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writes:My first love has broken up with me, because she is going to university. She did this a couple of weeks ago. I think this is going to hurt me for some time to come yet, and I just wonder; will I love again? It feels like never. I know this isn't true, but we had a great relationship. We were together for 3 years, and it felt like forever. It was wonderful.Will I love again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI really worry she will find somebody while she's away... And fast as well. I know it isn't my business anymore, because she's away from me now, she can do whatever she wants, but I think it's going to take me a while to find somebody new.. or like her. She's a gorgeous girl, and even now I can picture her with another guy... It's eating me up.I'm really not looking forward to starting a new relationship. I'd like to be in one, but I wish I didn't have to start from scratch! I want somebody who I already know inside and out, and she the same to me... I guess I'm walking into reality, and it feels a bit like a brick wall.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2007): Yes, you will. Maybe you won't love exactly how you loved her, in the exact same manner, in the end every love is different. But it will happen again, when you will be ready to feel it again. So long as you are willing to, and you don't close all streets that lead to your heart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2007): "If I had never loved, I never would have cried....I am a ROCK,...I am an ISLAND!"... You loved, which means you can. You will love and be loved again. You are how old? 18, 19? Ach! Mein Gott! Du Lieber Junger!
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reader, shoe_lover +, writes (8 September 2007):
 i know it feels you will never love again , you will in time , you will have many more loves , your first is never the right one , go out , have fun and meet some lovely people x
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2007): You know the answer to this is yes. It just takes time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 September 2007): Of course you will! Like you said, this was your 'first love' so dont worry ... you will probably have a second, third and many more loves. Get in touch with your mates, go out and have some fun. Enjoy being single and I promise you will meet some lovely ladies
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