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I feel let down by the woman I left my family for

Q.   Dear all, Its a painful story.I have a girlfriend and for last two years we were dating. I left everything for my GF- my family, children. Now they are far away from me and never can be reunited. I did all this by trusting her love, I was a pu...

A.   13 August 2010: Dear Friend, Please don't despair. There is Love out there.It is everywhere and in every part of the world. She was only a human who matched you, and who made it possible to reconnect with love and the universe for you. She does not own ... (read in full...)

I had sex with my boyfriend's best friend!

Q.   Heyyah Every1 I dont no what to do it was my party on sataday and me and my boyfriend had an arguement and 1 of his best friends jordan, told me to come up stairs so he could talk to me ( we were both drunk ) and he were telling me to talk to da...

A.   13 July 2009: How on earth do you think this was o.k. to do...? For him and for you? Do you remember the sex yourself? did you want it? if not, if you didn't consent then this was a sexual assault, as this guy as used the fact that you were too drunk to consent ... (read in full...)

Wife works Part-time...Full time problem...Help

Q.   Wife works Part-time...Full time problem My wife only works ~25 hours a week and I work 10 hour days all week. Whenever we get into an argument I can't help but bring this up. I pay for basically everything including Health Insurance, Food...

A.   7 November 2008: I think you are right to expect to have to do less house work than your wife. I presume you work a 5 day week which would mean that you work twice the amount she does. you do 75% of the work, she does 25% of the household income.I am in a similar ... (read in full...)

Can anyone please help us to work things out? Please take some time to read this.

Q.   There are several threads on this site that are similar to what I am about to present, but none go into the open, honest detail that my wife and I have with each other, and so I would like to present this here, and which I would like the community's ...

A.   26 May 2008: Hello Firstly I would like to say thank you for sharing this issue here and being honest about it. As the original post was send a while ago I hope you have made the right decision and have sought therapy. Your confession was one of the most pain... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has an addiction to amateur porn, is this normal?

Q.   Hi, My boyfriend and I are both 25. We have been dating for 4 months but he has an addiction to amatuer porn. On top of this I found he had a profile on a dating website which is just for sex. He says he only uses it to see amatuer porn and he delet...

A.   23 May 2008: EllsworthT : I think it is a mistake to equate porn with "images of naked women", this is erotic photography. the problem with porn is they way it represents women and sex. you might not see it but for a woman to see herself or another woma... (read in full...)

My girlfriend is heavy and I just don't find her attractive any more...

Q.   I've been seeing my girlfriend for eight months and two months ago we moved in together. The problem is that I just don't find her attractive anymore. I am 30, she is 22 but she is very overweight and has put on weight since we started living t...

A.   23 May 2008: Stop using your girlfriend as an emotional buffer! she deserves respect. you cannot give it her because you are staying with her out of self pity!... (read in full...)

More porn on his computer and it's getting me down

Q.   hi, i have a bit of an issue, i am with a guy who is 3 yrs older than me, we've been going for 9 months, i stay at his flat on the weekends nd i use his laptop for internet access while im there, everytime i type an address in the address bar, it ...

A.   23 May 2008: It is common, but I wouldn't say normal. Porn upsets so many women, but they compromise on it just because they are told that this is how guys are. I don't believe that I guy who watches porn necessary lacks something within the relationship and ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has an addiction to amateur porn, is this normal?

Q.   Hi, My boyfriend and I are both 25. We have been dating for 4 months but he has an addiction to amatuer porn. On top of this I found he had a profile on a dating website which is just for sex. He says he only uses it to see amatuer porn and he delet...

A.   11 May 2008: Depends what you understand under "normal". It might be not o.k. with many girls, but it seem that this is very common amongst guys. I don't think there are any guide lines to follow when dealing with this issue. You have to make up your mind on ... (read in full...)

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