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I've realised I have messed up but now she has lost all her feelings for me! What can I do to bring them back?

Q.   Hie guys, i am a guy aged 31 married for 3 and half years to a 25 year old lady. We have a two year old kid together. The problem is during this whole period my wife used to complain that i dont show her love and i dont talk to her. This was for ...

A.   3 November 2010: okay, firstly yes you messed up and big style! I'm suprised that she didn't walk out with your child a long time ago. But because you are ready to sort things out i'm going to try and help you. You obviously are a man that can be loving and i like ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend says she is a different person around me

Q.   hi guys, i want a little reassurance or some pointers, i have no clue about this and dont know what to make of it i have been talking with my gf, shes having nervous breakdowns because work is so hard and shes having anxiety attacks etc, she ...

A.   3 November 2010: your girlfriend is in a bad way and probably doesn't realise what she is saying. She's ready to take it out on the first person shes see's and saying as you are the closest to her, she will have no problem to make sure you are borught down aswel. My ... (read in full...)

What can I do to make him notice me?

Q.   ok. so, i really like my friends brother. he is 15 and 2 classes above me at school. im 14. the problem is that my other friend also lkes him. and she is a lot more confident and can just go up to him to talk to him. i know i should try to do that ...

A.   3 November 2010: Your friend that is very upfront and can talk to him is not doing the right thing. The boy will probably be thinking to himself that she talks far to much and basically does his head in. I think you should work up the courage to talk to him but just ... (read in full...)

How do guys feel about pointy noses?

Q.   Do guys love it when girls have pointed nose? or they simply hate it. am a girl. my nose is very pointed just like the indian hero ''saif ali khan'' i really don't like the way it is. Especially when i looked myself on the side, i feel disgusting. i ...

A.   3 November 2010: everyone has flaws and everyone hates something about themselves and it can lower their confidence. I hate my ears and my teeth, but when i tell my friends and my family, they look at me as if i'm mad and tell me they arent even bad. Sometimes when ... (read in full...)

I never thought it would feel so horrible to go along with sex when you don't really feel like it!

Q.   Female age 20 here, dating a male age 21. Been dating for over a year now, living together for 8 months. Lost our virginity to each other, relatively healthy and active sex life. Had a bit of a mistake today and I'm having trouble dealing with it ...

A.   3 November 2010: This has happened to me also and i can totally understand where your coming from. From what i've read your partner is a lovely man for actually apologising and trying to make everything ok. Most men would either shrug it off or cause an argument ... (read in full...)

Can anyone help with the issues I am having in my relationship?

Q.   I am a 24 year old woman who has been in relationship with my boyfriend for nearly 4 years. We live together, share finances, pets everything! But over the past year we have had sex less than 5 times, don't even kiss apart from on the cheek and hug ...

A.   3 November 2010: From what it looks like i think your boyfriend is going through a stage where he things everythings going a bit fast and is getting a bit of stage fright. I totally agree with how you would have felt if my partner had of told me he'd leave me if i ... (read in full...)

For the girls: Would you dump your boyfriend if you found out he was a 25 year old virgin?

Q.   This question mainly applies to women but I was wondering if you would dump your boyfriend if he told you one day that he was a virgin and that he was over the age of 25 (I'm 23 but considering the worst case scenario for me). I could have lost it ...

A.   3 November 2010: I personally think that this isn't something to be worrying about, and if the girl you get with doesnt like the fact that you are a virgin, then 10 times out of 10 that girl is probably a slag and doesnt deserve your heart. You actually have came ... (read in full...)

How can I speak to my dad about writing a will?

Q.   My Dad is 75 and has not made a will. How can I speak to him about this? He goes all weazilly when I mention it, but I feel really sad. I know that if he dies without one not only will his kids be left broken hearted but we will have a hell of a ...

A.   3 November 2010: I think the way to get to your father is through your mother. Sometimes fathers can think of their childrens ideas as irrelevant and so will just ignore them, or he might not like the idea of his daughter talking about him dying. I think by sitting ... (read in full...)

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