today I went up to him and said hi, I went to give him a hug (we did that a lot) but he totally backed o...
A. 5 February 2010: i would ask him whats wrong, but i sounds like something is bothering him, just try and be understanding. x... (read in full...)
Do I break up with her before or after valentines day?
Q. After much difficult deliberation, I think it is time I break up with my girlfriend. Or, at the very least, have a much needed "state of the union" conversation that will quite likely end in our breaking up. We've been living together for alm...
A. 5 February 2010: i would do what feels best but before, cause if you do it after you will just be lying and basically she'ss kill you, cause to a girl the meaning of love is important, and we never want you to pretend, x... (read in full...)
I found condoms in my BF's car, but we don't use them!
Q. I need help!! I just found condoms in my b/f car. Thing is we dont usaully use condoms. (well we dont)The last time we had sex we did but just because my b.c was acting up but it is a diff brand that we used, then the ones I found. I have neve...
A. 5 February 2010: i think it would be best to confront him about it, and see what he has to say, but it does sound fishy, i would get yourself checked out though, but in the end its down to you, good luck... (read in full...)
Pregnancy Smyptons
Q. I need some advice. I read many posts on this site and I value the advice u give people. My boyfriend and I had unprotected sex just after my last months period but not durin my ovulation period. I was just wonderin how soon can u experience ...
A. 18 January 2010: the syptoms you are desrcibing sound like normal things before you period is about to start, i wouldnt worry, but to be on the safe side take a test and use protection in the future xx... (read in full...)
Shy and in love!
Q. hi! I m in love with my class fellow from about two months but i m little bit fat and very shy thats why haven't talked to her yet! I want to talk to her, tell her how i feel and want to make her my girlfriend. How can i impress her?? Plz help me ...
A. 8 January 2010: first of all, if she is a genuine person she wont care about how heavy you are, but as long as you make her happy, dont be shy, just pluck up the courage and start of slowly by saying hi how are you?, she will talk back unless she isnt very nice, ... (read in full...)
Broken up and she's made no contact at all with me
Q. ok here goes.. broke up with the girlfriend a few weeks ago and there has been no contact..she never called about her stuff, returning my key, or my few belongings at her place..I basically broke it off with her over some issues we had been ...
A. 8 January 2010: it sounds like she is still hurting and is hoping that you will make contact with her, from a girls point of view it is heart breaking and it sounded serious so, maybe you should ask to meet up and disscuss what went wrong and ask if you can have ... (read in full...)
Best friend has alienated me
Q. when i was at school i felt like i had friend, but now i have left because i needed a job, my once best friend has alienated me, and now i feel like i have no-one in my life, i feel so lonely, i have no idea what i have done to her, what can i do?...
A. 28 December 2009: i have asked her why she doesnt like me, but i get no reply or answer... (read in full...)
It's 4 days till christmas, and I have no idea what to get my boyfriend!
Q. Hey. Ok, I have a problem. It's 4 days till christmas, and I have no idea what to get my boyfriend! We've been dating for over 3 months now and we love each other The only problem is, I know he's bought me a lot of things! I've got him COB...
A. 21 December 2008: think about what he would really want.
also because he has bought you lots of things doesnt mean that you should splash out on him. just think about something that he would really like. and whatever you decide to get him im sure that he will app... (read in full...)
Do I tell my parents exactly where this sleepover is?
Q. I am invited to a sleepover tomorrow with 2 boys and 2 girls. I know them all well and we are all just FRIENDS. Nothing more and just want a good night in watching films and eating stuff. However, I don't know whether to tell my parents I am ...
A. 26 October 2008: you should tell them exactly where the sleepover is, in case something happens and they need to come a collect you. Also their minds will be at ease if they know exactly where you are. If you explain to them fully that nothing will happen and that... (read in full...)
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