I have no enthusiasm to see my girlfriend! What's wrong with me?
Q. I no longer feel enthusiastic about seeing my girlfriend. We haven't been together all that long, but in the early stages she was a lot of fun. Unfortunately, she's gotten very clingy. She wants to see me every day. I'm flattered, but if I say no, ...
A. 21 August 2009: There is nothing wrong with you! It is normal to become a bit distant when one is being pressured into emotional commitment. She will sense that you are absentminded when with her and this will provoke more neediness on her side. As a result you ... (read in full...)
In love with my straight friend... I don't know how to get past my feelings without letting him know.
Q. Okay, so putting this out there: I am gay, and recently went through a pretty horrible breakup. In the midst of this, I developed feelings for a friend of mine. We have only known each other a few months, and though we have hung out a couple times ...
A. 20 August 2009: I think you should kind of make your feelings known without actually trying to "get into his pants" and trying to move it to a sexual level first. I think (but am not absolutely sure) that given that you are very open and honest in your post you ... (read in full...)
My mother dissapproves because I'm 20 and want to date someone who's 46. Is this really such a bad thing?
Q. So, I'm a 20 year old lesbian. I just recently met a 46 year old woman and we get along great. Most girls my age don't work, don't want to attend college and believe in anything but lies. We share what seems like a million a 10 things in common, we ...
A. 20 August 2009: You are both adults and that is what matters. It is very rarely that people meet someone in their twenties and stay together for the rest of their life. But making experiences is where the fun lies!
I would advise you to be cautious with an olde... (read in full...)
Is underage sex something you agree with?! I want opinions please!
Q. Ive decided to put myself out here after been severely infuriated by some 'adults' on this site who deem it appropriate for CHILDREN to be having sex from as young as 13! do you think its appropriate for a child of this age to be having sex?? they ...
A. 17 August 2009: The message I was receiving from teenage magazines in my own teenage years was "do it when you feel ready, don't rush": some of the stories talked about girls losing virginity at the age of 16, 17 (the age of consent in my home country is 15, I am ... (read in full...)
Struggling to cope with my husband led me to sleep with another man...but now he has gone distant. What should I do? Should I try to make my marriage work?
Q. I do not know exactly what I am asking here, but let me just begin. I have been in a marriage to an addict ( alcohol/prescription meds) for almost 15 yrs.. I really don't even consider it a marriage since I am more of a mother or a nurse to him. ...
A. 17 August 2009: I think you have a lot of unresolved issues and you were trying to get a new perspective through getting involve with someone else. Sometimes having someone who apperciates you sexually can help. But I think in this case you proabably have ... (read in full...)
Threesome turned sour....how can we improve our sex life without resorting to that again?
Q. I seem to be in trouble. After repeatedly cheating on my boyfriend of 2 and 1/2 years, we had a good chat and I confessed that it was only sexual stuff and nothing emotional involved and that whereas I never climax with him, I did with the last guy ...
A. 17 August 2009: It sounds like you have intimacy issues- maybe you need sex without emotions to be satisfied. It also sounds like you are not attracted to your bf physically: it is unfair to him to continue this relationship. If you have a shred of decency ... (read in full...)
I have feelings for him and for her...Help!
Q. I am really confused and need help. I am dating a guy, he makes me happy, he wants to move in and he does act like I am married to him. I am happy with him and see a futre. My problem is he does not like me talking to a female friend of mine he says ...
A. 16 August 2009: It sounds like you are only with the guy because he is nice and he give you a sense of security, but you actually have more feelings for her; or at least you have not voiced your feelings for him here. It is not really fair to him. IF you think you ... (read in full...)
I just found out my best friend is a lesbian. What should I do?
Q. My best female friend just told me she's a lesbian, and that she fancies my girlfriend, what should i do ...
A. 14 August 2009: I think she said it because she feels comfortable enough with you to trust you with her personal likes. If you trust her and if she is a good friend- do nothing, she will respect your friendship. If you don't trust her then you should probably lay ... (read in full...)
Do circumcised guys make better lovers?
Q. This question is strictly for the ladies, but guys can input on the matter if you'd like. My question to the ladies is... would you like a guy to have foreskin, in other words to be uncircumsized... cuz lately Iv'e been really insecure about that ...
A. 25 January 2009: To be brutally honest I had sex once with a circumcised guy and afterwards I just felt kind of sad. He was a very good lover and was able to give me a good time, but I felt kind of embarrassed when I realized that he has to use lotion each time he ... (read in full...)
I'm 25 and never had a date! Why do men never ask me out?
Q. What are you supposed to do if you're were an ugly duckling that grew up to be an ugly duck instead of a swan? I am a 25 year old virgin and a girl. I've been reading some postings here from other people but my situation is different becaus...
A. 20 December 2008: I think there is no such a thing as ugly, there can only be an ugly state of mind. Lots of people have boring, unattractive, nothing-special face features, that is something one is born with. But the rest is up to you. You were not born with the ... (read in full...)
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