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How can I convince my mom?!

Q.   Hey, I have an issue here. I'm 19 and in University, I skipped college because of my grades were awesome in the first year. Anyway, I wanna specialize in Nuclear/Atomic/Particle Physics. But my mom said no because it's too dangerous. She won't even ...

A.   19 June 2010: If you are sure that is what you want to major in, you're over 18. You can pick whatever you want. Just be sure that's what you'd really like to pursue as a career. Have a talk with your mom. Be mature about it. Sit her down and discuss with her ... (read in full...)

Is this normal or am I psyching myself out?

Q.   I look pregnant but im not. I know I had sex 7 wks ago but I got my peiod the day after, then on the 28th, and im on it right now. I took 2 HPT and both said neg. The first one was the day after my period was suppose to happen 2...

A.   19 June 2010: Are your nipples darker? Are you feeling sick? Are your breasts tender? Have your eating habits changed? Have you been feeling more tired than usual? Have you had any headaches recently? If no, than you're probably not pregnant. And even if you ... (read in full...)

How can I move on and stop loving him?

Q.   I'm really hoping people can give me some insight on this because I'm beyond hurt right now. I dated a guy I'll call Sam for about a year and a half. We broke up but acted like we still were together. I went away to college and he told me he wanted ...

A.   19 June 2010: I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. It's always hard when someone you really care for doesn't turn out how we expected them to be. Perhaps, he did love you at one time. However, the way he is treating you NOW is unacceptable. This guy just ... (read in full...)

Help! I'm attracted to men!

Q.   im 24 and last year i started to have feelings for men its been over a year now and i have done nothing about it cuz i dont know what to do plus what makes it worse i think is the fact that i have never had sex with anyone. can anyone help me...

A.   19 June 2010: stef86: I agree with everything AvgGuy1 said. Plain and simple. ... (read in full...)

How can I change her mind? My wife has unexpectedly said she wants a divorce!

Q.   My wife and I have been married for four years. I thought these were happy times for her, because we had just recently purchased a house together. I am attending school again, and working. We both are making good money and everything is was good. ...

A.   19 June 2010: Don't cross your fingers. Think this, if she said, "I want to come home to you now." How would you feel? Obviously, a little hurt and confused. We know you love her, we can all tell you'd do anything to make this woman happy. From what you've been ... (read in full...)

Should I leave town or try to make it work with this guy?

Q.   Hello all, I have a weird situation. I'll try not to draw it out too long, though. J* and I had been together for 2 years. We lived together and were engaged. (I am 21 years old.) We'd had our share of problems before; once when we were dating f...

A.   15 June 2010: Thank you, tss18. We decided to call it quits and I am moving. It'll be hard, but that's life. ... (read in full...)

How can I change her mind? My wife has unexpectedly said she wants a divorce!

Q.   My wife and I have been married for four years. I thought these were happy times for her, because we had just recently purchased a house together. I am attending school again, and working. We both are making good money and everything is was good. ...

A.   13 June 2010:  I agree with everything q1605 AND sweetiebabes is saying. But, you also have to draw a line somewhere in between. No, don't contact her. Wait for her to miss you. At the same time, figure out a way to let her know you still care when she brings it ... (read in full...)

Help! I'm attracted to men!

Q.   im 24 and last year i started to have feelings for men its been over a year now and i have done nothing about it cuz i dont know what to do plus what makes it worse i think is the fact that i have never had sex with anyone. can anyone help me...

A.   13 June 2010: Hey. That's a tough situation. Exploring your sexuality can be really great or really bad. Do you feel you have no attraction to women? Is it only males you're attracted to? Have you tried dating a woman? A man? If you look at naked people, are you ... (read in full...)

He is in love with me, but I am a lesbian! He continues to insult me and my girlfriend, is he worth keeping as a friend?

Q.   So, hey everyone. I just want to say that I've never asked something like this, and this is gonna be a pretty long question, but here goes... Before we start, I'm fifteen and the guy is eighteen. So I was seeing this guy for about two months a lit...

A.   13 June 2010: Hey there. Well, it sounds like this guy got severely rejected and.. it hurt his ego. Rejection is hard and people can go to extremes with it. I applaud you for coming clean about your sexuality for someone you care for. It sounds like you real... (read in full...)

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