Am I truly going off him, or prefer him as a friend?
Q. I have been in a relationship for just over a year now. Things are going well but recently I don't want to meet up with him as often as we used to and I have tightened up on the physical stuff, i.e. kissing him less often. On the other hand, I am ...
A. 19 June 2012: If the Spark is no longer there for you - then out of respect you ought to tell him really. As hard as it may be for him, you owe him the honesty he gives you in return.
By continuing to pretend everything is ok will only exacerbate the situ... (read in full...)
Uncertain of ex's intentions!
Q. Uncertain of ex s intentions? I broke up with the father of my 2 kids in jan, we'd had a strained relationship for many yrs, due to the fact that he is immature and a bad boy. Although at 42 he would binge drink with mates at wk ends take drugs ...
A. 19 June 2012: It's got little do do with what "HE" wants - he had more than his fair share of chances by the sound of it.
As a guy myself - I guess the realisation that finding a woman to put up with this is quite difficult - so by default he's returnin... (read in full...)
I have four kids and I am afraid to leave. Should I stay just for the kids?
Q. Hi. I have four kids under 5. My relationship with my husband has gotten cold and I feel extremely lonely. He has been looking online, as I found out not long ago for a companion, because he feels lonely too. He did not tell me anything about it. He ...
A. 15 May 2011: Oh wow!
What a question - as a Father whom has just left his children due to my marriage failure I would say just to try to make it work initially.
The Children will suffer either way, as they see the emotional detachment between you two ... (read in full...)
What does it mean if I move on quickly from guys?
Q. What does it mean if I move on from guys quickly? Like a guy i really really like, could hurt my feelings and make me feel worthless. But i wont get upset over it, i just think i'm not going to let them get to me. Or if it doesn't work out...
A. 8 May 2011: Not heartless but uncommitted. Once you find the right guy, one that you love; it may be different and maybe, just maybe they'll mess your head up. You know the saying "What goes around, comes around"... You just haven't found the right per... (read in full...)
My husband want to take a break from our rocky marriage by having sex with other women! And he says people do this all the time!!
Q. hey. im 25 years old and married. ive known my husband for 10 years, dating for 5, married for 3. we are going through a rocky patch. my husband has suggested we split for a week or two and have sex with someone else. i am worried though that he ...
A. 8 May 2011: No - they don't do it all the time. Who is he trying to kid? Basically he wants sex with someone else without the guilt as you may be doing it too. Its quite unnatural behaviour in my opinion, for a healthy marriage. Not many marriages would su... (read in full...)
I'm lonely. My husband's a serial cheater. Would he really care if I had an affair?
Q. I have been married to the same man for almost 23 years. I divorced him once because he cheated on me...then we remarried. For the past ten years,he has cheated on me. Last year I found out he was involved in a four year affair. He swore he love me....
A. 8 May 2011: You know the answer really - you are seeking confirmation from others.
Leave your husband and move on - in that order. No need to tell him then, but if he asks dont lie.
Good luck!... (read in full...)
Is it over? Why does he lie and hide things from me?
Q. I Love my man so much, but he lies to me and keeps secrets. I now this as I'll confront him and he'll admit it... Why not just be honest with me in the first place? We went out last night and I knew he had business whilst we were out, he said he'...
A. 8 May 2011: If you knew it was business why go? Business and pleasure rarely mix... Its a little to me like blaming you for his own actions as with most guilt - blame the other party! I think it's an almost over situation - let the dust settle and discuss ... (read in full...)
Other men have turned the tables on me when they are guilty ones. Is this a similar situation?
Q. My husband of two years says I am trying to constrict and control him because on occasion, and I do mean maybe 2 days out of five, ask where he is. The reason I ask is that because I cannot sell my home and my child goes to a local school we do not ...
A. 8 May 2011: Totally agree with Tony on this - great advice... (read in full...)
He treats me horridly and then blames me for his behaviors!!
Q. What is wrong with him. I am a 36 yr old woman, my partner is 42. we have 2 children 3 and 6 yrs. We dont currently live together as we had broken up some months before. We were recently getting along better and had started to become a family again. ...
A. 8 May 2011: Usually this behaviour is indicative of guilt. As he reacts using violence I would get out of his way, take the kids with you. Leave him! ... (read in full...)
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