Was I rude to not check, or right to not lead her on?
Q. Hi there, I recently attended Reading festival (and had an amazing time!) and i was approached by a girl who couldn't find her friends on the first night and was lost. I lent her my phone to call her friends but she couldn't contact them so ...
A. 3 September 2009: You are doing the right thing.
Don't contact her. She is not any of your business considering that you are in a relationship.
If you text her then she knows that you are thinking about her and that could lead her on.
Or if it is really bo... (read in full...)
As soon as we got engaged she became distant
Q. Im not sure what to do or think any more.... Im engaged to a woman who is my every thing and now it seems to be slipping away. we recently got engaged on august 8 a day before her birthday. Since then she has moved into her own apartment and we live ...
A. 3 September 2009: Dude, Don't marry this girl. She has something going on behind your back. You guys don't live togeather and you live 40 miles apart, she has someone she talks to every night. There is no reason for her to be so protective over her phone that way. ... (read in full...)
I don't keep secrets from him so I expect the same in return, so why is he continuing to lie to me?
Q. I have been dating this man for about 4 years. Two years ago I ran across a few emails between him and his ex girlfriend. If I hadn't seen these I would have never known. I told him how this made me feel and he seemed a little angry with me for ...
A. 2 September 2009: I think you let him know that if he is going to continue to keep things from you then you are going to go your own way. Up front and honest is my policy. Honesty is the most important part of a relationship. To top that off he lied to you by t... (read in full...)
Will a 20 year old get in trouble for dating a 14 year old girl?
Q. What trouble could a 20yr old male get in for dating a 14yr old girl even if both familys are happy with this and give them there full support?...
A. 2 September 2009: I don't care what the situation is, that is just not okay in this society.
Besides your going to end up braking that girls heart whether you know it or not.
Don't go there. Not cool.... (read in full...)
What do I do? He won't talk to me!
Q. Me and my boyfriend had some set backs when it comes to us moving in together, he got drunk made a BIG mistake and slept with another girl, it was hard but we overcame it and got back together and then just a few days ago he started acting meaner, ...
A. 2 September 2009: The only thing you can do is let him go. I know how it feels, trust me. I was with my boyfriend for 4 years and I went through hell and back waiting for him to come around and love me the same as I loved him. I became suisidal and I lost contact ... (read in full...)
I won't go out with him if he has a girlfriend; he doesn't want to risk breaking up with her in case I won't go out with him after.
Q. I started a new job around 6 months ago, got on well with everyone. There was a guy who started like poking me and pulling my hair, not nastily, but in a fun way. I thought he liked me or something, until I was told he had a girlfriend, who actually ...
A. 2 September 2009: Don't do it! Don't disrespect yourself or that other girl. If he would do it to her he would do it to you. And who knows if he really isn't happy with her. If he wants to be with you then he needs to be a man and grow some balls and make the right ... (read in full...)
I've tried talking about it, changing myself, personality and everything about 10 times over and nothing seems to work, ever.
Q. I use to have the best relationship ever with my boyfreind and now it all seems to have gone wrong. I use to have plans to move in together, get married (well, civil partnership) and all live happily ever after. At 23 these feelings were new to me, ...
A. 1 September 2009: Wow. Man vs. Women or Man vs. Man, it is the same shit all over.
You are only human and you are not perfect. None of us are. You have done your best in trying to fix what should not have even been broken.
The only thing I can think of is to t... (read in full...)
Is my girl using me?
Q. Ever since i let my girlfriend move in with me she has changed so much. When we first met she was active, sporty and outgoing but ever since she moved in with me she has changed so much. She don't goto the gym anymore, she never does housewor...
A. 1 September 2009: Wow if I were her I would be embarassed of my behavior. I don't think that any women should let themselves go it shows that you don't respect your own body and you don't care about your partner.
I think house work is a two way street, but since yo... (read in full...)
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