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*ekro
writes:Hey guys,Hope you guys could help me out here. Im really lost in this current relationship with my girl now.We been together for about 26months. we been all good had some argument though out this 26months we could solve it easily always.However, from the start of Jan 2010 we had a lots of argument up till now things seems solve but she still treat very cold.I start getting paranoid about her and did lots of stupid stuff. We haven go on date or rather meet up for at least a month now. whenever i invite her over my place she would give me excuses and i found out her excuses some are lies which make me paranoid about her.I told her before if u lose interest on me u could tell me i will agree with a break up but she deny it and told me that "i haven yet give up u wanna give up"and also i ask her what the problem between us. she told me that i have changed. she told me she dislike my laziness dislike me not saying anything back when i get scolding from my familys.i did ask her after those argument we had do u still love me. she said don't ask stupid questions.Im really confused if she really love me. should i give up this relationship and move on?Thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2010): Just a guess, but from your question she is seeing somebody else and doesn't want to be the "bad guy" by actually breaking up with you. She's playing games, if she was truly interested in and loved you she would not be behaving the way she is. Time to move on there are better women out there. And there are women who can be honest, she isn't it.
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reader, Rekro +, writes (6 February 2010):
Rekro is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks alot.. but the problem im facing now is i couldn't trust her words. like today she not feeling well but she could choose to go out with her classmates as she say there a gathering and is way far off her house. so this will keep me suspecting. cause she choose to meet her friend rather than me =(
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reader, superwoman021  +, writes (5 February 2010):
she might just be hurting from them espically if very hurtful thingd where said, try just surprising her by appearing at her door with flowers, and telling her that you still love her, if you dont feel its time to give up then dont, never give up on something you believe in, or love, good luck xx
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reader, Mee!3  +, writes (5 February 2010):
 Looks like you have a problem i think if you wana be with her do a romantic guesger try showing up at her door step with roses itl ware her down hope i helped
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