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writes:not a major question but i was just looking for some advice.well theres this guy who asked me to go to his senior prom with him next year, and i didn't know how to answer him. because i have a boyfriend who i've been with for 10 months and i know we'll be together next year when prom comes around. however my boyfriend is a junior so he won't be going to prom. by the way i'll be a sophomore in september. but anyway i don't know what to tell this guy that asked me to prom because i feel bad if i say no because he's nice. i don't have any feelings for him. I dont want my boyfriend to get mad if i go to prom with another guy...so i don't know what to do. If my boyfriend says he doesn't want me to i'll respect that but i wouldnt mind if another girl asked him to prom as long as they were just friends. any advice on what i should do? i have plenty of time to think about it i just was wondering. thanks. xx Reply to this Question
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reader, Big Tex +, writes (8 August 2009):
Its your life and your bf should respect that. Nothing should happen between u 2 @the prom. And if you been 2 gether for 10 months he should trust your choices.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2009): based on what i read i think that if you dont have feelings for the other guy why even bother going with him . if you think that it will bother your boyfriend i think you should just tell the other guy that you have a boyfriend, and see if he understands, if he doesnt then thats his problem
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reader, somebodyoutthere  +, writes (7 August 2009):
Alright so it's NOT your prom? Why go then? I'd avoid going anyway, your boyfriend may think you have feelings for this guy even if you don't. If you really want to then you can try asking him but if he says no just let it drop. I personally would turn this guy down, nicely. You don't have to do everything for everyone just because they asked nicely. Do what YOU DO want to do, not what others want you to or the pressure to do it.
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