The mental images of my wife having sex with other men from the past are killing me!
Q. Hi, I hope someone can help me. Like many other 'askers' on this site, I have trouble accepting my wife's sexual past (though I am truly getting better and better). I am in the process of starting therapy again to help me get through these intense ...
A. 15 January 2013: Yos, how can you be comfortable with your girlfriend haveing exes as facebook friends? Honestly, I would like to know. I wish I could be as unphased.... (read in full...)
The mental images of my wife having sex with other men from the past are killing me!
Q. Hi, I hope someone can help me. Like many other 'askers' on this site, I have trouble accepting my wife's sexual past (though I am truly getting better and better). I am in the process of starting therapy again to help me get through these intense ...
A. 13 January 2013: I have ex girlfriends, just as she has ex boyfriends. I am not FB friends with any of my ex girlfriends (and I would never do that for a few reasons. Namely, the past belongs in the past, if I did that I could cause discomfort for my exes is their... (read in full...)
The mental images of my wife having sex with other men from the past are killing me!
Q. Hi, I hope someone can help me. Like many other 'askers' on this site, I have trouble accepting my wife's sexual past (though I am truly getting better and better). I am in the process of starting therapy again to help me get through these intense ...
A. 13 January 2013: CindyCares, I have sought treatment so that is good. You say I would find something else to obsess about if she stopped contacting her exes. I don't think so necessarily, but you could be right. That is why I am trying to resolve this issue of mine. ... (read in full...)
The mental images of my wife having sex with other men from the past are killing me!
Q. Hi, I hope someone can help me. Like many other 'askers' on this site, I have trouble accepting my wife's sexual past (though I am truly getting better and better). I am in the process of starting therapy again to help me get through these intense ...
A. 13 January 2013: This i only tangentially related to this thread, but here is an article about facebook and marriage from Woman's Day. It explains why it is a bad idea to be facebook friends with exes when you are married. ... (read in full...)
The mental images of my wife having sex with other men from the past are killing me!
Q. Hi, I hope someone can help me. Like many other 'askers' on this site, I have trouble accepting my wife's sexual past (though I am truly getting better and better). I am in the process of starting therapy again to help me get through these intense ...
A. 13 January 2013: Response to: A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2013): Did you have past sexual partners before your wife? Just wondering.
Yes I did. I suppose you are asking because I have insecurities?
I do recognize that we both had a past.... (read in full...)
The mental images of my wife having sex with other men from the past are killing me!
Q. Hi, I hope someone can help me. Like many other 'askers' on this site, I have trouble accepting my wife's sexual past (though I am truly getting better and better). I am in the process of starting therapy again to help me get through these intense ...
A. 13 January 2013: Thank you very much for your reponse. I can clearly see that first and foremost you are very caring and considerate. It also seems you have some knowledge about this problem I have. I have not been officially diagnosed, but it is the opinion of some ... (read in full...)
Since I am a virgin, is this normal that I cannot face ever having sex for the first time with a woman unless she is a virgin too?
Q. I feel like it's not right to date a woman who already has dated and had sex with another person. I can't imagine having sex with her if someone has already had intercourse with her. I'm thinking and hate imagining that i'll be somehow touching...
A. 13 January 2013: I don't know where to begin, but I would say if this is very important to you, and since you are very young, then try and find a girl who has a strong faith and conviction like yours. Be honest with any potential wife and don't feel any need to lie ... (read in full...)
Is it true that women never forget their first sexual partners?
Q. I'm a 30 y/o male, got married when I was 28 I have a 19 month old boy. I love my wife and child. But my question is the following: "when my wife and I had intimacy for the first time she made it very clear and reinstated that she wasn't a vir...
A. 11 January 2013: I hate to say it but I think the best sexual gift a woman can give a man is her virginity. DISCLAIMER: I'm a man, and I've never had a virgin. I feel like I'm missing out on the simple "just knowing I was her first." Women, generally speaking... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's past threesome never bothered me before but now it does
Q. I've been seeing this girl for about a year now. She told me about 6 months ago that she had been involved in a threesome. It'd happened about 15 years ago. It honestly didn't really bother me at all. I know girls experiment and everything and it ...
A. 11 January 2013: "A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2013): "I wish I was female. It would be nice to able to do whatever sexual things I want, and then expect nobody to hold it against me later if I change my mind about it. But I was born male. I get held... (read in full...)
What to say? Can't stand fathers beliefs
Q. My father is conversative and doesn't want to know anyone else's opinion. I can't stand how he is. He thinks having children out if wedlock is "ruining The family". This makes no logical sense to me. It's not like his family is close. How canyou ...
A. 10 January 2013: Don't know the whole situation, but it sounds a little like my father. Very conservative and wants everybody to know his positions. After he sent out an e-mail joke about Muslims, I finally told him how I really feel. I told him I didn't think that ... (read in full...)
Guy trying to steal my girl becoming a nuisance
Q. hi ladies and gents, i need a little help with my gfs/fiances problem friend. before i came onto the scene, they where dating and she gave him a little tail once in a while (from what i gather). but they never became bf/gf because he was too ...
A. 10 January 2013: I agree with CindyCares 200%... (read in full...)
I fell in love, but I doubt if she will be interested in me
Q. I fell in love with a girl, but I doubt if she will be interested in me. I've been thinking about her a lot of time during the past year. Although we do not even know each other personally, and I don't know of her opinion, but there are objective ...
A. 10 January 2013: I agree with blonde30s. But just want to encourage you to go for it. If you like her as much as you say you do, then it will be better for you to be rejected now, than ask "What if?" years down the road. Make sure you have no regrets. And if she r... (read in full...)
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