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How do I make my boyfriend move in with me?

Q.   my boyfriend and i fight all the time but i am so in love with him. we plan on getting married and moving in together. he wants to move in in january but i want to move in at the end of summer how do i get him to change his mind to move in with me ...

A.   24 March 2008: You go over to his house with a gun, put to his head and say.."move in with me now or I'll shoot you"?...thats the only way you are going to "make" him do anything. The more you push the more he's going to pull away. Let him decide he wants to on ... (read in full...)

He left, he said he loved me but was not in love with me...I don't know what to do!

Q.   my partner of 12 years and father of my 2 children has left me 3 weeks ago he said he loved me but was not in love with me and i don't know what to do or how to move on as i still love him...

A.   24 March 2008: You cant make anyone fall in love with you by convincing them. You need to learn what it was that turned him off. Somewhere in the relationship you changed something about you that attracted him at the begining. Find the problem, fix it, give him ... (read in full...)

Does he really like me? He is with me, but he has a girlfriend!

Q.   Hi, Well here is my question..... How do i know if this guy really likes me or not? He says he does but i just don't know. I really like this guy, we have been hanging out everynight for about 2 months now, we have made love, but there is jus...

A.   24 March 2008: Ill keep this one short and simple. If he liked YOU, the only girlfriend he would have would be you!... (read in full...)

How do I say "no more!" to rough sex with my married boss?

Q.   Me and my boss playd around alot yesterday for the first time. i went down to his house for a coffee which was totally normal because we have always been close and i always come and talk to him about alot of things. we started 2 talk and the topics ...

A.   24 March 2008: Annunciate the words..." No more rough sex!".... (read in full...)

Dreaming about my boyfriend betraying me seems so real I am in a bad mood all day!

Q.   OK so this sort of a weird question. Have you ever had a dream that seemed so real, so real that when you woke up you thought it really happened? Very often I have bad dreams about my bf, like him cheating on me or dumping me then I wake up t...

A.   24 March 2008: I used to have these same dreams about my ex girlfriend. I actually told her about them every time I had them. One morning i woke up from one, woke her up and told her and she got dressed grabbed me and her car keys, drove me to the book store and ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend thinks my son is his, but it might be his brothers! Should I tell him?

Q.   i think my son isnt my boyfriend's, i think its his brothers the thing is we have planned our life together and he really loves him do you think i should tell him or just let things be the way they are ...

A.   24 March 2008: Unbelievable! I really thought my ex girlfriend sucked for merely being a selfish self centered stuck up spoiled brat. Somewhere along the lines hes gonna find out, so I say tell him now. Its gonna destroy him and probably destroy his family, but ... (read in full...)

He wants to use me until he gets tired of my body and get's mad if I don't let him!

Q.   I have a friend with benefits for over four years. One day he told me that he will soon get tired of my body. i have been waiting for him to get tired of my body for the last three years but he just keeps coming back for more. I am tired of him but ...

A.   24 March 2008: Are you serious? No, its really not that hard. This isnt even a real relationship or healthy for that matter. You are letting yourself get used for sex to please this schmo? Get some self confidence. Why on earth would you want to allow yourself to ... (read in full...)

Help! I like my boyfriends friend and he kind of likes me too!

Q.   Hello everyone I am a female who needs a lot of help it seems like every time I ask someone what 2 do they give me differnt answers I have a boyfriend who I been going out with for 3 years and I like his friend they are always together. His frie...

A.   24 March 2008: Wow! I can only hope to have a gf as sweet as you one day! Really! Obviously if you have feelings for his friend after three years of being with this guy you probably dont really want or need to be with him anymore. No matter what you do, he is ... (read in full...)

Will we ever get back together or should I forget her and move on?

Q.   I have been going out with my Gf for 3 yrs. The relationship was going down hill due to us arguing all the time about stupid things. about a month ago she told me she wants a brake. She told me she wants to do her own thing and concertrate on ...

A.   24 March 2008: Oddly enough I recently went through the same exact thing. Obviously you want to get back with this girl. Its not 100% but I can give you a game plan and some ideas that will almost gaurantee her return. First and foremost, when a girl says she ... (read in full...)

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