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She's a big wimp and can't stand pain... how can we make sex better for her?

Q.   To make a long story short, the girl I'm currently dating lost her virginity to me...which is nice. However, she is in her late 20's. A little odd, but not really the issue. The problem is, sex with her is difficult, meaning she can't seem to ...

A.   24 October 2007: I just did some research on vaginismus, and that totally describes our situaton! Thank you DrPsych for that information! And I am flattered that she (my girlfriend) was willing to share this with me. I adore this girl and we cant imagine a life ... (read in full...)

Are there any good looking decent men available?

Q.   hi ya all im 18 and female and just wanted to no what it is a guy wants in a girl? and what a girl should do to make a lad/man love her for who she is? i do not want to change and all i want is to be happy and loved. i have low self asteem and just ...

A.   24 October 2007: I think you're learning lesson number one in how not to deal with your low self-esteem. If you want guys to treat you with respect then you need to respect yourself first. Stop hooking up with dudes for a little while, figure out what you want... (read in full...)

Should I read too much into this?

Q.   I was eating in a restaurant with my guy who can't say he loves me (A question from last week. He tells me to drive carefully - out of the blue - or something similar all the time.) the other night and we were discussing our daughters whose ...

A.   24 October 2007: Tough call. I think everyone thinks about marriage with someone they are dating. I think he needs to be able to say he loves you before he starts proposing. He may be thinking about it, but I couldn't imagine proposing to someone who I haven't ... (read in full...)

Can someone tell me how to prevent leaking during my period?

Q.   Hey Ive had my period before But I sometimes leak at school! Its happened 4 times already. And my school has a strict dress code so if I want to tie my jacket around my waist its dress code and i get a refrel!-.- I need some advice.How can i...

A.   24 October 2007: Okay, I'm a guy, but I know what my girlfiend does. She uses a tampon as well as some sort of panty liner or small pad too. Even though I know that's good advice I somehow feel like I need to take a shower...... (read in full...)

How do I get my boyfriend to respect my property?

Q.   how do I get my boyfriend to respect me and my property? I constantly ask him not to look certain things up on my phone and computer because I find it offensive, and he just totally disregaurds my feelings...

A.   24 October 2007: Yeah he basically doesn't trust you, and since he doesn't listen to your requests for privacy he is being disrespectful and controlling, among other things. Ask to have the same accesss to his things. If he refuses, which I'm sure he will, find a ... (read in full...)

Abuesed for ten years.

Q.   I was sexually abused by my stepfather for about ten years and i was so afraid and ashamed to tell anyone..i finally got the courage to tell my boyfriend at age 17 and and he helped me to tell my mother..so i wrote my mother a letter telling her, ...

A.   24 October 2007: This is a delicate and very tough situation to be in. I'm no professional, but one step you could take is to ask your mom why she thinks this is the right way to go about this. My personal feelings are that if he behaved badly, which he did, then ... (read in full...)

I think I am falling for my roomates gf! What do I do now?

Q.   Oh dear. I've just got a new housemate, and I can't stand him. His girlfriend, however, is another matter. She's really nice and I get on well with her and I know she's relatively happy with her boyfriend, but I can't stop myself from falling for ...

A.   24 October 2007: a lesson I've learned...your roommate's girlfriend will feel safe being your friend because she assumes you know what the deal is. It can be misleading, especially if you are attracted to her, and she is being friendly and open with you. Don't ... (read in full...)

My brother would do stuff to me while I would sleep.

Q.   So I'm 16 and a few years ago my brother would do....stuff to me at night when he thought I was sleep, and it kept going on because I didn't know what to do. He would make me give him handjobs and blowjobs and he would finger me and stuff. during ...

A.   24 October 2007: When you are sexual with someone, it can be fun and it is quite easy to develop "feelings" for someone, no matter who it is. That being said, your brother's behavior is 100% wrong. Sexual desire can be very strong, but there is a right way and a ... (read in full...)

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