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My b/f started talking to a boy about this hot girl with whom he used to watch porn... in front of me. Is this right?

Q.   I have a pretty good relationship with my (relatively new) boyfriend, but the other night we had a little hiccup. This hiccup in itself is definitely nothing we won't get over but it led me to think further about the issue and my reaction to it. B...

A.   7 August 2009: Yep, he doesn't care about your feeling if he openly talks about a past hot girlfriend. It makes me wonder if he is at all 'hinting' that he wants to watch porn with you, but I doubt it. He's being disrespectful to you. ... (read in full...)

How can I tell her the truth about how many people I slept with, without losing her?

Q.   I have told my girlfriend that I only slept with 5 people as she has only slept with 4. I did this at the start of the relationship. Last night she asked me again for the names of the people but I could not remember who I had told her as my f...

A.   7 August 2009: I wouldn't tell her. It's your past, she doesn't need to know that. I don't want to know how many girls my bf had sex with, there is no reason to get upset/jealous because it's in the past, BIG DEAL. If you feel bugged by it and feel like it's a ... (read in full...)

A guy has asked me to his senior prom, but I don't want my boyfriend to get mad. What should I do?

Q.   not a major question but i was just looking for some advice. well theres this guy who asked me to go to his senior prom with him next year, and i didn't know how to answer him. because i have a boyfriend who i've been with for 10 months and i kno...

A.   7 August 2009: Alright so it's NOT your prom? Why go then? I'd avoid going anyway, your boyfriend may think you have feelings for this guy even if you don't. If you really want to then you can try asking him but if he says no just let it drop. I personally w... (read in full...)

I want to arrange a threesome for me and my boyfriend... but I think my jealousy will get in the way!

Q.   I've been with my boyfriend now for about a year and a half. I know his fantasy is a threesome, which I've no qualms with having as I'm bisexual and have had many more years with women than men. I love him dearly and I know he loves me too. I th...

A.   7 August 2009: I'll be honest and say DON'T do it. There are so many relationship (even well-stable ones!) that have problems ever since having a 3-some, mostly because of jealousy. It's not wrong, it's completely normal! My fanasty with my boyfriend is also ... (read in full...)

How can I learn to live with knowing that he doesn't find me attractive? Is that even important?

Q.   My husband told me before me we married that he does not look at porn, but about 6 months ago I caught him at it, and he admitted he has been doing it throughout our 2 year marriage. When we were dating, he couldn't keep his hands off me and wanted ...

A.   7 August 2009: Trust your husband when he say he does love you and think you're beautiful. Porn is just, heck I don't know the word. It's just a hobby for guys, something to do when they don't have sex. A lot of guys will admit no matter how much sex they hav... (read in full...)

It hurts like hell down there! What's wrong?

Q.   Right hey everyone. Me and my bf are sexually active but thats not why Im writting. After doing this one time it was quite rough and now from then on everytime I pee it well, it used to burn but now it just hurts. Its on the inside wall. Please can ...

A.   7 August 2009: I am pretty sure it's UTI, it's infection in the bladder, not related to sex. Google it for more information and what helps is drinking Cranberry Cocktail, it's unknown why, but it helps UTI. ... (read in full...)

Can marriage ruin a relationship??

Q.   A year after being married to my husband, its not working out and it feels like marriage has ruined our relationship. There's no closeness, tenderness, we pass eachother on a daily basis barely saying good-morning and when we go to bed at night, Im ...

A.   7 August 2009: Be the first to change that! Say good morning, greet him at the door when he comes home from work with a big kiss, write him a small note and put it on his pillow, ect. Marriage seem to be a big step to many people and it does change thing. I... (read in full...)

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