He's giving me mixed signals! Is he just being friendly or does he like me?
Q. There's this guy and he's giving me mixed signals! I catch him staring at me sometimes, and he's always friendly and saying hello, and he always gives me his fave foods when he has them. And he's ALWAYS teasing me. It sounds like he like me, but I ...
A. 10 March 2010: This guy definitely is interested in you...he has been giving you all the signals that you want...maybe he's shy that's why he has not made any direct move yet. You must directly appraoch him, what's the worst that could happen huh? He will say that ... (read in full...)
Why does my husband still want sex from me if we have been separated for 3 years?
Q. why does my husband want sex from me if we have been separated 3 years now and says he wants a divorce? we have 4 beautiful children together and he says he wants a divorce because i cheated on him. i take full responsability for what i've done. we ...
A. 10 March 2010: I have read the replies before me and I feel that Angzw's advice is the best to follow. As she says, you must talk to your husband directly and gauge his feelings directly. You are not his sex-slave, someone he can take for granted. Like Angzw says, ... (read in full...)
Is this just a crush or have I really fallen in love with a married man?
Q. i like a man who is 10 years my senior. he told me that he always quarrel with his wife . both of us are married with children. when he look at me i try to escape his eyes for fear that i might give myself away. he doesnt know that i like him. so ...
A. 10 March 2010: My dear lady, reply to your first question - cannot really say whether you love the concerned man or not (you have not given more details) but based on what you have, it seems more like you pity him rather than love him. Also before you do anything, ... (read in full...)
Torn between the army and having a baby...
Q. i'm 20 years old and im about to join the army. I have never thought about having a baby before. I always said i didnt want one. But for the past few months everyone seems to be getting pregnant around me and its making me want one myself. My mom ...
A. 8 March 2010: Some things to consider before you make any decision. You have given a very short preface about your situation. Based on what you've written, you were not really into babies but were quite certain in the way you wanted your future to be, right? Only ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to watch blue films with a friend?
Q. i am in a committed relationship.i and my bf really love and understand each other.well one of my close friend asked me to watch blue films with him.just for fun.i don't know what to do.is it ok to watch a blue film with my friend?we are just ...
A. 2 March 2010: Things always start small. You have said that you already have a BF and that you talked to him regarding this matter and that he was cool with it. Even I would have been cool with it cause it is just "watching" a blue film, that's all BUT you have ... (read in full...)
Sould I stop talking to this married man for good?
Q. Hey, I need your help. Please don't be so mean against me when you read my story, because we all make bad choices and I never planned on being with a married man nor do,I want to break up anyone's marriage. So, here's the story. Some years bac...
A. 25 February 2010: As you have clearly surmised, this gentleman is just playing around with you. You are his "passing cloud". You must dump this guy and tell him not to contact you ever again. I mean half of your life's already gone, the other half should be fun and ... (read in full...)
I am jealous of his female friends and I hate his porn watching!
Q. I have been with a guy for about 9 months, and though he he treats me well and makes me feel special, I found out while being with him iam extremely insecure and jealous. Him also being in a pretty well known band makes it worse for me, even though ...
A. 25 February 2010: Dear friend, First of all you need to relax with your insecurities. The most important thing is that he treats you well and makes you feel special (as you've written), ergo he does care for you a lot. That is something very positive... (read in full...)
We have been together for 9 years but he is taking another woman out for Valentines Day!
Q. Hi AUnts and Uncles. I'm really distraught because my boyfriend told me a few days ago, after an argument, that he is going out with another woman (from work) tomorrow for Valentine Night and that he is going to 'stay over' at her place. We ...
A. 13 February 2010: Hi,
I have seen the replies till now and all are females. So as the first from the opposite side let me say at the outset, that I feel like kicking ur bf (shud be EX, please!) up his backside. He is an ass who has not clearly seen the value in y... (read in full...)
I seriously need some career advice.
Q. Hi everyone, I seriously need some career advice. For 10 years now, I've worked in admin in various roles in corporate companies. Last year, I gave up the 9-5 slog and studied journalism fulltime.. thinking this would give me the chance to ha...
A. 13 February 2010: Hi,
Can you afford to quit or is this job very important to you? If you can, then quit and look for a job elsewhere. Your colleagues are trampling upon you. This is not fair. I was in the same field and worked for both print and broadcast, so I... (read in full...)
How can I get past my fears of being in a relationship?
Q. Dear cupid, I am a 27 year old woman, virgin, and has never been in a relationship. My longest relationship was for 2 months. Every time I meet someone, I freak out and end the relationship. I hate this about myself. This is the one thing I am m...
A. 11 February 2010: dear friend,
my take is that you shud take some professional help and conselling. Whatever has happened in your past is your past, you cannot and must not let it dictate your future. I feel for you, and I know that it is not easy to find... (read in full...)
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