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Can a formerly emotionally abusive man change for the better?

Q.   Do you believe that a formerly emotionally abusive man can change for the better? A man who, at one time, raised his hand to his woman? Or do you think a tiger will never change his stripes? ...

A.   23 February 2010: Its possible but highly unlikely.the abuse wil return its only a matter of time.... (read in full...)

Should I feel embarrased about my penis size?

Q.   A friend of mine made me feel so ashamed and embarrassed when she was making fun of me because I have a small penis... I am 17 years old and it is about 10 centimeter (4 inch) long, and 9 centimeter (3.9 inch) circumference, when it is "hard". ...

A.   15 February 2010: I doubt it will get much bigger the average male penis size is about 6 inches or roughly 15 cm in length the smallest being 2 cm so hey ure huge in comparison next time she teases u tell her to swing by your place and show her what u can do with ... (read in full...)

How can I get her to love me as more than a friend?

Q.   IM A MALE/FRIENDS A FEMALE Ive been desperately in love with my best friend for a year now. We started the relationship terrible as i came to find out that she was my best friends ex girlfriend. Then out of the blue as soon as i start talking to...

A.   15 February 2010: Sorry to tell u this but ur allready in the friendzone do urself a favour and move on from this girl if it annoyes her so much as to get upset when u approach her in regards to a relationship with u there is no better sign of her absolute ... (read in full...)

30 years old and never got my first kiss!!!

Q.   I have strange question - pathetic really, I am 30 years old and never got my first kiss. Can someone tell what a kiss feels because I'll never be kissed due to my appearance. I'd really love to know. If you're wondering why it's because guy...

A.   14 February 2010: You need to get out more believe me there's some-one 4 every-one ur 30 and no kiss u better get cracking time waits 4 no-one i dont know what u look like but ive seen some really fugly people with partners stop beating urself up if u truly have a ... (read in full...)

I am really bugged by the fact that she's been with 3 other guys

Q.   I have been in a relationship with A for 3 months as a couple - 8 as a sort-of - and i've had troubling thoughts. She's has been with 3 guys before, sexually. I'm a wholesome guy, but I lost my virginity to her. Her last relationship lasted for 2 ...

A.   14 February 2010: Grow-up what was she supposed 2 do wait till u show up .u say u love her and she u be thankfull it's been only three and stop thinking so little of her .this will ruin your relationship if u don't stop obsessing.... (read in full...)

How can I get to the heart of this young lady? I'm sure she likes me too!

Q.   Dear Cupid, There is this lady i'm really in love with and have tried all can to make my feelings known to her but anytime i tried, the more she gets mad at me and warns not to raise that issue of love. Cupid, what amaze me is that...

A.   14 February 2010: Dude if she is getting pissed off because u mention the fact u love her and she knows how u feel about her get out of there she's not interested in you in that way.she thinks of u as a friend only.... (read in full...)

He's probably just using me on the weekends

Q.   Hi.. I really like a guy I work with.We get on great and always have a laugh together when we go out in town.Were always textin and I've really fallen for him in the last couple of weeks.Hes in college an I'm still in secondary school,but hes kind...

A.   9 January 2010: It's simple unless you are capable of telepathy your gonna have to ask him what his intentions towards u r guessing will get you nowhere fast.... (read in full...)

I'm in the friendzone...help!

Q.   I find myself in the friendzone with a chick that i've fallen 4.i've known her 4 eight years and have told her that i would want 2 be more then just a friend 2 her.but my advances have been met with confrontation and tears.according 2 her she is ...

A.   9 January 2010: Thank you for your candid responses i suppose ultimately your answers only serves to confirm what my initial take on the entire situation was.but i suppose when your caught -up in a case of unrequited love at times hope springs eternal for the ... (read in full...)

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