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... Send *hyGuy78 a private message | | | *hyGuy78's profile:As the name suggests have been a shy guy for most of my life, to a certain extent still am!
Being shy (read introvert) had an extremely hard time expressing my feelings. Due to my reserved nature had to suffer many setbacks on the personal front. Close ones couldn't understand what I was going through and hence couldn't ask for advice. Had to make the decisions on my own, some right, some wrong. Eventually things worked out!
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Q. I'm scared of losing the guy I love, I known him for a few years and for the last 4 months everything has been good between us, he has been like a boyfriend- even though we aren't. He has done and said stuff that a boyfriend would do or say but ...
A. 4 December 2007: One sided love affairs are quite painful. But do realize that you cannot "make" someone love you! If it has to happen, it will! Keep a timeline and let things flow on their own till then. Don't push things and don't expect too much. At the en... (read in full...)
Cliche love triangle...
Q. hey, my problem is quite cliche really. Basically, I have a boyfriend, I'm seventeen, he's eighteen, we have been together for 6 months. We have a laugh together, and I do enjoy spending time with him but after 6 months of trying to convince...
A. 4 December 2007: Ask yourself this- is it worth losing your bf and your best friend for your bf's best friend? Your best friend ended her relationship abruptly meaning she dumped your bf's best friend. So its only natural that your bf wouldn't be friendly with he... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to trust him again because I don't want to get hurt again...
Q. I met up with my ex last night (we broke up 2 months ago). He said he still loved me and missed me and couldn't get over me and we ended up making out. He said we should try dating again. I agreed to it last night, but then freaked out this morning ...
A. 4 December 2007: Your ex seems to be manipulating you easily for his needs. Also, he wants to change you into something that you are not. In a mutual love relationship, neither party demands the other to change, it just happens naturally. If your feelings an... (read in full...)
What can I do to get him back?
Q. I love this guy since my age was 14 and now I’m 21, in all these years I’ve been through a lot, and here is my story: me and this guy (A) were living at the same bldg. at the first time I saw him I fall in love with him it was a love from the firs...
A. 3 December 2007: Long story, short summary- you are simply one of his sex toys! Not much to advise out here. Read your own story and see how conveniently he never committed to you by making dumb excuses. Inspite of all this if you truly feel for him then j... (read in full...)
Against my own heart.
Q. I was with this guy who was 3 years younger than me. Dont get me wrong, the age didnt matter to me. Anyways, we were happily together for a very long time. My family didnt seem to like him much though. They did the impossible for me not to be with ...
A. 3 December 2007: In matters of the heart, don't listen to the mind! But you already have! Seems that you two shared a great relationship but thats a thing of the past. You prioritized your family over him and he knows his place in your life now. You have heard... (read in full...)
How can I make myself feel better?
Q. I've been feeling really 'blah' the past little while, the past couple of weeks my boyfriend has been working away from home and we don't get to talk on the phone much, sometimes not even once a day. Some days I really miss him, others I wonder ...
A. 3 December 2007: Most of us go through bad phases during life and such phases make us doubt not only ourselves but also the choices we have made in terms of partners, careers, etc. The "blah" phase will eventually pass but if you don't keep a sensible head on your ... (read in full...)
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