A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:My bf once messed me around a bit by meeting up with his [stunning] ex-girlfriend for coffee and lying to me about it, saying he hadn't. I also found pictures of her on his computer, saved after we had started dating. This was 2 years ago. We had a massive row and decided to work things out. He stopped all contact with his ex and has done now for the whole 2 years. We don't row now at all, but I am going insane inside. Unknown to him, I freak out about the prospect of him even TALKING to a girl. I wind myself up to the point I feel like I am going to be sick. If he goes out with his boy mates I think he'll be chatting to girls and it ruins my evening. I KNOW he won't cheat, but it's the prospect of him finding someone else attractive that gets to me. It didn't used to. What can I do? Please don't say dump him, because I see that as a final option. Thank you :)
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reader, silverlining  +, writes (29 May 2011):
 This sounds like a difficult sittuation. I think all women have moment sof jelousy but it should bot happnen regularly and ruin your relationship! He has not helped you by lying! I think that you should perhaps sit down and talk to him, and tell him that you do find yourself worrying that he may cheat but you know deep down he wont! His reasurance might be enough! If this does not work maybe your womans intuition is right, no man is worth being misrable for! Chin up
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