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im ruth im 16 , liv near birmingham just started at stourbridge college doing health and social care ,sociology , and gcse maths , in the the future i want to go on to meantal health nursing , or counselling intrested in eating disorders , or sleeping disorders , im young i dont know what to do , im a mentor at the light house project a local chairty to me =) im happy where i am right now

Oh so confused...

Q.   Hi, I met this girl roughly 2 years ago through a different girl i was dating at the time. i didnt really think much of her at first but as the years have gone by, we have got closer to eachother. Im afriad i have fallen head over heels for her ...

A.   10 March 2008: go for it , just come out with it , or get her to tell you , true love is hard to find mate x... (read in full...)

Trouble getting "hard". Is this common?

Q.   I had trouble getting hard with my girlfriend totally out of the blue whilst we were fooling around. This has never happened before should I be worried?...

A.   10 March 2008: happens all the time!!!! trust me some times your mind in the mood but your body has other thoughts!!!... (read in full...)

I come fourth in his order of priorities. Shouldn't I be first?

Q.   we broke up and now he said when were together for the last 2weeks i wasnt his top piority , he sed his life was in the order of Job , Mates , Football , Me and then he asked for me back i asked why he said that "because everything else was dragging ...

A.   31 October 2007: i would like to thank dapone 1 and Ask Eve for thier help with my problem =)... (read in full...)

How do I bring up this subject to him.

Q.   HELP!!! i divorced my husband 3 years ago because it wasn't working out, we had been together since we were at school and always stayed in touch. Recently we have started seeing more of each other as friends but things are getting very close. We ...

A.   28 October 2007: i think you should take it sloowwlyyy... (read in full...)

Do I have a Daddy Complex?

Q.   I think i have a daddy complex and its really worrying me cos i don't know my dad, and now i feel attracted to older men when i was at school i fancied my teachers and now i'm at work i fancy my managers! so is it an authority figure thing or ...

A.   28 October 2007: maybe your just looking for a role model in your life?... (read in full...)

Do you think my relationship with my boyfriend will last?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 11 months and 5 days. So far eveything is okay but, the past months, I've been so mean to him and childish. I tried breaking up with him but he always asks why and doesn't leave me alone and I always end up ...

A.   8 September 2007: try explaining why you feel like it?? he seems to want you maybe you just want the drama ?But no your relationship will last if you both want it to and can sougth out problems. comunication is the key ... (read in full...)

He resents me going out in the day and my friends all say he is being unreasonable!!

Q.   Hiya everyone !, Im writin for some advice because for the past 6 weeks my 3 children have been off school for the summer holidays, and i also have my nephew during the school holidays so i've been stuck in the house most days. I have been really ...

A.   8 September 2007: you are your own women, i feel sorry for you , just cos ur a mum you are not a house bound ,or a cook or cleaner , going to the gym is ur chillout time , maybe he should help around the house for a change , go on strike lol , Put your foot down!!... (read in full...)

He's 24 and I'm 17 and wants to meet up. Is this too big an age gap?

Q.   I meet a guy a month ago..who's 24 i dont think he realised how old i was ( 17) when he came over started talking to me and asked for my number, i wasnt sure of his age either. A few weeks ago he added me on facebook and he saw how old i...

A.   8 September 2007: well , i can talk from very good experience , i was 14 and he was 22 lasted 1 year and 3 months , age gap just confused it all , then it ended up in court , hes not a bad person , all im saying is be careful , im 16 now i dont regret it but i do ... (read in full...)

I have double vision. Is this normal or might I need glasses?

Q.   I have double vision when i read sometimes or look at words. Is this normal? Later it goes away. Does this mean i have eye problems and need glasses?...

A.   8 September 2007: go to the optician , here in the UK if your 16-18 its free to have them tested , not sure about the US sorry? but you should go along and get them tested.... (read in full...)

My first love has broken up with me. Will I ever love again?

Q.   My first love has broken up with me, because she is going to university. She did this a couple of weeks ago. I think this is going to hurt me for some time to come yet, and I just wonder; will I love again? It feels like never. I know this isn't ...

A.   8 September 2007: i know it feels you will never love again , you will in time , you will have many more loves , your first is never the right one , go out , have fun and meet some lovely people x... (read in full...)

My boyfriend left because he didnt love me anymore. He's only come back because he fell out with his dad. All I want is him to love me again.

Q.   Ive been with my boyfriend coming up 6 years this month but for the last couple of months things have been really bad between us. He told me that he didnt love me anymore and he moved out for 3 weeks then he moved back in as he fell out with his ...

A.   8 September 2007: i agree the with the above he is loving you as he has no where else to go , stand up for your self girl ,talk to him , it may hurt , but follow your heart , and whats best for your self and your kids... (read in full...)

I was off school 1 day and my best friend found a new best friend. I miss her. What can I do?

Q.   Well I met this girl and she became my bestfriend and we have done everything together ever since and one day I was Ill so I didnt go to school and then when I came back , she has a new bestfriend. She still talks to me but shes mostly with her new ...

A.   8 September 2007: i assure you youre not over reacting , talk to her , if it really upsets you try telling some one at school like a teacher , its not babyish or "tell tailing" explain to the girl you want to be her friend , if not move on and be happy =)... (read in full...)

My bloke is moving away and someone else has asked me out. Should I go?

Q.   Hi everyone I really hope you can help. I have been seeing a guy from work for a few months, we get on great and I really enjoy spending time with him but it has been fairly casual as he is moving away in a few weeks for a new job. I have hinted ...

A.   8 September 2007: i shall start with the positives , long distance realtionships do work , but some times its nice to have some once close to you , maybe you should ask the guy you are seeing , if it wants you or not thats what it boils down to the end of the day , ... (read in full...)

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