I have fallen for a man
Q. WHEN I tell my girlfriend I don’t love her, she says I just don’t try hard enough. The truth is I have fallen for another guy. I am 34 and live with my girlfriend, who is 31. We have a son and a daughter. We share a home but don’t have a sex...
A. 28 May 2022: If not for you, end it for her. It sounds like you have checked out of the relationship which is one thing. Coming to the realization you are gay or bisexual and acting upon it I, I can only imagine, liberating and exciting for you, your a cheater ... (read in full...)
How can I ever resolve this situation
Q. I received a big parcel this week which had my name on it and some woman's name was on it. I thought it was from my cousin since it had the same name, and yes, she had done this sort of thing before. But when I checked the handwriting after op...
A. 28 May 2022: Oh wow. how odd. The first thing that springs to mind is could it be you have an troublesome admirer hoping to stir up trouble in hope of breaking your relationship up for their own benefit? The picture is probably a bogus random. Otherwise making ... (read in full...)
Am I making too much of this
Q. Hi. Just seeking thoughts as to whether Im overreacting to my current working situation. A week into my new job I have just found out that my boss,35,33 at the time, was charged and went to court because he was caught hiding in the cubicle of the ...
A. 28 May 2022: Hi Kenny. Good question. This is a family run business and they have no issue with them and mates coming and going out the kitchen, totally annoys me being its a safety issue and interruption, but not my place to bring it up I thought- anyway...I ... (read in full...)
I seen my ex's new partner cheating. Do I tell her?
Q. So I've never done anything like this before. I find myself in an unbelievable situation, and I'm really looking for an unbiased point of view from people who don't know me. So, basically I was with my ex partner for as long as I can remember. I ...
A. 26 May 2022: It will come out soon enough, 9/10 it usually does. Whatever the situation was in your relationship, cheating is just a shit thing to do. Lessons are meant to be learned here for her . If it were me, Id let the universe be her teacher while you get ... (read in full...)
Is 10 years too big of an age gap?
Q. Is ten years a big age gap in a relationship. I am 34 and my bf is 24. Sometimes he worries what we'll look like together in the future. As it stands I don't look my age but I am extremely aware of my actual age. We get asked for id all the time and ...
A. 26 May 2022: My partner is 10 years older than me, 50 and 60. It doesnt bother me at all because we have nothing else to do but enjoy each others company. We got kids and most responsibilities out they way due to the stage of life we are in so pretty much on the ... (read in full...)
Am I making too much of this
Q. Hi. Just seeking thoughts as to whether Im overreacting to my current working situation. A week into my new job I have just found out that my boss,35,33 at the time, was charged and went to court because he was caught hiding in the cubicle of the ...
A. 26 May 2022: Hi Kenny. Thanks for taking the time to reply. I found out not by word of mouth, rather I googled his name and it came up on several news reports with the court findings. Im always polite, I have no reason not to be. Ive decided Im leaving after ... (read in full...)
Problems that might be faced by couples whose relationship started as an affair
Q. Since this is a problem website, I guess it's not unusual that we get a lot of posts about infidelity but over the past year or so we've had glut of posts asking about the perils faced by those who have begun their relationship as an affair. Thes...
A. 25 May 2022: Sometimes the cheating partner really does love their spouse. For whatever reason they decided to dip their toe in the pool only to find out they were drowning would would run back to them if only if they would let them. The other 'woman/man' may ... (read in full...)
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